Key Takeaways:

• Independence is Key: Teenagers naturally drift away from parents as they seek independence, making this a crucial but challenging time for both.
• Adaptability is Essential: Parents must adapt to their teen’s rapidly changing behaviors and needs, understanding their own frustrations.
• Balancing Control and Connection: It is important to maintain connection over controlling every aspect of a teen's life, emphasizing trust and openness.
• Acknowledging Grief and Growth: Parents can acknowledge their feelings of loss and foreboding while celebrating the new person their teen is becoming.
• Communication is Paramount: Establish a communication style that respects the evolving needs of teens, guiding them without dictating.

Notable Quotes:

• "It's hard because you care. It's hard because you love them."
• "The goal shifts from being involved in everything really just to thinking in your mind. I'm available for anything that they need."
• "If parenting your teen feels hard, it doesn't necessarily mean that something's wrong."
• "Give ourselves permission to feel those things that worry, that sadness, that excitement."
• "Influence comes through connection, conversations, trust."

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Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice.

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