

You Are What You Eat...
You Are What You Eat Whatever you feed grows. Whatever you starve dies—even in marriage. Jim and Julie unpack the quiet lies we may unintentionally feed every day—“he will never change,” “she doesn’t appreciate me ”—and how those thoughts slowly steer a relationship off course. What happens whe…

Marriage Advice on Reddit?
Marriage Advice on Reddit? In this episode, find out about Jim’s awesome, super athletic move he made at Easter and then Jim and Julie tackle the tricky (and tempting) habit of venting about your spouse to others. When is it okay to bring in outside help—and when does it quietly chip away at trus…

Unwritten Rules: IYKYK...
Unwritten Rules: IYKYK Wedding vows: Beautiful. Romantic. Completely incomplete. Because no one mentions the real stuff—like whose side of the bed is legally protected territory or how one sigh can start a full-blown debate. Julie and Jim dive into the unwritten rules that somehow became non-negot…

Feels So Right
Feels So Right In this episode, Julie and Jim break down the 5 neuroscience clues your body gives when you’re with the right partner—from the chemistry of smell to the magic of touch. Turns out love isn’t just blind… it’s biological. So if your partner smells weirdly amazing and their voice calms …

Pain Potential and Personality Types....
Pain Potential and Personality Types In this episode Julie’s seeing double, then we take a detour into what suffering might be trying to teach us, debating whether you can truly spot potential and if “Otrovert” is a real personality type.

The Smell Test...
The Smell Test... Julie and Jim follow their noses into the strange world of smell. Why do some people secretly love the scent of gasoline or skunk while everyone else is gagging? It turns out our noses detect particles in the air—but our brains turn those particles into nostalgia. Julie and Jim …

Man Rules?
Man Rules? Jim is running the show tonight and he has some new “Man Rules” he would like to propose.

Pretty Please
Pretty Please Jim & Julie dive into intellectual intimacy. They’re talking curiosity, disagreements without disrespect , and why great conversation is so sexy.

Couples that Play Together Stay Together
Couples that Play Together Stay Together Experiential intimacy isn’t just about candlelight and slow jams — it’s about shared moments, spontaneous adventures, and holding hands for a walk around the block. Julie and Jim talk date nights, routines, breaking out of autopilot, and the real question: …

Married with Benefits ...
Married with Benefits Physical intimacy in marriage. Yes, we’re going there. Julie and Jim break down how connection in the bedroom actually starts everywhere else. Warning: may cause spontaneous hand-holding.