What do you do when your partner isn’t the person you fell for? Jennifer is joined by Doireann O’Connor and comedians Ger Mullins and Breda Hegarty to answer your sex and relationship dilemmas. Plus: a dad’s new girlfriend takes down Mam’s photo, and is it OK to bring someone you’ve only just met to a family wedding to split the costs?

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What do you do when your partner isn’t the person you fell for? Jennifer is joined by Doireann O’Connor and comedians Ger Mullins and Breda Hegarty to answer your sex and relationship dilemmas. Plus: a dad’s new girlfriend takes down Mam’s photo, and is it OK to bring someone you’ve only just met to a family wedding to split the costs? We want to earn your trust and are members of the Trust Project. See our ethics policies at independent.ie/ourjournalism.

‘A psychic told my wife I’m not the one’: Dear Jen, your sex and relationship dilemmas – Part 1

Ian Lynam was 13 when he started growing breasts. Doireann O’Connor jokes she’s still waiting for hers. Now that chicken fillets are out and natural everything is in, Jennifer asks who decides what a normal chest looks like. They get into male breast reduction surgery, stuffing bras for the disco, and how looksmaxxing and filters keep raising the bar.

Ian Lynam was 13 when he started growing breasts. Doireann O’Connor jokes she’s still waiting for hers. Now that chicken fillets are out and natural everything is in, Jennifer asks who decides what a normal chest looks like. They get into male breast reduction surgery, stuffing bras for the disco, and how looksmaxxing and filters keep raising the bar.

Man boobs, flat chests and the Wonderbra: who decides what’s normal? With comedian Ian Lynam

Mark T Cox learned to flirt set dancing in Clare, and now he’s here to teach the rest of us. He tells Jennifer why being direct beats a joke, what your backdrop says about your saucy pics, and how to stay safe online. Plus, Doireann is matched with an 80-something farmer at Lisdoonvarna.

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Mark T Cox learned to flirt set dancing in Clare, and now he’s here to teach the rest of us. He tells Jennifer why being direct beats a joke, what your backdrop says about your saucy pics, and how to stay safe online. Plus, Doireann is matched with an 80-something farmer at Lisdoonvarna.
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How to flirt in real life (and take a sexy pic)

Is liking a thirst trap cheating? What about keeping Hinge, texting your ex or getting a little too close to ChatGPT? Jennifer Zamparelli is joined by Damo Clark and Doireann O'Connor to tackle the gas, messy world of modern-day micro-cheating.

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Is liking a thirst trap cheating? What about keeping Hinge, texting your ex or getting a little too close to ChatGPT? Jennifer Zamparelli is joined by Damo Clark and Doireann O'Connor to tackle the gas, messy world of modern-day micro-cheating.
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These are the signs of micro-cheating in your relationship

Still waiting on a sorry that's never coming? Or apologising for everything except what matters? Leslie Shoemaker joins Jennifer to explain why the Irish over-apologise, why "I'm sorry you feel that way" is gaslighting, and what a real apology sounds like. Plus: Doireann O'Connor tries to quit her 50-a-day sorry habit, the friend who keeps cancelling, and whether you should ever go to bed angry. 

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Still waiting on a sorry that's never coming? Or apologising for everything except what matters? Leslie Shoemaker joins Jennifer to explain why the Irish over-apologise, why "I'm sorry you feel that way" is gaslighting, and what a real apology sounds like. Plus: Doireann O'Connor tries to quit her 50-a-day sorry habit, the friend who keeps cancelling, and whether you should ever go to bed angry.&nbsp;
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'That's gaslighting!': Why "I'm sorry you feel that way" isn't an apology

How do you keep the peace without building up resentment? And when is it time to say enough is enough? Jennifer is joined by Doireann O’Connor, Sinéad Culbert and Brian Gallagher to tackle your biggest in-law dilemmas, from mothers-in-law bringing unwanted food and commenting on what you eat, to fathers-in-law turning down the heating, starting DIY jobs and rearranging the dishwasher.

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How do you keep the peace without building up resentment? And when is it time to say enough is enough? Jennifer is joined by Doireann O’Connor, Sinéad Culbert and Brian Gallagher to tackle your biggest in-law dilemmas, from mothers-in-law bringing unwanted food and commenting on what you eat, to fathers-in-law turning down the heating, starting DIY jobs and rearranging the dishwasher.
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'She keeps commenting on how much I eat': How to deal with difficult mothers-in-law

Jennifer is joined by Rosie Wilby to talk about what happens when relationships end, from being dumped by email to finding ways of moving forward with compassion. The award-winning comedian and author of The Breakup Monologues explores what breakups can teach us about ourselves, why humour can help us through heartbreak, and whether staying friends with an ex is really possible.

To find out more about Rosie and her work: rosiewilby.com

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Jennifer is joined by Rosie Wilby to talk about what happens when relationships end, from being dumped by email to finding ways of moving forward with compassion. The award-winning comedian and author of The Breakup Monologues explores what breakups can teach us about ourselves, why humour can help us through heartbreak, and whether staying friends with an ex is really possible.
To find out more about Rosie and her work: <a href="https://www.rosiewilby.com/">rosiewilby.com</a>
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Is email the worst way to break up with someone?

Jennifer is joined by friend of the show Doireann O’Connor, comedian Julie Jay, and intimacy coach and sex educator Grace Alice Ó Sé to chat about dating, long-term relationships and listener dilemmas at the show’s first-ever live recording at Kildare Village.

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Jennifer is joined by friend of the show Doireann O’Connor, comedian Julie Jay, and intimacy coach and sex educator Grace Alice Ó Sé to chat about dating, long-term relationships and listener dilemmas at the show’s first-ever live recording at Kildare Village.
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 Just Between Us LIVE: icks, sexy texts and questionable selfies

What are Irish people really bringing to sex therapy? Jennifer is joined by Orlagh Reid, a psychotherapist specialising in clinical sexology to decode the bizarre riddles and everyday code words we bring to therapy, why some people wait decades before they book an appointment, and what's really going on behind closed doors.




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What are Irish people really bringing to sex therapy? Jennifer is joined by Orlagh Reid, a psychotherapist specialising in clinical sexology to decode the bizarre riddles and everyday code words we bring to therapy, why some people wait decades before they book an appointment, and what's really going on behind closed doors.
 
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What Irish people are REALLY confessing in sex therapy

From soft launches and couple posts to red flags and the bare minimum, social media has created a whole new relationship rulebook. Jennifer is joined by journalist Édaein O’Connell and comedian Ger Mullins to talk comparison, expectations, privacy versus secrecy — and what actually matters in a relationship when nobody else is watching.




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From soft launches and couple posts to red flags and the bare minimum, social media has created a whole new relationship rulebook. Jennifer is joined by journalist Édaein O’Connell and comedian Ger Mullins to talk comparison, expectations, privacy versus secrecy — and what actually matters in a relationship when nobody else is watching.
 
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Is hiding your relationship online a red flag?

The sex and relationships podcast from the Irish Independent

Just Between Us with Jennifer Zamparelli

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