Amy and Kat dive into the final of the Four Horsemen…stonewalling. From why it happens to how to break the pattern, they explore the freeze response, self-soothing, and the difference between stonewalling and the silent treatment. They also share lighthearted conversation starters you can bring to your next date night or friend hang to keep connection fun and alive.

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Kat Van Buren // threecordstherapy.com // @KatVanburen

Amy and Kat dive into the final of the Four Horsemen&hellip;stonewalling. From why it happens to how to break the pattern, they explore the freeze response, self-soothing, and the difference between stonewalling and the silent treatment. They also share lighthearted conversation starters you can bring to your next date night or friend hang to keep connection fun and alive.
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HOSTS:
Amy Brown // <a href="http://radioamy.com/">RadioAmy.com</a> // <a href="https://www.instagram.com/radioamy/">@RadioAmy</a>
Kat Van Buren // <a href="https://threecordstherapy.com">threecordstherapy.com</a> //&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/katvanburen/">@KatVanburen</a>

Feeling Things with Amy & Kat is a podcast for anyone who’s ever had feelings—or wants to. Hosted by Amy Brown and therapist Kat Van Buren, this is a space where nothing is off-limits. From deep reflections on childhood to pop culture obsessions to what’s happening in the world, all feelings deserve a seat at the table—big, small, awkward, joyful, confusing, and everything in between. At its core, it’s real friends having real conversations about real feelings. Some episodes go deep, some stay light, but all are rooted in curiosity, honesty, and connection. In a world that moves fast, sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is pause... and feel things.

Feeling Things with Amy &amp; Kat is a podcast for anyone who&rsquo;s ever had feelings&mdash;or wants to. Hosted by Amy Brown and therapist Kat Van Buren, this is a space where nothing is off-limits. From deep reflections on childhood to pop culture obsessions to what&rsquo;s happening in the world, all feelings deserve a seat at the table&mdash;big, small, awkward, joyful, confusing, and everything in between. At its core, it&rsquo;s real friends having real conversations about real feelings. Some episodes go deep, some stay light, but all are rooted in curiosity, honesty, and connection. In a world that moves fast, sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is pause... and feel things.

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Stonewalling (Part 4 of How Relationships Begin to End: The Four Horseman)

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/e73c998e-6e60-432f-8610-ae210140c5b1/clips/3b01d4f5-c75a-45a9-86c0-b36d0169df06/transcript

Kat’s embracing a little slow-down energy (including a TV binge), while Amy’s soaking up Anna Vaus's Weekly Whimsy newsletter. Then Kat dives into some surprising research: do single people actually die better? The answer might just change how you think about community, planning, and the people who show up for you. They also share an email and a voicemail from listeners in the mix of all the talk!! 

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Kat Van Buren // threecordstherapy.com // @KatVanburen

Kat&rsquo;s embracing a little slow-down energy (including a TV binge), while Amy&rsquo;s soaking up Anna Vaus's Weekly Whimsy newsletter. Then Kat dives into some surprising research: do single people actually die better? The answer might just change how you think about community, planning, and the people who show up for you. They also share an email and a voicemail from listeners in the mix of all the talk!!&nbsp;
Get some Feeling Things merch by clicking&nbsp;<a href="https://feelingthingspodcast.com">HERE</a>! (FeelingThingsPodcast.com)
Sign up for the Feeling Things newsletter <a href="https://mailchi.mp/threecordstherapy/feeling-things-subscribe">HERE</a>!
Watch us on Youtube&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@feelingthingspodcast">HERE</a>!
Call and leave a voicemail: 877-207-2077
Email:&nbsp;<a href="mailto:heythere@feelingthingspodcast.com">heythere@feelingthingspodcast.com</a>
HOSTS:
Amy Brown // <a href="http://radioamy.com/">RadioAmy.com</a> // <a href="https://www.instagram.com/radioamy/">@RadioAmy</a>
Kat Van Buren // <a href="https://threecordstherapy.com">threecordstherapy.com</a> //&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/katvanburen/">@KatVanburen</a>

Flower Walks, Future Letters To Self & Who Dies Happiest (Surprise!)

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From the "new girl" Mahjong jitters to the awkwardness of neighborhood small talk, Amy and Kat are breaking down how to navigate social pressure. We’re responding to a listener who feels shamed by the "work outside the home" question and offering a simple script to help you stop over-explaining your worth.

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HOSTS:

Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy

Kat Van Buren // threecordstherapy.com // @KatVanburen

From the "new girl" Mahjong jitters to the awkwardness of neighborhood small talk, Amy and Kat are breaking down how to navigate social pressure. We&rsquo;re responding to a listener who feels shamed by the "work outside the home" question and offering a simple script to help you stop over-explaining your worth.
Get some Feeling Things merch by clicking <a href="https://feelingthingspodcast.com">HERE</a>! (FeelingThingsPodcast.com)
Sign up for the Feeling Things newsletter <a href="https://mailchi.mp/threecordstherapy/feeling-things-subscribe">HERE</a>!
Watch us on Youtube&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@feelingthingspodcast">HERE</a>!
Call and leave a voicemail: 877-207-2077
Email:&nbsp;<a href="mailto:heythere@feelingthingspodcast.com">heythere@feelingthingspodcast.com</a>
HOSTS:
Amy Brown // <a href="http://radioamy.com/">RadioAmy.com</a> // <a href="https://www.instagram.com/radioamy/">@RadioAmy</a>
Kat Van Buren // <a href="https://threecordstherapy.com">threecordstherapy.com</a> //&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/katvanburen/">@KatVanburen</a>

Nervous Firsts and The "Do You Work?" Dilemma (Couch Talks)

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/e73c998e-6e60-432f-8610-ae210140c5b1/clips/7416195a-f3f8-44e1-bab2-b40400b2ce74/transcript

Kat is feeling antsy for a getaway (and a Paradise binge), while Amy feels excited for her "More Whimsy, Less Worry" talk. Those are their feelings of the day and here’s what’s discussed in this episode:

- The 8 & 80 Rule: Amy shares that there are only  two people you should be living for. What would your 8-year-old self say about your silliness? And what is your 80-year-old self yelling at you to do right now?

- The Disrespect Trap: Are you accidentally teaching people that your time has no value or that your decisions need their approval? They break down the 4 ways we "train" people how to treat us and the specific scripts to use to take your power back.

- The 5 Levels of Listening: Are you actually tuned in, or are you just "waiting for your turn to talk"? They audit our listening habits from "Distracted" to "Hearing what’s unsaid."

- Cocktail Lessons: Why the White Russian is now a "no" for Amy & how it’s different from a Bushwacker!

- The Pillow Hack: Why we are all moving our pillows into the sunlight this week to kill bacteria and clear up our skin.

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Call and leave a voicemail: 877-207-2077

Email: heythere@feelingthingspodcast.com

HOSTS:

Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy

Kat Van Buren // threecordstherapy.com // @KatVanburen

Kat is feeling antsy for a getaway (and a Paradise binge), while Amy feels excited for her "More Whimsy, Less Worry" talk. Those are their feelings of the day and here&rsquo;s what&rsquo;s discussed in this episode:
- The 8 &amp; 80 Rule: Amy shares that there are only&nbsp; two people you should be living for. What would your 8-year-old self say about your silliness? And what is your 80-year-old self yelling at you to do right now?
- The Disrespect Trap: Are you accidentally teaching people that your time has no value or that your decisions need their approval? They break down the 4 ways we "train" people how to treat us and the specific scripts to use to take your power back.
- The 5 Levels of Listening: Are you actually tuned in, or are you just "waiting for your turn to talk"? They audit our listening habits from "Distracted" to "Hearing what&rsquo;s unsaid."
- Cocktail Lessons: Why the White Russian is now a "no" for Amy &amp; how it&rsquo;s different from a Bushwacker!
- The Pillow Hack: Why we are all moving our pillows into the sunlight this week to kill bacteria and clear up our skin.
Get some Feeling Things merch by clicking <a href="https://feelingthingspodcast.com">HERE</a>! (FeelingThingsPodcast.com)
Sign up for the Feeling Things newsletter <a href="https://mailchi.mp/threecordstherapy/feeling-things-subscribe">HERE</a>!
Watch us on Youtube&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@feelingthingspodcast">HERE</a>!
Call and leave a voicemail: 877-207-2077
Email:&nbsp;<a href="mailto:heythere@feelingthingspodcast.com">heythere@feelingthingspodcast.com</a>
HOSTS:
Amy Brown // <a href="http://radioamy.com/">RadioAmy.com</a> // <a href="https://www.instagram.com/radioamy/">@RadioAmy</a>
Kat Van Buren // <a href="https://threecordstherapy.com">threecordstherapy.com</a> //&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/katvanburen/">@KatVanburen</a>

Ways You’re Training People To Disrespect You & Why Amy Can Never Drink a White Russian Again

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Stonewalling (Part 4 of How Relationships Begin to End: The Four Horseman)

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