Why some people go through hard times & grow from it and others don't 




Topics included in this podcast - 
Justin introduces Amy & her work
13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do
Why some people go through hard times & grow from it and others don't 
Our emotional wounds are like our physical wounds - you have to take care of them
3 things mentally strong people don't do

            1. Waste time feeling sorry for themselves

            2. Give away their power

            3. Make the same mistakes over and over again
13 Things Strong Kids Do
Kids need to be kept in the loop to avoid them drawing their own conclusions
Kids need to feel heard. Validate their feelings.
Make gratitude a process in your house




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Why some people go through hard times &amp; grow from it and others don't Topics included in this podcast - <ul>
<li>Justin introduces Amy &amp; her work</li>
<li><a href="https://www.amazon.com.au/Things-Mentally-Strong-Parents-Dont/dp/0062565737">13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do</a></li>
<li>Why some people go through hard times &amp; grow from it and others don't </li>
<li>Our emotional wounds are like our physical wounds - you have to take care of them</li>
<li>3 things mentally strong people don't do</li>
</ul> 1. Waste time feeling sorry for themselves 2. Give away their power 3. Make the same mistakes over and over again<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/13-Things-Strong-Kids-Do/dp/0063008483/ref=asc_df_0063008483/?tag=hyprod-20&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;hvadid=475750951675&amp;hvpos=&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=12560376396681060011&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9011882&amp;hvtargid=pla-1114350870380&amp;psc=1">13 Things Strong Kids Do</a></li>
<li>Kids need to be kept in the loop to avoid them drawing their own conclusions</li>
<li>Kids need to feel heard. Validate their feelings.</li>
<li>Make gratitude a process in your house</li>
</ul> Purchase <a href="https://www.happyfamilies.com.au/shop/product/tweens-teens-screens">Tweens, Teens &amp; Screens</a> or find it in our <a href="https://www.happyfamilies.com.au/membership/parents">Happy Families Membership</a>. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at <a href="https://www.facebook.com/happyfamilies.au/">Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families</a>Email us your questions and comments at <a href="mailto:podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au">podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au</a>.

The Happy Families Podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.

The Happy Families Podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.

The Happy families podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now.

Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

#434 '13 Things Strong Kids Do' with Amy Morin

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Your child loves reading… but now the books feel too mature. Do you step in, or risk shutting it down altogether?

This episode tackles the tricky middle ground between protecting your child and preserving their love of reading. Discover how to set boundaries without constant battles, why pushing back can backfire, and how to guide your child toward better choices—without losing connection. 

Plus some great book recommendations below!

KEY POINTS:
Why boundary-pushing is a normal (and necessary) part of growing up
The tension between encouraging reading and managing content
The risk of shutting down a child’s love of reading
How to guide without controlling—and reduce power struggles
When to hold firm boundaries—and when to soften
Shifting from protecting kids to preparing them

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:
 “Get curious, not furious—because the moment you push, they pull away.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED:
The Keepers Trilogy by Leanne Tanner
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey
Clean romance suggestions for 10-12 and 12-14 year olds (from @thekidsbookshop)
Two Hearts - Australian middle-grade romance series
Top 48 reads for kids aged 9-12 (free download from @bookswithbecandjane)

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:
Protect your child’s love of reading—even when the content worries you
Have regular, low-pressure conversations about what they’re reading
Ask more questions instead of shutting things down
Offer alternatives that align with their interests (not just “better” options)
Set clear boundaries where it truly matters—and explain why
Focus on teaching values so they can self-regulate over time

Your child loves reading&hellip; but now the books feel too mature. Do you step in, or risk shutting it down altogether?
This episode tackles the tricky middle ground between protecting your child and preserving their love of reading. Discover how to set boundaries without constant battles, why pushing back can backfire, and how to guide your child toward better choices&mdash;without losing connection.&nbsp;
Plus some great book recommendations below!
KEY POINTS:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Why boundary-pushing is a normal (and necessary) part of growing up</li>
<li>The tension between encouraging reading and managing content</li>
<li aria-level="1">The risk of shutting down a child&rsquo;s love of reading</li>
<li aria-level="1">How to guide without controlling&mdash;and reduce power struggles</li>
<li>When to hold firm boundaries&mdash;and when to soften</li>
<li data-section-id="x8hx6z" data-start="890" data-end="941">Shifting from protecting kids to preparing them</li>
</ul>
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE: &ldquo;Get curious, not furious&mdash;because the moment you push, they pull away.&rdquo;
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://liantanner.com.au/books/the-keepers-trilogy/">The Keepers Trilogy</a> by Leanne Tanner</li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.simonandschuster.com.au/books/7-Habits-Of-Highly-Effective-People/Stephen-R-Covey/9781416502494">The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People</a> by Stephen R. Covey</li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DT61yWejbQQ/?igsh=MXc0ZTk2bGxqcGVtZA%3D%3D&amp;img_index=2">Clean romance suggestions</a> for 10-12 and 12-14 year olds (from @thekidsbookshop)</li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.scholastic.com.au/media/13682/flyer_two-hearts_v2.pdf">Two Hearts</a> - Australian middle-grade romance series</li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://rebelreaders.com.au/rebel-top48-list/">Top 48 reads for kids aged 9-12</a> (free download from @bookswithbecandjane)</li>
</ul>
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Protect your child&rsquo;s love of reading&mdash;even when the content worries you</li>
<li aria-level="1">Have regular, low-pressure conversations about what they&rsquo;re reading</li>
<li aria-level="1">Ask more questions instead of shutting things down</li>
<li aria-level="1">Offer alternatives that align with their interests (not just &ldquo;better&rdquo; options)</li>
<li aria-level="1">Set clear boundaries where it truly matters&mdash;and explain why</li>
<li aria-level="1">Focus on teaching values so they can self-regulate over time</li>
</ul>

Raising Responsible Readers [a Q&A About Inappropriate Books]

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/fa326977-3de5-4283-9b8b-af3500c58607/clips/5e318237-77f4-4e57-8c76-b430005a7d9b/transcript

Some parents are devastated to hear, “It’s a boy.”
Not disappointed - devastated.

In this confronting episode, we unpack the rising fear around raising boys, where it’s coming from, and the dangerous story we’re starting to believe. Are boys really the problem… or are we shaping them that way?

This conversation will challenge everything you think you know about gender, parenting, and the future of our kids.

KEY POINTS:
Why “gender disappointment” is shifting toward boys
The cultural fears driving anxiety about raising sons
How low expectations quietly shape boys’ behaviour
What boys are actually craving from adults (it’s not what you think)
Why strong family culture matters more than social narratives
The simple but powerful role parents play in raising good humans

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:
 “Boys aren’t the problem. They’re the solution.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out (pre-order here)
Research and commentary on gender disappointment
Parenting support resources for perinatal mental health: 

PANDA
Gidget Foundation

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:
Challenge your own assumptions about boys and behaviour
Focus on values over stereotypes - raise a good human first
Create a home culture that prioritises safety, strength, and kindness
Speak belief into your child - don’t let fear define them
Model the behaviour you want them to grow into

Some parents are devastated to hear, &ldquo;It&rsquo;s a boy.&rdquo; Not disappointed - devastated.
In this confronting episode, we unpack the rising fear around raising boys, where it&rsquo;s coming from, and the dangerous story we&rsquo;re starting to believe. Are boys really the problem&hellip; or are we shaping them that way?
This conversation will challenge everything you think you know about gender, parenting, and the future of our kids.
KEY POINTS:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Why &ldquo;gender disappointment&rdquo; is shifting toward boys</li>
<li aria-level="1">The cultural fears driving anxiety about raising sons</li>
<li aria-level="1">How low expectations quietly shape boys&rsquo; behaviour</li>
<li aria-level="1">What boys are actually craving from adults (it&rsquo;s not what you think)</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why strong family culture matters more than social narratives</li>
<li aria-level="1">The simple but powerful role parents play in raising good humans</li>
</ul>
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE: &ldquo;Boys aren&rsquo;t the problem. They&rsquo;re the solution.&rdquo;
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out (<a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/boys-book-waitlist">pre-order here</a>)</li>
<li aria-level="1">Research and commentary on gender disappointment</li>
<li aria-level="1">Parenting support resources for perinatal mental health:&nbsp;
<ul>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.panda.org.au/">PANDA</a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.gidgetfoundation.org.au/">Gidget Foundation</a></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Challenge your own assumptions about boys and behaviour</li>
<li aria-level="1">Focus on values over stereotypes - raise a good human first</li>
<li aria-level="1">Create a home culture that prioritises safety, strength, and kindness</li>
<li aria-level="1">Speak belief into your child - don&rsquo;t let fear define them</li>
<li aria-level="1">Model the behaviour you want them to grow into</li>
</ul>

Oh No, It's a Boy!

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/fa326977-3de5-4283-9b8b-af3500c58607/clips/5bf25188-32d6-4997-b4f9-b430005a5a83/transcript

You’re doing everything “right”… so why is it making things worse?

In this honest and vulnerable episode, Justin shares a parenting tension many of us feel but rarely admit: knowing what matters for our kids - like time, productivity, and healthy habits - but completely missing the mark in how we teach it.

Because when good intentions turn into constant correction, something breaks. And it’s usually connection.

If you’ve ever felt the urge to push harder… only to be met with resistance, this episode will help you rethink what actually works.

KEY POINTS
Why being “right” doesn’t mean your approach is working
How constant correction quietly damages connection
The hidden cost of becoming the “enforcer” in your child’s life
Why kids can’t learn self-regulation if we’re always controlling them
The power of small, everyday moments to rebuild family connection
Why repair - not perfection - is the real goal in family relationships

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
 “Am I helping them… or just making them feel like they’re not enough?”

RESOURCES MENTIONED
Pre-order Boys now

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
Swap one correction today for a moment of connection
Notice when “helping” starts to feel like pressure
Let your child sit in the natural consequences of their choices (within reason)
Create simple, shared moments (a movie, a meal, a walk) that bring you back together
Practice repair: model how to apologise, reconnect, and move forward

You&rsquo;re doing everything &ldquo;right&rdquo;&hellip; so why is it making things worse?
In this honest and vulnerable episode, Justin shares a parenting tension many of us feel but rarely admit: knowing what matters for our kids - like time, productivity, and healthy habits - but completely missing the mark in how we teach it.
Because when good intentions turn into constant correction, something breaks. And it&rsquo;s usually connection.
If you&rsquo;ve ever felt the urge to push harder&hellip; only to be met with resistance, this episode will help you rethink what actually works.
KEY POINTS
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Why being &ldquo;right&rdquo; doesn&rsquo;t mean your approach is working</li>
<li aria-level="1">How constant correction quietly damages connection</li>
<li aria-level="1">The hidden cost of becoming the &ldquo;enforcer&rdquo; in your child&rsquo;s life</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why kids can&rsquo;t learn self-regulation if we&rsquo;re always controlling them</li>
<li aria-level="1">The power of small, everyday moments to rebuild family connection</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why repair - not perfection - is the real goal in family relationships</li>
</ul>
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE &ldquo;Am I helping them&hellip; or just making them feel like they&rsquo;re not enough?&rdquo;
RESOURCES MENTIONED
<ul>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/boys-book-waitlist">Pre-order Boys</a> now</li>
</ul>
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Swap one correction today for a moment of connection</li>
<li aria-level="1">Notice when &ldquo;helping&rdquo; starts to feel like pressure</li>
<li aria-level="1">Let your child sit in the natural consequences of their choices (within reason)</li>
<li aria-level="1">Create simple, shared moments (a movie, a meal, a walk) that bring you back together</li>
<li aria-level="1">Practice repair: model how to apologise, reconnect, and move forward</li>
</ul>

Raising Capable Kids Without Constant Control

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/fa326977-3de5-4283-9b8b-af3500c58607/clips/fcbf8188-14f4-41a1-a707-b41f008de042/transcript

#434 '13 Things Strong Kids Do' with Amy Morin

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