Sibling rivalry is something many of us grow up with. The comparisons, the competition, the quiet battles for attention and approval. But what happens when those tensions don’t start between siblings but are shaped, reinforced even if it's unintentionally by the very people meant to guide us? We are in conversation with Relationship and Transformation Coach, Mamanese Matlabe on how do you resolve sibling rivalry when your parents are the instigators? And how do you begin to rebuild understanding where division once lived?