On this week’s Bestie Advice segment, we dive into the unexpected layers of grief. It’s not just the tears, it’s the loneliness, the identity shift, and the terrifying question of “who am I now?” After losing the love of 30 years, our listener shares what it’s like to suddenly face life alone and not recognise herself outside of being a wife. We unpack what it means to begin again, to rebuild when the life you knew is gone, and how to find yourself in a version you’ve never met before.