Judgement & criticism, punishing, provoking, and trying to “fix” a child—none of these are a parent’s job. They only serve to drive a wedge in relationships. Our job is to love our children. To set limits and have expectations—yes!—but to do so kindly. 



In this episode:
Shifting the paradigm
Compassion and empathy
Emotions go up, intelligence goes down
The problem with judgement
Why kindness is the answer

Links:
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, by Stephen R Covey
I don’t need Fixing! I need Guiding and Loving – Happy Families
Why Our Kids Need Us to Set Limits – Happy Families

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Judgement &amp; criticism, punishing, provoking, and trying to “fix” a child—none of these are a parent’s job. They only serve to drive a wedge in relationships. Our job is to love our children. To set limits and have expectations—yes!—but to do so kindly. 
 
In this episode:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Shifting the paradigm</li>
<li aria-level="1">Compassion and empathy</li>
<li aria-level="1">Emotions go up, intelligence goes down</li>
<li aria-level="1">The problem with judgement</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why kindness is the answer</li>
</ul>
Links:
<ul>
<li><a href="https://booktopia.kh4ffx.net/5gr7ZN">The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, by Stephen R Covey</a></li>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/articles/i-dont-need-fixing-i-need-guiding-and-loving">I don’t need Fixing! I need Guiding and Loving – Happy Families</a></li>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/articles/why-our-kids-need-us-to-set-limits">Why Our Kids Need Us to Set Limits – Happy Families</a></li>
</ul>
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The Happy families podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.

The Happy families podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now.

Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

#982 Judgement & Criticism Are Out!

On Tuesdays, we answer listener questions about making your family happier!

Separation anxiety at school drop-off is a daily struggle for many families, including Kirsty and her 5-year-old son. Justin shares some helpful tips that will make saying goodbye easier for both the parent and child. 

Mum of 3, Michala, is dealing with constant sibling rivalry and conflict. Listen in for some important, ongoing conversations to have with your children as you help to build their character, and teach empathy and kindness. 

In this episode:
Sibling rivalry, conflict, and strife
Building character
Teaching compassion and empathy
Repairing relationship ruptures
Separation anxiety
Emotionally based school avoidance (EBSA)
Making mornings calm
Validating emotions
Basic psychological needs
Strong parent-school partnership
Flexibility

Related links:
10 Steps to Reducing Sibling Conflict - Happy Families
Teaching Kids Kindness - a Happy Families webinar
School Refusal - Happy Families
Developmental Milestones | Preschool - Happy Families

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On Tuesdays, we answer listener questions about making your family happier!
Separation anxiety at school drop-off is a daily struggle for many families, including Kirsty and her 5-year-old son. Justin shares some helpful tips that will make saying goodbye easier for both the parent and child. 
Mum of 3, Michala, is dealing with constant sibling rivalry and conflict. Listen in for some important, ongoing conversations to have with your children as you help to build their character, and teach empathy and kindness. 
In this episode:
<ul>
<li>Sibling rivalry, conflict, and strife</li>
<li>Building character</li>
<li>Teaching compassion and empathy</li>
<li>Repairing relationship ruptures</li>
<li>Separation anxiety</li>
<li>Emotionally based school avoidance (EBSA)</li>
<li>Making mornings calm</li>
<li>Validating emotions</li>
<li>Basic psychological needs</li>
<li>Strong parent-school partnership</li>
<li>Flexibility</li>
</ul>
Related links:
<ul>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/articles/10-steps-to-reducing-sibling-conflict">10 Steps to Reducing Sibling Conflict - Happy Families</a></li>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/shop/product/teaching-kids-kindness">Teaching Kids Kindness - a Happy Families webinar</a></li>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/articles/school-refusal">School Refusal - Happy Families</a></li>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/shop/product/teaching-kids-kindness"></a><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/articles/developmental-milestones-part-3-preschool">Developmental Milestones | Preschool - Happy Families</a></li>
</ul>
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#994 Resetting Sibling Dynamics

Andrew Tate's harmful ideology is infiltrating schools. Boys, broadly speaking, are big fans, and their behaviour in the classroom is reflecting this.

Dr Stephanie Westcott (researcher and lecturer in the School of Education, Culture, and Society at Monash University) shares her research on the experiences women are having in educational settings across Australia, looking at the influence of misogynistic ideology, how algorithms on TikTok and Youtube direct young boys to these ideas, and what parents, carers, and educators can do to combat the rise of these radicalised masculine myths.

In this episode:
Andrew Tate
Misogyny infiltrating classrooms
Harmful ideology influencing young boys
Andrew Tate’s extreme views about women are infiltrating Australian schools. We need a zero-tolerance response, Westcott & Roberts | The Conversation


Experiences women are having in educational contexts


Behaviours of boys in the classroom
Framing boys and men as victims
Radicalisation of masculinity
Andrew Tate Effect in Australian Classrooms | ABC News
What it means to be a real man
Algorithms on social media are showing young boys very specific content
Respectful relationships education
Zero tolerance

Related links:
#694 Responding to the Hate from Andrew Tate - Happy Families Podcast
Helping Our Boys Grow Into Men - Happy Families
Can We Please Talk About Boys? - A FREE Happy Families Webinar

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Andrew Tate's harmful ideology is infiltrating schools. Boys, broadly speaking, are big fans, and their behaviour in the classroom is reflecting this.
<a href="https://research.monash.edu/en/persons/stephanie-wescott">Dr Stephanie Westcott</a> (researcher and lecturer in the School of Education, Culture, and Society at Monash University) shares her research on the experiences women are having in educational settings across Australia, looking at the influence of misogynistic ideology, how algorithms on TikTok and Youtube direct young boys to these ideas, and what parents, carers, and educators can do to combat the rise of these radicalised masculine myths.
In this episode:
<ul>
<li>Andrew Tate</li>
<li>Misogyny infiltrating classrooms</li>
<li>Harmful ideology influencing young boys</li>
<li><a href="https://theconversation.com/andrew-tates-extreme-views-about-women-are-infiltrating-australian-schools-we-need-a-zero-tolerance-response-229603">Andrew Tate’s extreme views about women are infiltrating Australian schools. We need a zero-tolerance response, Westcott &amp; Roberts | The Conversation</a></li>
<li>
Experiences women are having in educational contexts
</li>
<li>
Behaviours of boys in the classroom
</li>
<li>Framing boys and men as victims</li>
<li>Radicalisation of masculinity</li>
<li><a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2024-04-02/andrew-tate-effect-in-australian-classrooms/103657122">Andrew Tate Effect in Australian Classrooms | ABC News</a></li>
<li>What it means to be a real man</li>
<li>Algorithms on social media are showing young boys very specific content</li>
<li><a href="https://studentwellbeinghub.edu.au/respectful-relationships-education/">Respectful relationships education</a></li>
<li>Zero tolerance</li>
</ul>
Related links:
<ul>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/podcast/episode/694-responding-to-the-hate-from-andrew-tate">#694 Responding to the Hate from Andrew Tate - Happy Families Podcast</a></li>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/articles/helping-our-boys-grow-into-men">Helping Our Boys Grow Into Men - Happy Families</a></li>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/shop/product/can-we-please-talk-about-boys">Can We Please Talk About Boys? - A FREE Happy Families Webinar</a></li>
</ul>
Find us on<a href="https://www.facebook.com/happyfamilies.au/"> Facebook</a> or <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@happyfamiliesau">TikTok</a>
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#993 Schoolyard Misogyny with Stephanie Westcott

Justin's singing turned complaints about dishes into a whole lot of fun, with sound levels hitting dangerous decibel levels!

Term 2 of homeschooling started off rather rocky for The Coulsons, but thinking outside the box created an opportunity for a reluctant writer to be creative and expressive in a new way!



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Justin's singing turned complaints about dishes into a whole lot of fun, with sound levels hitting dangerous decibel levels!
Term 2 of homeschooling started off rather rocky for The Coulsons, but thinking outside the box created an opportunity for a reluctant writer to be creative and expressive in a new way!
 
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