Ah, amor! Isn’t it sweet? Lady, if you are a romantic – or want to be – this throwback episode is for you. Codie Elaine Oliver, CEO, and co-founder of Black Love, Inc., a fast-growing media company comprised of the Black Love+ app, joins Dr. Dom and Terri for a real conversation about what Black love means in today’s modern times. Codie shares how her love has fueled and informed her work while she still sought to maintain her identity. The three have a fun, lighthearted conversation about the joys and the pains of Black love, and why telling those stories is necessary for the vitality of Black people. Whether you are in love, looking to be in love, or just a lover of good storytelling you don’t want to miss this week’s episode!

Quote of the Day:
"Black love isn’t always easy, but it’s worth it."
-Codie Elaine Oliver

Where to find Codie Elaine Oliver:

Website: Black Love Summit
Podcast: The Mama’s Den
Podcast: My New BFF
IG: @codieco
App: Black Love App

Register here for the Vibrate Higher Empowerment Workshop!

Wisdom Wednesdays with Terri
Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary

Resources:
Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice
Branding with Terri
Melanin and Mental Health
Therapy for Black Girls 
Psychology Today
Therapy for QPOC

Where to find us:
Twitter: @HERspacepodcast
Instagram: @herspacepodcast
Facebook: @herspacepodcast
Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Ah, amor! Isn&rsquo;t it sweet? Lady, if you are a romantic &ndash; or want to be &ndash; this throwback episode is for you. Codie Elaine Oliver, CEO, and co-founder of Black Love, Inc., a fast-growing media company comprised of the Black Love+ app, joins Dr. Dom and Terri for a real conversation about what Black love means in today&rsquo;s modern times. Codie shares how her love has fueled and informed her work while she still sought to maintain her identity. The three have a fun, lighthearted conversation about the joys and the pains of Black love, and why telling those stories is necessary for the vitality of Black people. Whether you are in love, looking to be in love, or just a lover of good storytelling you don&rsquo;t want to miss this week&rsquo;s episode! Quote of the Day: "Black love isn&rsquo;t always easy, but it&rsquo;s worth it." -Codie Elaine Oliver Where to find Codie Elaine Oliver: Website: Black Love Summit Podcast: The Mama&rsquo;s Den Podcast: My New BFF IG: @codieco App: Black Love App Register here for the Vibrate Higher Empowerment Workshop! Wisdom Wednesdays with Terri Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Resources: Dr. Dom&rsquo;s Therapy Practice Branding with Terri Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: cultivatingherspace.com

In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just… be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate authentic conversations on everything from fibroids to fake friends. If you’re a Black woman looking for an extra dose of inspiration on the go, pull up a seat and join us on the Cultivating H.E.R. (Healing, Empowerment, Resilience) Space podcast.

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In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just… be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate authentic conversations on everything from fibroids to fake friends. If you’re a Black woman looking for an extra dose of inspiration on the go, pull up a seat and join us on the Cultivating H.E.R. (Healing, Empowerment, Resilience) Space podcast. Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support</a>.

In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just… be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate...

Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman

Ah, amor! Isn’t it sweet? Lady, if you are a romantic – or want to be – this episode is for you. Codie Elaine Oliver, CEO, and co-founder of Black Love, Inc., a fast-growing media company comprised of the Black Love+ app, joins Dr. Dom and Terri for a...

The Pursuit of Black Love with Codie Elaine Oliver | TBT

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Hey lady! This week Terri and Dr. Dom drop in for a quick musing on why making time to enjoy your summer is of high importance for Black women. This year is zooming by and back-to-school ads are already popping up threatening Summer’s freedom with its Fall rhythm and routines. Before we get there make sure you have a Summer to remember! Whether it’s stopping by your local pool to lay out and cool off, taking a hike to get your heart rate up and see the sights, or planning a tropical vacation, making you time and taking a break from life’s demands is worth your attention.

Lady, you are worthy of rest, pleasure and delight. Make it a point to find all three and more this summer. And, tag us in the photos on Instagram! We want to see how our community is making the most of Summer 2026!

 

Today’s sponsor is VB Health, known for science-backed, third-party tested supplements made in the USA.

Try Soaking Wet, which supports vaginal health and balance. Many people report noticing benefits within 1–2 weeks of daily use. Visit this link and use code HerSpace for 10% off: https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace

 

Goal Mapping Starter Guide

Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary

 

Resources:

Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice

Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount.

Branding with Terri

Melanin and Mental Health

Therapy for Black Girls 

Psychology Today

Therapy for QPOC

Therapy Fund Foundation

 

Where to find us:

Twitter: @HERspacepodcast

Instagram: @herspacepodcast

Facebook: @herspacepodcast

Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! This week Terri and Dr. Dom drop in for a quick musing on why making time to enjoy your summer is of high importance for Black women. This year is zooming by and back-to-school ads are already popping up threatening Summer&rsquo;s freedom with its Fall rhythm and routines. Before we get there make sure you have a Summer to remember! Whether it&rsquo;s stopping by your local pool to lay out and cool off, taking a hike to get your heart rate up and see the sights, or planning a tropical vacation, making you time and taking a break from life&rsquo;s demands is worth your attention.
Lady, you are worthy of rest, pleasure and delight. Make it a point to find all three and more this summer. And, tag us in the photos on Instagram! We want to see how our community is making the most of Summer 2026!
&nbsp;
Today&rsquo;s sponsor is VB Health, known for science-backed, third-party tested supplements made in the USA.
Try Soaking Wet, which supports vaginal health and balance. Many people report noticing benefits within 1&ndash;2 weeks of daily use. Visit this link and use code HerSpace for 10% off: <a href="https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace">https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://terrilomax.lpages.co/goal-mapping-starter-guide/">Goal Mapping Starter Guide</a>
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/herspacesanctuary/">Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary</a>
&nbsp;
Resources:
<a href="https://www.drdominiquebroussard.com/">Dr. Dom&rsquo;s Therapy Practice</a>
<a href="https://terrilomax.samcart.com/products/getthatpitch">Get That Pitch Workshop:</a> Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit <a href="https://terrilomax.samcart.com/products/getthatpitch">GetThatPitch.com</a> and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount.
<a href="https://terrilomax.com/">Branding with Terri</a>
<a href="https://www.melaninandmentalhealth.com/">Melanin and Mental Health</a>
<a href="https://providers.therapyforblackgirls.com/">Therapy for Black Girls&nbsp;</a>
<a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us">Psychology Today</a>
<a href="https://therapyforqpoc.com/">Therapy for QPOC</a>
<a href="https://therapyfundfoundation.org/">Therapy Fund Foundation</a>
&nbsp;
Where to find us:
Twitter:<a href="https://twitter.com/herspacepodcast/"> @HERspacepodcast</a>
Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/herspacepodcast/"> @herspacepodcast</a>
Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/herspacepodcast/?modal=admin_todo_tour"> @herspacepodcast</a>
Website:<a href="https://herspacepodcast.com/"> cultivatingherspace.com</a>

How to Actually Enjoy Your Summer as an Adult | MINISODE

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Hey lady! Summer is officially here and if you’re anything like us we are welcoming the longer days, gearing up for some fun in the sun, and hopefully taking a bit of a break from the grind. Speaking of taking a break, after eight beautiful years of giving you fresh content each Friday, Dr. Dom and Terri are taking a much-needed, well-deserved break. Yes, ladies for the next few months Terri and Dr. Dom are pulling back to rest, recalibrate and come back in the Fall with inspired content and fresh perspectives to keep you glowing and growing.

Now, you already know that we love you for real and would never leave you hanging so keep tuning in each week because we’re going to drop mini episodes to make sure you’re still on track to be the best you.

This week, Dr. Dom and Terri offer encouragement as we head into the midpoint of the year. Are you feeling like you’re not making progress on your goals? Don’t fret, you still have time to adjust your plan or pivot altogether if that feels right. Tap in this week to get the fuel to get assess your current path so you can move through the rest of the year with clarity and confidence!

 

This episode is sponsored by VB Health, a woman-owned, physician-led supplement company creating doctor-formulated supplements that work.

We’re featuring Drive Boost (libido support for all genders). Visit this link and use code HerSpace for 10% off: https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace

 

Goal Mapping Starter Guide

Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary

 

Resources:

Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice

Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount.

Branding with Terri

Melanin and Mental Health

Therapy for Black Girls 

Psychology Today

Therapy for QPOC

Therapy Fund Foundation

 

Where to find us:

Twitter: @HERspacepodcast

Instagram: @herspacepodcast

Facebook: @herspacepodcast

Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Summer is officially here and if you&rsquo;re anything like us we are welcoming the longer days, gearing up for some fun in the sun, and hopefully taking a bit of a break from the grind. Speaking of taking a break, after eight beautiful years of giving you fresh content each Friday, Dr. Dom and Terri are taking a much-needed, well-deserved break. Yes, ladies for the next few months Terri and Dr. Dom are pulling back to rest, recalibrate and come back in the Fall with inspired content and fresh perspectives to keep you glowing and growing.
Now, you already know that we love you for real and would never leave you hanging so keep tuning in each week because we&rsquo;re going to drop mini episodes to make sure you&rsquo;re still on track to be the best you.
This week, Dr. Dom and Terri offer encouragement as we head into the midpoint of the year. Are you feeling like you&rsquo;re not making progress on your goals? Don&rsquo;t fret, you still have time to adjust your plan or pivot altogether if that feels right. Tap in this week to get the fuel to get assess your current path so you can move through the rest of the year with clarity and confidence!
&nbsp;
This episode is sponsored by VB Health, a woman-owned, physician-led supplement company creating doctor-formulated supplements that work.
We&rsquo;re featuring Drive Boost (libido support for all genders). Visit this link and use code HerSpace for 10% off: <a href="https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace">https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://terrilomax.lpages.co/goal-mapping-starter-guide/">Goal Mapping Starter Guide</a>
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/herspacesanctuary/">Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary</a>
&nbsp;
Resources:
<a href="https://www.drdominiquebroussard.com/">Dr. Dom&rsquo;s Therapy Practice</a>
<a href="https://terrilomax.samcart.com/products/getthatpitch">Get That Pitch Workshop:</a> Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit <a href="https://terrilomax.samcart.com/products/getthatpitch">GetThatPitch.com</a> and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount.
<a href="https://terrilomax.com/">Branding with Terri</a>
<a href="https://www.melaninandmentalhealth.com/">Melanin and Mental Health</a>
<a href="https://providers.therapyforblackgirls.com/">Therapy for Black Girls&nbsp;</a>
<a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us">Psychology Today</a>
<a href="https://therapyforqpoc.com/">Therapy for QPOC</a>
<a href="https://therapyfundfoundation.org/">Therapy Fund Foundation</a>
&nbsp;
Where to find us:
Twitter:<a href="https://twitter.com/herspacepodcast/"> @HERspacepodcast</a>
Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/herspacepodcast/"> @herspacepodcast</a>
Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/herspacepodcast/?modal=admin_todo_tour"> @herspacepodcast</a>
Website:<a href="https://herspacepodcast.com/"> cultivatingherspace.com</a>

Revisiting Your Goals with Grace | MINISODE

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Can you think of a time when you’ve had to say no or struggled to say no? Who have you had to say no to? How do you feel when you have to say? These situations are boundary testers and using “No” is a way for us to outline our rules of interaction. In this throwback episode, Terri and Dom offer us ways to say "No" within real-life situations, including instances in which they were successful, someone was clear with them on a boundary, and times when they struggled with saying "No." If you want to stand up for yourself in those uncomfortable moments, practice in the mirror, in the shower, in the car and remember... “No." It’s a complete sentence. I said what I said and it does not require justification or explanation.  

 

Quote of the Day: "Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves even when we risk disappointing others." – Brené Brown   

Resources: 
20 Ways to Say NO- 
How to Say No And Why You Should Say It More    
49 Ways To Say No To Anyone (When You Don’t Want To Be A Jerk)
Therapy for Black Girls
Psychology Today  

Where to find us: 
Twitter: @HERspacepodcast 
Instagram: @herspacepodcast 
Facebook: @herspacepodcast 
Website: herspacepodcast.com 
Email: herspacepodcast@gmail.com   

Can you think of a time when you&rsquo;ve had to say no or struggled to say no? Who have you had to say no to? How do you feel when you have to say? These situations are boundary testers and using &ldquo;No&rdquo; is a way for us to outline our rules of interaction. In this throwback episode, Terri and Dom offer us ways to say "No" within real-life situations, including instances in which they were successful, someone was clear with them on a boundary, and times when they struggled with saying "No." If you want to stand up for yourself in those uncomfortable moments, practice in the mirror, in the shower, in the car and remember... &ldquo;No." It&rsquo;s a complete sentence. I said what I said and it does not require justification or explanation. &nbsp;
&nbsp;
Quote of the Day: "Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves even when we risk disappointing others." &ndash; Bren&eacute; Brown&nbsp; &nbsp;
Resources:&nbsp; <a href="http://lifegetsorganized.com/2016/04/18/20-ways-to-say-no/">20 Ways to Say NO</a>-&nbsp; <a href="http://mochagirlspitstop.com/how-to-say-no/">How to Say No And Why You Should Say It More</a> &nbsp; &nbsp; <a href="https://www.careerfaqs.com.au/news/news-and-views/how-to-say-no-to-anyone">49 Ways To Say No To Anyone (When You Don&rsquo;t Want To Be A Jerk)</a> <a href="https://therapyforblackgirls.com/">Therapy for Black Girls</a> <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/ca/los-angeles?gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=23136451648&amp;gbraid=0AAAAAD_gfuzeToQTwngb4DGnZGCmD2jj3&amp;gclid=CjwKCAjw6rfSBhAqEiwA_yocpgczJoLqRekedsUlqD5jsuEQjf5H5vegGxA-zM2YPGQ9wixO6ncJxhoCZGwQAvD_BwE">Psychology Today</a> &nbsp;
Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: herspacepodcast.com Email:&nbsp;<a href="mailto:herspacepodcast@gmail.com">herspacepodcast@gmail.com</a> &nbsp;

No! In case you were wondering, no is a complete sentence. Use it without hesitation. Nike! (Just do it!) Know that using it is an act of self-care. Can you think of a time when you’ve had to say no or struggled to say no? Who have you had to say no...

No Is a Complete Sentence | TBT

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The Pursuit of Black Love with Codie Elaine Oliver | TBT

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