Happy Pride, Messy Mob!! Writer, comedian Taylor Tomlinson came to play! Brandon and "Tay Tay" imagine a hypothetical "queer-platonic" marriage, debate location sharing etiquette, and Taylor shares one of the most surprising turns a hookup has ever taken in Messy's history. Plus: a listener sends a letter about being rejected by their church community after coming out — and how to grieve a community that won't grieve you back. 

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Happy Pride, Messy Mob!! Writer, comedian Taylor Tomlinson came to play! Brandon and "Tay Tay" imagine a hypothetical "queer-platonic" marriage, debate location sharing etiquette, and Taylor shares one of the most surprising turns a hookup has ever taken in Messy's&nbsp;history. Plus: a listener sends a letter about being rejected by their church community after coming out &mdash; and how to grieve a community that won't grieve you back.&nbsp;
📩&nbsp;Got something messy you want Brandon to weigh in on? Tell us anonymously a SomethingMessy.com, and join us on <a href="youtube.com/brandonkgood">YouTube</a>&nbsp;and Substack:&nbsp;brandonkylegoodman.substack.com

Tell Me Something Messy is your unfiltered companion for relationships, adulting, and defeating shame! Each week, writer and comedian Brandon Kyle Goodman invites listeners (aka Messy Patrons) to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wonderfully unhinged world of dating, personal growth, and getting comfortable with disappointing your mom! (Seriously, it’s okay!) With candid guests and plenty of messy giggles, BKG spills the kind of piping hot tea that compassionately emboldens listeners to say the quiet things out loud and embrace their messiest truths!

Don’t be shy baby, tell us something messy! 

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Tell Me Something Messy is your unfiltered companion for relationships, adulting, and defeating shame! Each week, writer and comedian Brandon Kyle Goodman invites listeners (aka Messy Patrons) to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wonderfully unhinged world of dating, personal growth, and getting comfortable with disappointing your mom! (Seriously, it&rsquo;s okay!) With candid guests and plenty of messy giggles, BKG spills the kind of piping hot tea that compassionately emboldens listeners to say the quiet things out loud and embrace their messiest truths!
Don&rsquo;t be shy baby, tell us something messy!&nbsp;
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Tell Me Something Messy: Relationships, Mental Health & Personal Growth

Happy Pride! Taylor Tomlinson discusses queerplatonic partnerships, psychadelics, being gay in church, and a hookup confession that deserves its own emergency group chat.

The 'Toy Story' Hookup, Pick-Me Burnout & Inner Child Healing w/ Taylor Tomlinson

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Summer House Drama and Love Island

The Appeal of Bravo Shows and Summer House

Summer House Recap:  Don't Fk Your Bestie's Ex

White Privilege and Public Scrutiny

Sarah Jones Interview on Self-Compliments and

Summer is here, and Brandon is clearing the calendar for reality TV. Starting with this episode, the messy bonuses are going all-in on the shows running our brains into rot all season — Bravo's Summer House reunion, Love Island USA Season 7 with Ariana Madix hosting, and whatever other reality TV chaos the universe coughs up between now and Labor Day.

And to close out, bonus footage from our episode with Sarah Jones (Tony-winning artist, host of America, Who Hurt You?) on receiving compliments without flinching, being a recovering perfectionist, and why "messy" is the most healed version of yourself.

📩 Got something messy you want Brandon to weigh in on? Tell us anonymously a SomethingMessy.com

Summer is here, and Brandon is clearing the calendar for reality TV. Starting with this episode, the messy bonuses are going all-in on the shows running our brains into rot all season &mdash; Bravo's Summer House reunion, Love Island USA Season 7 with Ariana Madix hosting, and whatever other reality TV chaos the universe coughs up between now and Labor Day.
And to close out, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-TrA-Nleyo">bonus footage from our episode with Sarah Jones</a> (Tony-winning artist, host of America, Who Hurt You?) on receiving compliments without flinching, being a recovering perfectionist, and why "messy" is the most healed version of yourself.
📩 Got something messy you want Brandon to weigh in on? Tell us anonymously a SomethingMessy.com

Summer is here, and Brandon is clearing the calendar for reality TV. Starting with this episode, the messy bonuses are going all-in on the shows running our brains into rot all season — Bravo's Summer House reunion, Love Island USA Season 7 with Ariana Madix hosting, and whatever other reality TV chaos the universe coughs up between now and Labor Day.

Your Bestie's Ex Is NOT The One, Hun—Summer House Reunion, Love Island Begins, Trump's Loser Convention, and Tony Award-winning Sarah Jones on Perfectionism—Messy Bonus

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Sarah Jones came to the couch and left us speechless. The Tony-winning performer gets radically honest about how she's been "cheating" on every partner—not with another person, but with a fantasy version of who they could become. From there, we spiral into the messy truth about workaholism as a post-traumatic inherited response (yes, she connects it all the way back), and why Trisha Hersey's Rest Is Resistance is the book that changed everything. We dig into messy mail from a listener carrying heartbreak they can't shake, and Sarah delivers the kind of advice that will inspire you to write the text you're waiting for him to send, and send it to yourself. Plus: grief doesn't come with a timeline, quitting is a boss move, therapy shouldn't be your whole identity, and a whispered truth like soup for the soul.

Sarah Jones came to the couch and left us speechless. The Tony-winning performer gets radically honest about how she's been "cheating" on every partner&mdash;not with another person, but with a fantasy version of who they could become. From there, we spiral into the messy truth about workaholism as a post-traumatic inherited response (yes, she connects it all the way back), and why Trisha Hersey's&nbsp;Rest Is Resistance is the book that changed everything. We dig into messy mail from a listener carrying heartbreak they can't shake, and Sarah delivers the kind of advice that will inspire you to write the text you're waiting for him to send, and send it to yourself. Plus: grief doesn't come with a timeline, quitting is a boss move, therapy shouldn't be your whole identity, and a whispered truth like soup for the soul.

Sarah Jones reveals she's been cheating on every partner with their potential, unpacks how workaholism is really inherited trauma from enslaved ancestors, and drops the self-love hack of texting yourself the message you're waiting for someone else to send.

I Cheated on Every Partner—With Their Potential: Love, Rest & Workaholism w/ Tony Award-Winning Sarah Jones

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Brandon has questions, concerns, and possibly a group chat theory. Drake just gave us what feels like a 43-song therapy session, and Brandon would like to know who’s taking notes, who’s holding space, and whether snacks were provided. Also, if you didn’t vote, this may not be your safe space right now.

This Memorial Day Weekend Messy Bonus also features a clip from Brandon’s conversation with Dr. Vanessa Marin on cheating with AI Girlfriends, and a longevity study. Then Brandon makes the case again for scheduling sex — because “spontaneous” is cute until everyone is tired, booked, resentful, and lying.

Stay for the Waymo conspiracy theory. Don’t ask questions. Just listen.

Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com

Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com 

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Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com

Brandon has questions, concerns, and possibly a group chat theory. Drake just gave us what feels like a 43-song therapy session, and Brandon would like to know who&rsquo;s taking notes, who&rsquo;s holding space, and whether snacks were provided. Also, if you didn&rsquo;t vote, this may not be your safe space right now.
This Memorial Day Weekend Messy Bonus also features a clip from Brandon&rsquo;s conversation with Dr. Vanessa Marin on cheating with <a href="https://vmtherapy.com/episode222">AI Girlfriends,</a>&nbsp;and a longevity study. Then Brandon makes the case again for scheduling sex &mdash; because &ldquo;spontaneous&rdquo; is cute until everyone is tired, booked, resentful, and lying.
Stay for the Waymo conspiracy theory. Don&rsquo;t ask questions. Just listen.
Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com
Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com&nbsp;
Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood
Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com

Drake's 43-song revenge era, voting, Dr. Vanessa Marin on AI infidelity and scheduling sex.

AI Boyfriends Are Cheating & Spontaneous Sex Is Overrated — Messy Bonus

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The 'Toy Story' Hookup, Pick-Me Burnout & Inner Child Healing w/ Taylor Tomlinson

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