 Homegirl at the office stays winning. Your bestie in another city is getting closer to someone else. Which one is envy? Which one is jealousy? What other feelings come up? Often times they are used interchangeably and incorrect. Terri and Dom help us clarify what each term means. Then they walk us through multiple real-life examples to help us parse out what each word looks like when played out. What are the questions we need to ask to navigate each situation? Scroll down for some helpful tips. By the way, shout out to Meg Thee Stallion for those bomb-ass knees :)  

Quote of the Day: “True confidence has no room for jealousy or envy; when you know you are great there is no reason to hate.” -unknown  

Takeaways: 
Acknowledge the feelings 
Evaluate the situation with an open mind 
Identify the roadblocks (internal and/or external) 
What can you control? 
Remember to practice self-compassion 
Kill it with kindness 
Get support from community and/or therapy  

Resources: 
Melanin and Mental Health 
Therapy for Black Girls  
Psychology Today 
Therapy for QPOC  

 
Where to find us: 
Twitter: @HERspacepodcast 
Instagram: @herspacepodcast 
Facebook: @herspacepodcast 
Website: herspacepodcast.com 
Email: herspacepodcast@gmail.com
H.E.R Space Sanctuary: https://www.facebook.com/groups/herspacesanctuary/

&nbsp;Homegirl at the office stays winning. Your bestie in another city is getting closer to someone else. Which one is envy? Which one is jealousy? What other feelings come up? Often times they are used interchangeably and incorrect. Terri and Dom help us clarify what each term means. Then they walk us through multiple real-life examples to help us parse out what each word looks like when played out. What are the questions we need to ask to navigate each situation? Scroll down for some helpful tips. By the way, shout out to Meg Thee Stallion for those bomb-ass knees :) &nbsp;
Quote of the Day: &ldquo;True confidence has no room for jealousy or envy; when you know you are great there is no reason to hate.&rdquo; -unknown &nbsp;
Takeaways:&nbsp; Acknowledge the feelings&nbsp; Evaluate the situation with an open mind Identify the roadblocks (internal and/or external) What can you control? Remember to practice self-compassion Kill it with kindness Get support from community and/or therapy &nbsp;
Resources:&nbsp; Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls&nbsp; Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC &nbsp;
&nbsp; Where to find us: Twitter:&nbsp;@HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: herspacepodcast.com Email: <a href="mailto:herspacepodcast@gmail.com">herspacepodcast@gmail.com</a> H.E.R Space Sanctuary: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/herspacesanctuary/">https://www.facebook.com/groups/herspacesanctuary/</a>

In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just… be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate authentic conversations on everything from fibroids to fake friends. If you’re a Black woman looking for an extra dose of inspiration on the go, pull up a seat and join us on the Cultivating H.E.R. (Healing, Empowerment, Resilience) Space podcast.

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just… be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate authentic conversations on everything from fibroids to fake friends. If you’re a Black woman looking for an extra dose of inspiration on the go, pull up a seat and join us on the Cultivating H.E.R. (Healing, Empowerment, Resilience) Space podcast. Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support</a>.

In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just… be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate...

Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman

Today’s episode is one that all of us experience but few of us actually talk about...jealousy and envy. Homegirl at the office stays winning. Your bestie in another city is getting closer to someone else. Which one is envy? Which one is jealousy? What...

Dealing with Jealousy and Envy Without Beating Yourself Up | TBT

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Hey lady! Have you ever had that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach that you are lacking something? That nagging feeling can cause great discomfort because it’s often considered a dirty word in polite society. The thing is that nagging feeling, often known as envy, while uncomfortable is completely normal. Once you know how to manage this emotion and turn it into fuel for creating the life you want.

Dr. Dom and Terri offer a few insightful reflection questions to help you step out of any shame that may bubble up when feelings of envy arise. Lady, don’t let envy block you from getting your own shine. Let it be the match that lights the flame within you to go for yours!

 

Goal Mapping Starter Guide

Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary

 

Resources:

Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice

Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount.

Branding with Terri

Melanin and Mental Health

Therapy for Black Girls 

Psychology Today

Therapy for QPOC

Therapy Fund Foundation

 

Where to find us:

Twitter: @HERspacepodcast

Instagram: @herspacepodcast

Facebook: @herspacepodcast

Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Have you ever had that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach that you are lacking something? That nagging feeling can cause great discomfort because it&rsquo;s often considered a dirty word in polite society. The thing is that nagging feeling, often known as envy, while uncomfortable is completely normal. Once you know how to manage this emotion and turn it into fuel for creating the life you want.
Dr. Dom and Terri offer a few insightful reflection questions to help you step out of any shame that may bubble up when feelings of envy arise. Lady, don&rsquo;t let envy block you from getting your own shine. Let it be the match that lights the flame within you to go for yours!
&nbsp;
<a href="https://terrilomax.lpages.co/goal-mapping-starter-guide/">Goal Mapping Starter Guide</a>
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/herspacesanctuary/">Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary</a>
&nbsp;
Resources:
<a href="https://www.drdominiquebroussard.com/">Dr. Dom&rsquo;s Therapy Practice</a>
<a href="https://terrilomax.samcart.com/products/getthatpitch">Get That Pitch Workshop:</a> Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit <a href="https://terrilomax.samcart.com/products/getthatpitch">GetThatPitch.com</a> and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount.
<a href="https://terrilomax.com/">Branding with Terri</a>
<a href="https://www.melaninandmentalhealth.com/">Melanin and Mental Health</a>
<a href="https://providers.therapyforblackgirls.com/">Therapy for Black Girls&nbsp;</a>
<a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us">Psychology Today</a>
<a href="https://therapyforqpoc.com/">Therapy for QPOC</a>
<a href="https://therapyfundfoundation.org/">Therapy Fund Foundation</a>
&nbsp;
Where to find us:
Twitter:<a href="https://twitter.com/herspacepodcast/"> @HERspacepodcast</a>
Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/herspacepodcast/"> @herspacepodcast</a>
Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/herspacepodcast/?modal=admin_todo_tour"> @herspacepodcast</a>
Website:<a href="https://herspacepodcast.com/"> cultivatingherspace.com</a>

Envy Doesn’t Make You a Bad Person | MINISODE

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Hey lady! You know we love a mental health check-in, so we want you to answer one simple question for us…are you good? We mean that for real, are you good? Are you ok? How are you? Ok, that was three questions but you get the gist. This week, Dr. Dom and Terri stop by to holler at the strong Black women in our community to let them know that we see you. We see you getting up each day and giving it your all even if on the inside it is a struggle.

This week they invite you to place the mask to the side and look in the mirror and assess how you are feeling and how you are doing. You can lay the armor down and tend to the parts of yourself that are tender without judgment. Doing so can help you avert full on meltdown or burnout because truthfully lady, ain’t nobody got time for that. So do yourself a favor, give yourself a hug or take a nap and allow yourself to validate your own humanity with self-compassion.

As always, we have a community of like-hearted women who will welcome you with open arms. You are not out here alone, lady. Join us in our Patreon for real sistergirl support!

 

Today’s sponsor is VB Health, known for science-backed, third-party tested supplements made in the USA.

Try Drive Boost for libido support. Many people report noticing benefits within 1–2 weeks of daily use. Visit this link and use code HerSpace for 10% off: https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace

 

Goal Mapping Starter Guide

Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary

 

Resources:

Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice

Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount.

Branding with Terri

Melanin and Mental Health

Therapy for Black Girls 

Psychology Today

Therapy for QPOC

Therapy Fund Foundation

 

Where to find us:

Twitter: @HERspacepodcast

Instagram: @herspacepodcast

Facebook: @herspacepodcast

Hey lady! You know we love a mental health check-in, so we want you to answer one simple question for us&hellip;are you good? We mean that for real, are you good? Are you ok? How are you? Ok, that was three questions but you get the gist. This week, Dr. Dom and Terri stop by to holler at the strong Black women in our community to let them know that we see you. We see you getting up each day and giving it your all even if on the inside it is a struggle.
This week they invite you to place the mask to the side and look in the mirror and assess how you are feeling and how you are doing. You can lay the armor down and tend to the parts of yourself that are tender without judgment. Doing so can help you avert full on meltdown or burnout because truthfully lady, ain&rsquo;t nobody got time for that. So do yourself a favor, give yourself a hug or take a nap and allow yourself to validate your own humanity with self-compassion.
As always, we have a community of like-hearted women who will welcome you with open arms. You are not out here alone, lady. Join us in our Patreon for real sistergirl support!
&nbsp;
Today&rsquo;s sponsor is&nbsp;VB Health, known for science-backed, third-party tested supplements made in the USA.
Try Drive Boost for libido support. Many people report noticing benefits within 1&ndash;2 weeks of daily use. Visit this link and use code HerSpace for 10% off: <a href="https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace">https://bit.ly/VBhealthherspace</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://terrilomax.lpages.co/goal-mapping-starter-guide/">Goal Mapping Starter Guide</a>
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/herspacesanctuary/">Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary</a>
&nbsp;
Resources:
<a href="https://www.drdominiquebroussard.com/">Dr. Dom&rsquo;s Therapy Practice</a>
<a href="https://terrilomax.samcart.com/products/getthatpitch">Get That Pitch Workshop:</a> Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit <a href="https://terrilomax.samcart.com/products/getthatpitch">GetThatPitch.com</a> and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount.
<a href="https://terrilomax.com/">Branding with Terri</a>
<a href="https://www.melaninandmentalhealth.com/">Melanin and Mental Health</a>
<a href="https://providers.therapyforblackgirls.com/">Therapy for Black Girls&nbsp;</a>
<a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us">Psychology Today</a>
<a href="https://therapyforqpoc.com/">Therapy for QPOC</a>
<a href="https://therapyfundfoundation.org/">Therapy Fund Foundation</a>
&nbsp;
Where to find us:
Twitter:<a href="https://twitter.com/herspacepodcast/"> @HERspacepodcast</a>
Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/herspacepodcast/"> @herspacepodcast</a>
Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/herspacepodcast/?modal=admin_todo_tour"> @herspacepodcast</a>

The Smile That Hides the Pain – Why So Many Black Women Mask Their Mental Health Crises | MINISODE

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Still on the fence about calling the lady? Well, then today’s throwback episode is just for you. Dom and Terri share their perspective and experiences with therapy to find the right fit. Through Terri’s sharing of her varied experiences and Dr. Dom's questions, the two to explore things to look for; questions to ask; and how to advocate for you may need. If you're ready to make the call, know that it'll require working through the ugly to get to the beauty, but remember to trust the process!
 
Quote of the Day:
"When we talk about our feelings, they become less overwhelming, less upsetting, and less scary." - Mr. Rogers
 
Resources:
Mood tracker app
Talkspace
Headspace
Pacifica
Melanin and Mental Health
Therapy for Black Girls
Psychology Today
 
Where to find us:
Twitter: @HERspacepodcast
Instagram: @herspacepodcast
Facebook: @herspacepodcast
Website: herspacepodcast.com
Email: herspacepodcast@gmail.com
H.E.R Space Sanctuary: https://www.facebook.com/groups/herspacesanctuary/
See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Still on the fence about calling the lady? Well, then today&rsquo;s throwback episode is just for you. Dom and Terri share their perspective and experiences with therapy to find the right fit. Through Terri&rsquo;s sharing of her varied experiences and Dr. Dom's questions, the two to explore things to look for; questions to ask; and how to advocate for you may need. If you're ready to make the call, know that it'll require working through the ugly to get to the beauty, but remember to trust the process! &nbsp; Quote of the Day: "When we talk about our feelings, they become less overwhelming, less upsetting, and less scary." - Mr. Rogers &nbsp; Resources: Mood tracker app Talkspace Headspace Pacifica Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today &nbsp; Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: herspacepodcast.com Email: <a href="mailto:herspacepodcast@gmail.com">herspacepodcast@gmail.com</a> H.E.R Space Sanctuary: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/herspacesanctuary/">https://www.facebook.com/groups/herspacesanctuary/</a> See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Have you been considering seeing a mental health professional? Well, then today’s episode is just for you. Dom acknowledges that as a mental health professional she is biased so she turns to Terri to share her experience with therapy. Through...

So What's Therapy Like Anyway? | TBT

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Dealing with Jealousy and Envy Without Beating Yourself Up | TBT

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