About the Guest:

Dr. Patricia Weerakoon is a renowned sexologist, author, and speaker known for her expertise in human sexuality, relationships, and sexual health. She has an extensive background in clinical practice and academic teaching, delivering lectures and seminars worldwide. Dr. Weerakoon has authored numerous books and articles on sexual health and is known for integrating scientific knowledge with relational and ethical insights.

Key Takeaways:

• Fluidity in Sexual Orientations: Women's sexual orientations can often be more fluid, leading to shifts in preferences over time.

• Mixed Orientation Marriages: In these heterosexual marriages, where one spouse is same-sex attracted, can still thrive with open communication and mutual respect.

• Social and Emotional Impact: Discovering a spouse's changed sexual orientation or gender identity affects not just the couple but the entire family unit.

• Importance of Community Support: Churches and social groups can offer crucial support in dealing with these complex changes.

• Communication is Key: Open dialogue and possibly counseling can help navigate the emotional landscape of shifting sexual orientations and gender identities.

Notable Quotes:

1. "You get up in the morning and you find a pansexual next to you. It’s almost like you get up in the morning and you find a turkey next to you or something." - Dr. Patricia Weerakoon

2. "Women are more fluid in their sexual orientation, and therefore, it could actually be looking at, I'm bored with my husband, and here’s my best friend." - Dr. Patricia Weerakoon

3. "Men from about their teenage years are actually turned on by the feeling, the fantasy of themselves as a woman." - Dr. Patricia Weerakoon

4. "We worship a good God. There are couples who are mixed orientation marriages doing really well." - Dr. Patricia Weerakoon

5. "Human beings are kind of fabulously amazing that we care more about the human being, especially women." - Dr. Amelia Haines

Resources:

• Dr. Patricia Weerakoon's Website: Patricia Weerakoon | Christian Sexologist & Author

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