How do we keep that initial spark of romance and excitement alive that first draws people together? In this week's show, Lyn talks to relationship and life coach, Roula Salman, about the ways in which we can re-ignite the flame.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• People mistake the maturing of a relationship as the end of something, instead of it being the continuous growth between two people.
• By allowing ourselves to have a different perspective, we can discover that relationships do not have to fade. They can in fact become better and strengthen.
• Relationships require constant care, attention and work. It's not enough to simply begin a relationship and hope that it'll grow stronger. Both must work for it.
• Life is meant to be a joyous experience, and it is unfair of us to make others responsible for our happiness or to make others unhappy.
• When it comes to blame and negativity, always try to ask how you may have contributed to the situation and respond with empathy and understanding.

BEST MOMENTS

'It's important to understand the expectations of each individual'

'Instead of working on keeping the fire ignited, people give up'

'Your relationship is like a garden. It needs care on a daily basis'

'It takes courage to say "Yes, I made a mistake and I apologise"'

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ABOUT THE GUEST

Roula Salman is a Jay Shetty Certified Life and Success Coach who specializes in Relationships.

She was born in Jerusalem and moved to the United States with her family in 1984. She met her husband in Chicago and has been married to him for over 30 years, with four children.

After over 30 years of marriage, she can relate to most circumstances and especially understands the struggles of coping with cultural differences. She believes that the quality of your relationships contributes to your overall satisfaction in life and that you can learn to love yourself through your relationships with others. She acknowledges the importance of human interaction and connection, and that our positive relationships help drive our overall well-being.

Roula launched her coaching business in 2021 and is ambitious to assist others in their life journey. She empowers her clients to overcome obstacles, clarify thoughts and become the best versions of themselves to live a happy, healthy, and fulfilled life.

Contact Information

Email - roulasalman4@gmail.com

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Roulas-Relationship-Coaching-100759342110210

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/roula.salman/

ABOUT THE HOST

Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert

Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.

She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.

Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.

HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.

Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.

CONTACT METHOD

lyn@hearts-entwined.com