On this bestie advice segment we're holding space for a woman who has already survived more than most people could imagine. She escaped an abusive marriage with two babies, one of them medically complex, and rebuilt a life she genuinely loves. Now her fiancé's 13 year old daughter has been diagnosed with bone cancer and she's watching the man she adores go through the worst thing a parent can face — while carrying everything else on her own shoulders. She's not asking for anything for herself. She's asking how to hold him. Bestie, we need to talk about who's holding you.