How to explore your sexual fantasies without freaking each other out

We've all had a fantasy we've kept to ourselves, but should it stay there? Jen is joined by relationship and sex educator Aoife Murray to talk about the fantasies people actually have, why they're so common, and why talking about them doesn't have to be awkward. From BDSM and foot fetishes to comm…

Should everything be 50/50? Money in relationships

Who should pay on a first date, should couples split everything equally, and how much financial independence should each partner keep? Jennifer Zamparelli and matchmaker Mairead Loughman explore how money exposes our expectations around fairness, security and respect—from joint accounts and childca…

Blame your family: what childhood taught you about love

Long before our first kiss or heartbreak, our ideas about love were already taking shape at home. Jennifer is joined by Emma Kehoe, Brenda Dennehy and Kieran Corrigan for a funny and revealing chat about how siblings, birth order, school and the Irish mammy can shape our relationships. From eldest-…

Why we cheat: Dr Richard Hogan on the tell-tale signs of an affair

Why do good people cheat? Jennifer Zamparelli sits down with psychotherapist Dr. Richard Hogan to talk about the messy reality of infidelity and why it's rarely as simple as right or wrong. They chat about attachment styles, midlife, rebuilding trust, and whether a relationship can ever come back f…

She Comes First: Everything you need to know about oral sex and the clitoris

Most of us learned about sex in fragments through rumours, awkward conversations and a lot of guesswork. Twenty years after his bestselling book She Comes First changed the conversation around female pleasure, sex therapist Ian Kerner joins Jennifer for an honest, funny, and eye-opening chat about …

Broken penises, Chlamydia's comeback and what happens in the ER with Dr Philip Doyle

How long would you ignore a sexual health problem before getting it checked? For some people, the answer might surprise you. ­ This week, Jen is joined by Olympic rower, doctor Dr Philip Doyle for a funny and fascinating conversation about sexual health, STI testing, mental health, blue pills, br…

Are we living in a Black Mirror episode? | Shawna Scott on the sex apps you need to know about

This week Jennifer is joined by Shawna Scott, sex educator and owner of Ireland's multi-award-winning, sex-positive online boutique SexSiopa.ie. Together they explore the apps promising better sex, better communication and better relationships. From scheduling intimacy and sharing fantasies to app-…

Sorry, did you just fake that? An ex-people pleasers guide to getting better at sex & relationships.

Have you ever said “yeah, that’s fine” when it absolutely wasn’t fine? This week Jennifer is joined by sex and relationship coach Shannen Barry to unpack people-pleasing in all its forms. From overcommitting and avoiding confrontation to faking orgasms. Why do so many of us prioritise someone else’…

An experts guide to Dirty Talk: How to find your voice in the bedroom

Why does dirty talk feel so awkward for so many people, and how can it become a powerful tool for connection? This week Jen is joined by Somatica Institute founders Celeste Hirschman and Dr. Danielle Harel to explore the psychology behind sexy communication, core desires, and bedroom confidence. To…

Why we should all be masturbating much more | Sex Educator Olivia Teahan

Remember the birds and the bees chat? Yeah… neither do we. This week Jen is joined by sex educator Olivia Teahan to unpack the weird, funny and deeply awkward ways Irish people learned about sex or more accurately, didn’t. Funny, honest and surprisingly reassuring, this episode is all about learni…