In this episode, we’re getting brutally honest about something no one wants to admit — sometimes… you’re the problem. Before you panic, take a breath — this isn’t about shame. It’s about power. We’re diving into the blame game: why we point fingers at our job, our partner, our past, or our friendships — and how that blame secretly keeps us stuck, small, and spiraling.
We unpack the real reason it feels so hard to take ownership and how most people weaponise responsibility against themselves instead of using it as a tool for transformation.
Ashy shares how blaming her stepdad held her back for years, and Tijana opens up about blaming everything around her — from work to relationships — until she finally reclaimed her life through radical ownership. If you’re ready to stop outsourcing your peace and start shifting your patterns, this is the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed. It might sting — but it’ll set you free.
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