When the only way your baby will sleep is snuggled up beside you, and you're desperate , kicking your partner out to sleep on the lounge may feel like a no brainer. And sometimes everyone agrees it is the best solution. But what happens if your partner is actually curled up in a ball of frustration on the couch? What then? Elisabeth Shaw is the CEO of Relationships Australia NSW, and she says that when you decide to share a bed with your baby you need to consider more than just your lack of sleep.