We all say it: “I was so triggered.”
But what’s actually happening in our brain, body, and nervous system when that wave hits?

In this deeply honest and practical conversation, host Mel Histon, sits down with psychologist Kaz Amos to unpack the science and the soul of emotional triggers — why they happen, where they come from, and how we can finally heal them.

Mel shares powerful personal stories — from family conflict to cancer surgeries — revealing how past experiences can live quietly in the body for years before suddenly resurfacing. Kaz brings clarity and compassion, explaining the psychology behind reactivity, trauma, nervous system responses, and why our reactions often make sense when we understand our history.

You’ll learn:

• What a trigger really is (and why it’s not “being dramatic”)
• The difference between reacting and responding
• How childhood and family experiences shape our emotional wiring
• Why small moments can feel overwhelming
• The surprising ways trauma lives in the body
• Practical tools to calm yourself in the moment
• How Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) helps reframe thoughts
• What EMDR therapy is and how it helps heal trauma
• A simple SOS technique to regulate your nervous system fast
• Whether true emotional healing is possible

You are not broken. Your nervous system is trying to protect you.
And healing is possible.

🎧 Listen now and take the first step toward responding — not reacting.

Connect with Kaz:

• Follow Kaz on Instagram: kaz.amos
• Website: kazamos.com.au 
• Through the Hummingbird Centre for psychology sessions, workshops, and speaking engagements. Hummingbird Centre

Connect with Mel:

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• Follow Hey Soul Sista on Instagram: @heysoulsistapodcast
• Follow Mel on Instagram: @melissahiston
• Watch the podcast video on YouTube: @heysoulsista
• Website: heysoulsista.com