This episode explores demand and non-demand intimacy. Emily explains what is happening when not only sex has decreased, but physical touch and intimacy have decreased too.

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This episode explores demand and non-demand intimacy. Emily explains what is happening when not only sex has decreased, but physical touch and intimacy have decreased too.
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That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

That's Orgasmic

178 Why touch can disappear in relationships

Orgasms are not a finish line - they’re a state of being, and most women/AFAB have been taught the wrong way to access them. Sex and relationship therapist Emily sits down with sensual embodiment coach Emma Swain to unpack why so many people feel blocked, disappointed, or “not orgasmic,” and how to move from pressure and performance into real, sustained pleasure.

Emma challenges the idea that orgasm is just a physical peak and breaks it open into something much bigger: emotional release, energetic expansion, nervous system safety, and full-body surrender. If you’ve ever felt like your body “doesn’t work,” only orgasms with one specific method, or rushes straight to a quick climax and drops off, this conversation will shift the way you think about pleasure completely.

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Orgasms are not a finish line - they&rsquo;re a state of being, and most women/AFAB have been taught the wrong way to access them. Sex and relationship therapist Emily sits down with sensual embodiment coach Emma Swain to unpack why so many people feel blocked, disappointed, or &ldquo;not orgasmic,&rdquo; and how to move from pressure and performance into real, sustained pleasure.
Emma challenges the idea that orgasm is just a physical peak and breaks it open into something much bigger: emotional release, energetic expansion, nervous system safety, and full-body surrender. If you&rsquo;ve ever felt like your body &ldquo;doesn&rsquo;t work,&rdquo; only orgasms with one specific method, or rushes straight to a quick climax and drops off, this conversation will shift the way you think about pleasure completely.
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Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call&nbsp;<a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/booking">HERE</a> with Emily at <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/">The Sexual Wellness Centre</a>

192 You’re already orgasmic, how to remove the blocks to reach orgasm with Emma Swain

Women are being told to wait, stay quiet, and keep their desires small, but what if pleasure could be something you choose on your own terms? Anna Grosman, founder of Her Confidant, shares how she built Australia’s only female-led agency offering curated intimate experiences for women and couples, and why more women than ever are quietly reclaiming intimacy, confidence, and connection.

From her own journey growing up in a conservative family to creating two businesses in this space, Anna opens up about the stigma she’s fighting, the women she serves, and the life-changing conversations happening before a booking ever takes place. She explains how Her Confidant works, why every client begins with a deeply personal consultation, and how the experience is designed to feel safe, respectful, and fully tailored from start to finish.

You’ll discover:
What sexual experiences at Her Confidant look like
How Anna matches clients with companions using intuition, experience, and careful screening
The role trauma awareness, consent, and trust play in creating a safe sexual experience
Why some clients say this experience has done more for them than years of therapy
How intimacy, touch, and pleasure can support confidence at every age

Anna Grosman is the founder of Her Confidant, Australia’s only female-led agency providing curated intimate experiences for women and couples. 

 

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Her Confidant Website

Her Confidant LinkedIn

Women are being told to wait, stay quiet, and keep their desires small, but what if pleasure could be something you choose on your own terms? Anna Grosman, founder of <a href="https://herconfidant.com.au/contact-us/">Her Confidant</a>, shares how she built Australia&rsquo;s only female-led agency offering curated intimate experiences for women and couples, and why more women than ever are quietly reclaiming intimacy, confidence, and connection.
From her own journey growing up in a conservative family to creating two businesses in this space, Anna opens up about the stigma she&rsquo;s fighting, the women she serves, and the life-changing conversations happening before a booking ever takes place. She explains how Her Confidant works, why every client begins with a deeply personal consultation, and how the experience is designed to feel safe, respectful, and fully tailored from start to finish.
You&rsquo;ll discover:
<ul>
<li>What sexual experiences at Her Confidant look like</li>
<li>How Anna matches clients with companions using intuition, experience, and careful screening</li>
<li>The role trauma awareness, consent, and trust play in creating a safe sexual experience</li>
<li>Why some clients say this experience has done more for them than years of therapy</li>
<li>How intimacy, touch, and pleasure can support confidence at every age</li>
</ul>
Anna Grosman is the founder of <a href="https://herconfidant.com.au/contact-us/">Her Confidant</a>, Australia&rsquo;s only female-led agency providing curated intimate experiences for women and couples.&nbsp;
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Get the <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/product-page/ultimate-sexual-wellness-bundle">Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle</a> (all my resources/ebooks!!)
Want 10% off <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/category/all-products">store products</a>? Use code thatsorgasmic10
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Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call&nbsp;<a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/booking">HERE</a> with Emily at <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/">The Sexual Wellness Centre</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/herconfidant.au/">Her Confidant Instagram</a>
<a href="https://herconfidant.com.au/contact-us/">Her Confidant Website</a>
<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/herconfidant/posts/">Her Confidant LinkedIn</a>

191 Why women pay for sex - the experience of hiring an escort with Anna Grosman

Welcome to the first episode of Ask a Sexologist, where listeners send in their questions, stories and dilemmas, and Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, weighs in.

Today's episode explores catfishing.

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Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre

Welcome to the first episode of Ask a Sexologist, where listeners send in their questions, stories and dilemmas, and Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, weighs in.
Today's episode explores catfishing.
<a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast">Submit your anonymous question for the podcast</a>
&nbsp;
Get the <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/product-page/ultimate-sexual-wellness-bundle">Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle</a> (all my resources/ebooks!!)
Want 10% off <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/category/all-products">store products</a>? Use code thatsorgasmic10
Anonymous question link: <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast">https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast</a>
FOLLOW US on Instagram&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/thatsorgasmic/">@thatsorgasmic</a> Send your comments, questions and stories to: <a href="mailto:emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com">emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com</a>
Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call&nbsp;<a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/booking">HERE</a> with Emily at <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/">The Sexual Wellness Centre</a>

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