So your friends are getting married, and they’ve asked you to stand up at their wedding. . . in some ways, this can be a rite of passage for many grown-ups. It can feel like an honor. But it can also be a lot to take on, too. What are the actual expectations of a wedding attendant (i.e. bridesmaid, groomsman, MOH, or best man)? 

Lizzie Post from the Emily Post Institute returns to the podcast to teach Molly and Matt about the roles and responsibilities of a wedding party: Who’s included, what to budget for, and which events you actually need to attend. 



Cited Sources: 
“21 Surprising Historical Duties of the Wedding Party” - Mental Floss
“Couples Spend an Average of $33,391 on Weddings, Incorporating Cultural, Religious and Personalized Elements, According to The Knot 2017 Real Weddings Study” The Knot World Wide

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So your friends are getting married, and they’ve asked you to stand up at their wedding. . . in some ways, this can be a rite of passage for many grown-ups. It can feel like an honor. But it can also be a lot to take on, too. What are the actual expectations of a wedding attendant (i.e. bridesmaid, groomsman, MOH, or best man)? 
Lizzie Post from the Emily Post Institute returns to the podcast to teach Molly and Matt about the roles and responsibilities of a wedding party: Who’s included, what to budget for, and which events you actually need to attend. 
 
Cited Sources: 
<ul>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/57821/21-historical-roles-and-responsibilities-wedding-party">“21 Surprising Historical Duties of the Wedding Party”</a> - Mental Floss</li>
<li><a href="https://www.theknotww.com/press-releases/the-knot-2017-real-weddings-study-wedding-spend/">“Couples Spend an Average of $33,391 on Weddings, Incorporating Cultural, Religious and Personalized Elements, According to The Knot 2017 Real Weddings Study”</a> The Knot World Wide</li>
</ul>
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Do your eyes glaze over when looking at a long list of annual health insurance enrollment options – or maybe while you’re trying to calculate how much you owe the IRS? You might be wondering the same thing we are: Where’s the guidebook for all of this grown-up stuff? Whether opening a bank account, refinancing student loans, or purchasing car insurance (...um, can we just roll the dice without it?), we’re just as confused as you are. 

Enter: “Grown-Up Stuff: How to Adult” a podcast dedicated to explaining the complexities of adulthood for which most of us are woefully under-prepared. In each episode, we seek out folks who can actually help us start to make sense of all the basic life skills required to be, well, a grown-up.

Do your eyes glaze over when looking at a long list of annual health insurance enrollment options – or maybe while you’re trying to calculate how much you owe the IRS? You might be wondering the same thing we are: Where’s the guidebook for all of this grown-up stuff? Whether opening a bank account, refinancing student loans, or purchasing car insurance (...um, can we just roll the dice without it?), we’re just as confused as you are. 
Enter: “Grown-Up Stuff: How to Adult” a podcast dedicated to explaining the complexities of adulthood for which most of us are woefully under-prepared. In each episode, we seek out folks who can actually help us start to make sense of all the basic life skills required to be, well, a grown-up.

Grown-Up Stuff: How to Adult

How to be a Grown-Up Wedding Attendant

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Laundry is one of those core adulting skills we should all know how to do. And perhaps, you may be thinking “I’m good, I know how to do laundry.” Trust us; this episode of “Grown-Up Stuff: How to Adult” is still going to shock and surprise you when it comes to laundry. 

Molly and Matt are learning all about common laundry mistakes and helpful hacks from guest experts Kyshawn Lane (The Weekly Home Check on Instagram) and Patric Richardson A.K.A “The Laundry Evangelist” (Host of the TV show “The Laundry Guy,” and author of “Laundry Love”). 

Kyshawn and Patric share insights on the importance of properly maintaining washing machines and dryers, using the right amount of detergent, avoiding fabric softeners and dryer sheets, and staying present and not panicking about stains.

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Cited Sources: 
“Loads of Fun? Survey Finds Laundry Tops List of America’s Favorite Cleaning Tasks” - The American Cleaning Institute
“SWASH: Laundry Time” - OnePoll
“CDC —Phthalates Factsheet - b1” HHS and CDC
“Phthalates Fact Sheet” - Biomonitoring California
“This Chemical Can Impair Fertility, but It’s Hard to Avoid” - The New York Times
“How Often You Really Need to Wash Clothes to Keep Them Clean” - Real Simple

Laundry is one of those core adulting skills we should all know how to do. And perhaps, you may be thinking “I’m good, I know how to do laundry.” Trust us; this episode of “Grown-Up Stuff: How to Adult” is still going to shock and surprise you when it comes to laundry. 
Molly and Matt are learning all about common laundry mistakes and helpful hacks from guest experts <a href="https://www.instagram.com/weeklyhomecheck/?hl=en">Kyshawn Lane</a> (The Weekly Home Check on Instagram) and <a href="https://laundryevangelist.com/">Patric Richardson</a> A.K.A “The Laundry Evangelist” (Host of the TV show “The Laundry Guy,” and author of “Laundry Love”). 
Kyshawn and Patric share insights on the importance of properly maintaining washing machines and dryers, using the right amount of detergent, avoiding fabric softeners and dryer sheets, and staying present and not panicking about stains.
Do you have a topic or question you want to learn about on the podcast? Send us a note or voice memo to <a href="mailto:GrownUpStuffPod@gmail.com">GrownUpStuffPod@gmail.com</a> and we may feature your message on an upcoming episode. 
Cited Sources: 
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.cleaninginstitute.org/newsroom/releases/2019/loads-fun-survey-finds-laundry-tops-list-americas-favorite-cleaning-tasks">Loads of Fun? Survey Finds Laundry Tops List of America’s Favorite Cleaning Tasks</a>” - The American Cleaning Institute</li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.onepoll.us/portfolio/swash-laundry-time/#:~:text=The%20study%2C%20part%20of%20a,how%20to%20do%20laundry%20correctly.">SWASH: Laundry Time</a>” - OnePoll</li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://aspe.hhs.gov/cdc-phthalates-factsheet-b1#:~:text=The%20Phthalates%20Chemical%20Factsheet%20has,toys.%22%20CDC%20has%20posted%20an">CDC —Phthalates Factsheet - b1</a>” HHS and CDC</li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://biomonitoring.ca.gov/sites/default/files/downloads/FactSheet-Phthalates.pdf">Phthalates Fact Sheet</a>” - Biomonitoring California</li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2020/08/25/parenting/fertility-pregnancy-phthalates-toxic-chemicals.html">This Chemical Can Impair Fertility, but It’s Hard to Avoid</a>” - The New York Times</li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.realsimple.com/home-organizing/cleaning/laundry/how-often-should-i-wash-this">How Often You Really Need to Wash Clothes to Keep Them Clean</a>” - Real Simple</li>
</ul>

Laundry for Grown-Ups

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Are you ready to take on all the grown-up responsibilities of dog ownership? One of the best things about being an adult is you get to make all the decisions for yourself, like eating ice cream for dinner, staying up late to watch a scary movie and finally getting a puppy. But each of these decisions comes with responsibilities and consequences; the biggest of which is becoming a puppy parent. They’re cute and fluffy, loving and loyal, but they require your time, energy, attention and money. 

Matt and Molly are joined by certified professional dog trainer and dog behavior consultant Irith Bloom. Figure out just how much of your time, money, and home you should set aside for your new furry best friend. And learn some of the most important lessons to teach your dog. 

Cited Sources: 
“Industry Trends and Stats” - American Pet Products Association
“About Half of U.S. Owers Say Their Pets Are as Much a part of Their Family as a Human Member” - Pew Research Center
“The Cost of Dog Parenthood in 2024” - The Dog People Powered by Rover.com
“Cost of Dog Ownership Statistics 2024” - USA Today 
“81% of Pet Owners with Pet Insurance Report It’s Worth It” - Marketwatch
“Setting Schedules and Developing a Routine for Your New Puppy” - American Kennel Club
“Puppy Socialization: Why, When, and How to Do it Right” - American Kennel Club
“Visual Communication: How Different Breeds Seek Eye Contact” - American Kennel Club

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Are you ready to take on all the grown-up responsibilities of dog ownership? One of the best things about being an adult is you get to make all the decisions for yourself, like eating ice cream for dinner, staying up late to watch a scary movie and finally getting a puppy. But each of these decisions comes with responsibilities and consequences; the biggest of which is becoming a puppy parent. They’re cute and fluffy, loving and loyal, but they require your time, energy, attention and money. 
Matt and Molly are joined by certified professional dog trainer and dog behavior consultant <a href="https://thesophisticateddog.com/">Irith Bloom</a>. Figure out just how much of your time, money, and home you should set aside for your new furry best friend. And learn some of the most important lessons to teach your dog. 
Cited Sources: 
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.americanpetproducts.org/research-insights/industry-trends-and-stats">Industry Trends and Stats</a>” - American Pet Products Association</li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/07/07/about-half-us-of-pet-owners-say-their-pets-are-as-much-a-part-of-their-family-as-a-human-member/">About Half of U.S. Owers Say Their Pets Are as Much a part of Their Family as a Human Member</a>” - Pew Research Center</li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.rover.com/blog/cost-of-dog-parenthood/#:~:text=The%20annual%20costs%20of%20caring,average%20from%202023%20to%202024.">The Cost of Dog Parenthood in 2024</a>” - The Dog People Powered by Rover.com</li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.usatoday.com/money/blueprint/pet-insurance/how-much-does-a-dog-cost-per-year/">Cost of Dog Ownership Statistics 2024</a>” - USA Today </li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.marketwatch.com/guides/pet-insurance/pet-insurance-study-2023/">81% of Pet Owners with Pet Insurance Report It’s Worth It</a>” - Marketwatch</li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.akc.org/expert-advice/training/setting-schedules-and-developing-a-routine-for-your-new-puppy/#:~:text=Keep%20to%20a%20regular%20routine,puppy%20than%20one%20long%20one.">Setting Schedules and Developing a Routine for Your New Puppy</a>” - American Kennel Club</li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.akc.org/expert-advice/training/puppy-socialization/">Puppy Socialization: Why, When, and How to Do it Right</a>” - American Kennel Club</li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.akc.org/expert-advice/lifestyle/dog-breeds-seek-eye-contact-differently/#:~:text=Staring%20into%20your%20dog%27s%20eyes,we%20look%20at%20our%20children.">Visual Communication: How Different Breeds Seek Eye Contact</a>” - American Kennel Club</li>
</ul>
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Dog Ownership for Grown-Ups

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Tipping, it’s complicated. With so many more tip jars and digital tipping options available, it can often be confusing to figure out what goods or services you should always be tipping on and how much. Well, turns out tipping culture is pretty complex and spoiler alert, there isn’t always one set of straightforward rules to follow. 

With the help of special guest Stacey Vanek Smith (Bloomberg Audio, NPR’s “Planet Money” and “The Indicator,” APM’s “Marketplace,” and author of the book “Machiavelli for Women: Defend Your Worth, Grow Your Ambition, and Win the Workplace”), Matt and Molly explore the nuances of tipping and some of the signs to look for and consider when that screen turns in their direction. Plus, learn about what a subminimum wage is, the origins of tipping, and how to embrace the custom tip option. 

Cited Sources: 
“Tipping Culture in America: Public Sees a Changed Landscape” - Pew Research Center
“Do You Tip More or Less Often Than the Average American?” - Pew Research Center
“Minimum Wages for Tipped Employees” - U.S. Department of Labor
“Did COVID-19 Pandemic Dampen Americans’ Tipping for Food Services? Insights from Two Studies” - Compensation & Benefits Review
“Technology May Turn You Into A Bigger Tipper” - NPR’s “Morning Edition”

Do you have grown-up stuff that you want to figure out and learn more about? Send us an email or voice memo with your ideas and questions to grownupstuffpod@gmail.com You may hear your question on an upcoming episode! 

Tipping, it’s complicated. With so many more tip jars and digital tipping options available, it can often be confusing to figure out what goods or services you should always be tipping on and how much. Well, turns out tipping culture is pretty complex and spoiler alert, there isn’t always one set of straightforward rules to follow. 
With the help of special guest <a href="https://www.staceyvaneksmith.com/">Stacey Vanek Smith</a> (Bloomberg Audio, NPR’s “Planet Money” and “The Indicator,” APM’s “Marketplace,” and author of the book “Machiavelli for Women: Defend Your Worth, Grow Your Ambition, and Win the Workplace”), Matt and Molly explore the nuances of tipping and some of the signs to look for and consider when that screen turns in their direction. Plus, learn about what a subminimum wage is, the origins of tipping, and how to embrace the custom tip option. 
Cited Sources: 
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/2023/11/09/tipping-culture-in-america-public-sees-a-changed-landscape/">Tipping Culture in America: Public Sees a Changed Landscape</a>” - Pew Research Center</li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/2023/11/28/do-you-tip-more-or-less-often-than-the-average-american/">Do You Tip More or Less Often Than the Average American?</a>” - Pew Research Center</li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/state/minimum-wage/tipped">Minimum Wages for Tipped Employees</a>” - U.S. Department of Labor</li>
<li aria-level="1">“<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8689099/">Did COVID-19 Pandemic Dampen Americans’ Tipping for Food Services? Insights from Two Studies</a>” - Compensation &amp; Benefits Review</li>
<li>“<a href="https://www.npr.org/sections/alltechconsidered/2014/03/05/283917108/technology-may-soon-get-you-to-be-a-bigger-tipper">Technology May Turn You Into A Bigger Tipper</a>” - NPR’s “Morning Edition”</li>
</ul>
Do you have grown-up stuff that you want to figure out and learn more about? Send us an email or voice memo with your ideas and questions to <a href="mailto:grownupstuffpod@gmail.com">grownupstuffpod@gmail.com</a> You may hear your question on an upcoming episode!

Tipping for Grown-Ups

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