Key Takeaways:

• Teens distancing from parents is a normal developmental phase as they seek independence.
• Parents should provide a "steady presence" and adapt to their teen's communication preferences.
• Emotional regulation and repair after conflicts are vital to maintaining trust.
• Giving teens some control over their choices within healthy boundaries can foster connection.
• Family connection, though on the teen's terms, remains crucial for their overall life satisfaction.

Notable Quotes:

1. "Pulling back is often part of building independence, and it's how teens practice being separate, capable people."
2. "Very often, the closeness returns once the emotional storm has passed."
3. "Connection still matters. It's often more on our teens' terms, but connection is what we need to be fighting for as parents."
4. "You will know your teen best. You will know what works well."
5. "Even well-intentioned advice can land as criticism when emotions are high."

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Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice.

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