Dive with us into three issues impacting parents today:
Woolies has partnered with Roblox (and parents are mad!).
The rise of nicotine pouches among teens as a discreet alternative to vaping or smoking.
Proposed legislation to ban kids under 16 from accessing social media and the challenges of enforcement.

In this episode:
Roblox Rewards at Woolies
Thousands of Australians Call for Woolworths to Axe Partnership with Gaming App Roblox | Daily Telegraph
Teens getting "nic-sick" with zyns
Addictive, hard to detect, easy to procure
Nicotine pouches gaining popularity with teens despite being illegal in Australia | ABC News
Opposition to the social media legislation
Finding refuge & safety online
Policing legislation
Unplug Childhood

Related Links:
#974 Roblox Rules
The Screen Smart Series [Webinars]
Smells Like Teen Spirit Summit (More nirvana. Less drama.)
Bad Influence of Influencers

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Dive with us into three issues impacting parents today:
<ol>
<li>Woolies has partnered with Roblox (and parents are mad!).</li>
<li>The rise of nicotine pouches among teens as a discreet alternative to vaping or smoking.</li>
<li>Proposed legislation to ban kids under 16 from accessing social media and the challenges of enforcement.</li>
</ol>
In this episode:
<ul>
<li dir="ltr">Roblox Rewards at Woolies</li>
<li><a href="https://apple.news/AhhcFJVwwQNaRIwjD0eQniA">Thousands of Australians Call for Woolworths to Axe Partnership with Gaming App Roblox | Daily Telegraph</a></li>
<li dir="ltr">Teens getting "nic-sick" with zyns</li>
<li dir="ltr">Addictive, hard to detect, easy to procure</li>
<li dir="ltr"><a href="https://apple.news/Aeo2ms9k-TfOAc1JzcweFwg">Nicotine pouches gaining popularity with teens despite being illegal in Australia | ABC News</a></li>
<li dir="ltr">Opposition to the social media legislation</li>
<li dir="ltr">Finding refuge &amp; safety online</li>
<li dir="ltr">Policing legislation</li>
<li dir="ltr"><a href="unplugchildhood.org">Unplug Childhood</a></li>
</ul>
Related Links:
<ul>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/podcast/episode/974-roblox-rules">#974 Roblox Rules</a></li>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/shop/product/the-screen-smart-series">The Screen Smart Series</a> [Webinars]</li>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/shop/product/smells-like-teen-spirit-summit">Smells Like Teen Spirit Summit</a> (More nirvana. Less drama.)</li>
<li><a href="https://happyfamilies.com.au/articles/bad-influence-of-influencers">Bad Influence of Influencers</a></li>
</ul>
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The Happy Families Podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.

The Happy Families Podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.

The Happy families podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now.

Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

#1132 - This Week in Parenting: Woolies x Roblox & Fully Nic-Sick

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/fa326977-3de5-4283-9b8b-af3500c58607/clips/5d7f332c-a766-405b-bd23-b23300b67d11/transcript

What really keeps a marriage strong after nearly three decades?

In this honest, funny, and surprisingly emotional anniversary episode, Justin and Kylie unpack the real lessons behind a lasting relationship—beyond the clichés.

From choosing each other daily to letting go of the need to be right, this episode reveals the small mindset shifts that make the biggest difference.

Plus… Kylie shares her very simple (and slightly controversial) formula for a happy marriage.

KEY POINTS
Why love is a daily choice—not just a feeling
The truth about trying to change your partner
How your frustrations say more about you than them
Why “winning” arguments can cost your relationship
The simple habits that keep connection alive over time

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“Don’t choose being right over being connected.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED
The idea that 80% of what annoys you about your partner will never change
Relationship insight from Professor H. Wallace Goddard

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
Choose your partner—intentionally—every single day
Swap criticism for gratitude (focus on the 80%)
Pause before reacting: “Is this my issue or theirs?”
Prioritise connection over winning small arguments
Schedule regular, simple time together (even 20 minutes counts)

What really keeps a marriage strong after nearly three decades?
In this honest, funny, and surprisingly emotional anniversary episode, Justin and Kylie unpack the real lessons behind a lasting relationship&mdash;beyond the clich&eacute;s.
From choosing each other daily to letting go of the need to be right, this episode reveals the small mindset shifts that make the biggest difference.
Plus&hellip; Kylie shares her very simple (and slightly controversial) formula for a happy marriage.
KEY POINTS
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Why love is a daily choice&mdash;not just a feeling</li>
<li aria-level="1">The truth about trying to change your partner</li>
<li aria-level="1">How your frustrations say more about you than them</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why &ldquo;winning&rdquo; arguments can cost your relationship</li>
<li aria-level="1">The simple habits that keep connection alive over time</li>
</ul>
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
&ldquo;Don&rsquo;t choose being right over being connected.&rdquo;
RESOURCES MENTIONED
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">The idea that 80% of what annoys you about your partner will never change</li>
<li aria-level="1">Relationship insight from Professor H. Wallace Goddard</li>
</ul>
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Choose your partner&mdash;intentionally&mdash;every single day</li>
<li aria-level="1">Swap criticism for gratitude (focus on the 80%)</li>
<li aria-level="1">Pause before reacting: &ldquo;Is this my issue or theirs?&rdquo;</li>
<li aria-level="1">Prioritise connection over winning small arguments</li>
<li aria-level="1">Schedule regular, simple time together (even 20 minutes counts)</li>
</ul>

Justin & Kylie's 28th Anniversary

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/fa326977-3de5-4283-9b8b-af3500c58607/clips/a67eb3b4-041d-4337-a0ba-b4020091ed60/transcript

What happens in the moment a child finally says something is wrong?

For many children experiencing abuse, it takes years to speak up - if they ever do. And when they finally tell someone, the response they receive can shape the rest of their healing.

In this powerful conversation, Dr Justin Coulson speaks with body-safety educator and survivor John Cardamone about what children actually need to feel safe enough to disclose abuse - and the critical mistakes adults often make in the first moments after a child tells them.

John shares his own experience of abuse as a child, the two years it took him to speak up, and the simple but life-changing framework every parent should know if a child ever confides in them.

This is a difficult topic - but one every parent needs to understand.

KEY POINTS
Most children who experience sexual abuse know the person involved.
Many children try to disclose through behaviour before words.
Kids are far more likely to speak up when they feel safe, connected, and heard in everyday moments.
The way parents respond to small problems trains children whether it’s safe to share bigger ones.
Traditional “stranger danger” messaging can miss the reality that abuse is usually committed by someone known to the child.
Body safety education should be ongoing, simple, and part of everyday conversation.
A parent’s first response to a disclosure can either start the healing process or deepen the trauma.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“The way you respond to a disclosure can either start the healing process… or prolong the trauma.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED
Website: johncardamone.com.au

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
Create safety in everyday moments. How you respond to spilled milk, mistakes, or bad behaviour teaches children whether it’s safe to talk to you.
Talk about body safety regularly.  Make it an ongoing conversation rather than a single serious talk.
 Focus on “strange behaviours,” not just strangers. Most abuse happens with someone the child knows.
If a child discloses something difficult, stay calm. Children mirror the emotional reactions of adults.
 Follow the “BeCalmer” approach.
Be calm
Believe them
Acknowledge what they said
Validate their feelings

 

What happens in the moment a child finally says something is wrong?
For many children experiencing abuse, it takes years to speak up - if they ever do. And when they finally tell someone, the response they receive can shape the rest of their healing.
In this powerful conversation, Dr Justin Coulson speaks with body-safety educator and survivor John Cardamone about what children actually need to feel safe enough to disclose abuse - and the critical mistakes adults often make in the first moments after a child tells them.
John shares his own experience of abuse as a child, the two years it took him to speak up, and the simple but life-changing framework every parent should know if a child ever confides in them.
This is a difficult topic - but one every parent needs to understand.
KEY POINTS
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Most children who experience sexual abuse know the person involved.</li>
<li aria-level="1">Many children try to disclose through behaviour before words.</li>
<li aria-level="1">Kids are far more likely to speak up when they feel safe, connected, and heard in everyday moments.</li>
<li aria-level="1">The way parents respond to small problems trains children whether it&rsquo;s safe to share bigger ones.</li>
<li aria-level="1">Traditional &ldquo;stranger danger&rdquo; messaging can miss the reality that abuse is usually committed by someone known to the child.</li>
<li aria-level="1">Body safety education should be ongoing, simple, and part of everyday conversation.</li>
<li aria-level="1">A parent&rsquo;s first response to a disclosure can either start the healing process or deepen the trauma.</li>
</ul>
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
&ldquo;The way you respond to a disclosure can either start the healing process&hellip; or prolong the trauma.&rdquo;
RESOURCES MENTIONED
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Website:<a href="https://www.johncardamone.com.au"> johncardamone.com.au</a></li>
</ul>
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
<ol>
<li>Create safety in everyday moments. How you respond to spilled milk, mistakes, or bad behaviour teaches children whether it&rsquo;s safe to talk to you.</li>
<li>Talk about body safety regularly.&nbsp; Make it an ongoing conversation rather than a single serious talk.</li>
<li> Focus on &ldquo;strange behaviours,&rdquo; not just strangers. Most abuse happens with someone the child knows.</li>
<li>If a child discloses something difficult, stay calm. Children mirror the emotional reactions of adults.</li>
<li> Follow the &ldquo;BeCalmer&rdquo; approach.</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Be calm</li>
<li aria-level="1">Believe them</li>
<li aria-level="1">Acknowledge what they said</li>
<li aria-level="1">Validate their feelings</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;

Responding to Your Child About Body Safety (John Cardamone)

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/fa326977-3de5-4283-9b8b-af3500c58607/clips/4186b2bd-9ce7-493c-89da-b4020091203d/transcript

A new documentary exposing the online “manosphere” has parents asking a frightening question: What kind of world are our boys growing up in?

In this episode, Justin unpacks the disturbing rise of influencers teaching boys that domination, misogyny, and outrage are the path to power—and why millions of young men are being drawn in.

But while the content can feel alarming, the solution for parents is surprisingly clear.

Justin explains why boys who grow up surrounded by strong values, meaningful relationships, and healthy role models are far less vulnerable to toxic online culture—and what parents can start doing today to build boys who are genuinely strong from the inside out.

If you’re raising sons—or daughters who will grow up alongside them—this conversation matters.

KEY POINTS
What the “manosphere” actually is and why it’s gaining traction
How extreme influencers exploit struggling boys for clicks, money, and power
Why algorithm-driven outrage pushes toxic ideas to the top
The real reason some boys are vulnerable to this contentHow strong male role models dramatically reduce the influence of toxic voices
Why regular moral conversations at home build resilient kids
The true definition of healthy masculinity

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“Real strength leaves people feeling safer and stronger. These influencers leave people feeling smaller.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED
Inside the Manosphere documentary by Louis Theroux
Boys: Raising Strong Young Men from the Inside Out by Justin Coulson

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
Surround boys with strong role models. Boys need men—and women—who demonstrate integrity, respect, and responsibility.
Prioritise connection with dads or mentors. Time together, conversations, and shared activities matter far more than perfection.
Talk about character often. Use everyday situations and hypotheticals to discuss values and moral choices.
Delay unsupervised internet exposure. The longer kids stay away from algorithm-driven content, the better.
Teach healthy masculinity. Real strength means helping the people around you feel safer and stronger.

A new documentary exposing the online &ldquo;manosphere&rdquo; has parents asking a frightening question: What kind of world are our boys growing up in?
In this episode, Justin unpacks the disturbing rise of influencers teaching boys that domination, misogyny, and outrage are the path to power&mdash;and why millions of young men are being drawn in.
But while the content can feel alarming, the solution for parents is surprisingly clear.
Justin explains why boys who grow up surrounded by strong values, meaningful relationships, and healthy role models are far less vulnerable to toxic online culture&mdash;and what parents can start doing today to build boys who are genuinely strong from the inside out.
If you&rsquo;re raising sons&mdash;or daughters who will grow up alongside them&mdash;this conversation matters.
KEY POINTS
<ul>
<li>What the &ldquo;manosphere&rdquo; actually is and why it&rsquo;s gaining traction</li>
<li>How extreme influencers exploit struggling boys for clicks, money, and power</li>
<li>Why algorithm-driven outrage pushes toxic ideas to the top</li>
<li>The real reason some boys are vulnerable to this contentHow strong male role models dramatically reduce the influence of toxic voices</li>
<li>Why regular moral conversations at home build resilient kids</li>
<li>The true definition of healthy masculinity</li>
</ul>
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
&ldquo;Real strength leaves people feeling safer and stronger. These influencers leave people feeling smaller.&rdquo;
RESOURCES MENTIONED
<ul>
<li>Inside the Manosphere documentary by Louis Theroux</li>
<li><a href="https://www.booktopia.com.au/boys-justin-coulson/book/9780733342523.html">Boys: Raising Strong Young Men from the Inside Out</a> by Justin Coulson</li>
</ul>
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
<ol>
<li>Surround boys with strong role models. Boys need men&mdash;and women&mdash;who demonstrate integrity, respect, and responsibility.</li>
<li>Prioritise connection with dads or mentors. Time together, conversations, and shared activities matter far more than perfection.</li>
<li>Talk about character often. Use everyday situations and hypotheticals to discuss values and moral choices.</li>
<li>Delay unsupervised internet exposure. The longer kids stay away from algorithm-driven content, the better.</li>
<li>Teach healthy masculinity. Real strength means helping the people around you feel safer and stronger.</li>
</ol>

Raising Boys in a Toxic Online World (Q&A re: The Manosphere Documentary)

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/fa326977-3de5-4283-9b8b-af3500c58607/clips/bdfe8b59-8e12-417a-a0f3-b402009020ee/transcript

#1132 - This Week in Parenting: Woolies x Roblox & Fully Nic-Sick

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