194 Exploring your dominant energy in the bedroom with Amanda Dames - The Kink Consultant

In this episode, Emily talks with Amanda Dames, the Kink Consultant, about kink, dominance, and how to explore desires safely and authentically. They discuss: Amanda’s journey from working as a dominatrix to becoming a sexologist and coach Different dominant styles, including soft dom, caretaker, a…

193 I want to date women but I'm experiencing shame - Ask A Sexologist

Shame around queer desire does not disappear just because you want it to. If you were raised in the church and are now trying to explore dating women for the first time, this episode gives you a practical way to untangle what was taught to you from what you actually want. Emily, a sex and relation…

192 You’re already orgasmic, how to remove the blocks to reach orgasm with Emma Swain

Orgasms are not a finish line - they’re a state of being, and most women/AFAB have been taught the wrong way to access them. Sex and relationship therapist Emily sits down with sensual embodiment coach Emma Swain to unpack why so many people feel blocked, disappointed, or “not orgasmic,” and how to…

191 Why women pay for sex - the experience of hiring an escort with Anna Grosman

Women are being told to wait, stay quiet, and keep their desires small, but what if pleasure could be something you choose on your own terms? Anna Grosman, founder of Her Confidant, shares how she built Australia’s only female-led agency offering curated intimate experiences for women and couples, …

190 Dickfishing - Ask A Sexologist

Welcome to the first episode of Ask a Sexologist, where listeners send in their questions, stories and dilemmas, and Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, weighs in. Today's episode explores catfishing. Submit your anonymous question for the podcast   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle …

189 Why do people get turned on by humiliation? with Sexologist Lex Nyree

Emily is joined by sexologist and sex educator Lex Nyree to unpack humiliation kinks. They cover what counts as humiliation versus degradation, why some people are drawn to it, and how to explore it without crossing into harm. The conversation also goes deep on consent, aftercare, and why having th…

188 Missionary sex shouldn’t be boring, if it is, you’re doing it wrong

In this episode, Emily explores how to spice up the missionary position. Missionary can get a bad rap, dismissed as boring or too vanilla, but it doesn't have to be. Emily shares 8 ways to bring more pleasure, connection and excitement into missionary, proving there's way more to this position than…

187 Why you keep dating the wrong people with Dr. Gillian O’Shea Brown

Why do we keep choosing the wrong partners — even when we know better? In this episode of That’s Orgasmic, Emily sits down with psychotherapist and professor Dr. Gillian O’Shea Brown to unpack the unconscious patterns that draw us toward emotionally unavailable relationships, familiar chaos, and un…

186 What makes someone good at sex? (It's not experience)

Think being good at sex comes from having lots of experience? Think again. In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the biggest myths about sex: that the more sex you have had, the better you'll be in bed. The truth is, great sex has everything to do with communication, curiosity, connection, an…

185 Why do I like my sex toy more than partnered sex?

This episode explores the listener question, "I bought a toy and I'm honestly a little embarrassed about how much I like it more than partnered sex. Does that mean something's wrong?" Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsor…