I’ve been talking to this girl online for months now. We’ve zoomed and talked on the phone, but never met in person. We’ve been talking about getting together in person for a while now, but I don’t know what the best way to do it would be. Neither of us can take much time off of work right now, but we could meet for a weekend. I live in a small town in KZN and she lives outside Heidelberg in Gauteng. She wants me to drive all the way to KZN but I don’t think that’s fair… How should I handle the meet-up? What should the rules be so that it’s fair on both side?