Ray is a straight, classically masculine Black man working in the entertainment industry…who since his teenage years has been secretly sleeping with trans women while only dating cisgender women publicly.

Ray is a straight, classically masculine Black man working in the entertainment industry&hellip;who since his teenage years has been secretly sleeping with trans women while only dating cisgender women publicly.

We’ve all got secrets...and with the cover of anonymity, ClosetEd invites you to listen in as other people divulge their juiciest ones. We live in a prescriptive society. We’re told what to wear, who to love, how to be “normal." But behind closed doors—let’s be honest—we’ve all got freak flags to fly. Join host Samia Mounts as she uncovers the joy, the pain, the relatable, and the sexy-as-hell, in her conversations with anonymous guests about their shocking and salacious adventures. Turns out the closet is a lot bigger than we thought.

We&rsquo;ve all got secrets...and with the cover of anonymity, ClosetEd invites you to listen in as other people divulge their juiciest ones. We live in a prescriptive society. We&rsquo;re told what to wear, who to love, how to be &ldquo;normal." But behind closed doors&mdash;let&rsquo;s be honest&mdash;we&rsquo;ve all got freak flags to fly. Join host Samia Mounts as she uncovers the joy, the pain, the relatable, and the sexy-as-hell, in her conversations with anonymous guests about their shocking and salacious adventures. Turns out the closet is a lot bigger than we thought.

 ClosetEd invites you to listen in as other people divulge their juiciest ones. 

ClosetEd

5: "It Made Me Feel Like I Would Be Doing Something Wrong By Keeping Them a Secret"

Because I'm a curmudgeon who hates Christmas, here is something to tickle your earholes that has nothing to do with any of the winter holidays! An audio essay about why I identify as nonbinary, for your listening pleasure.

If you'd like to see the written version, check it out on my Substack:
https://samiamounts.substack.com/p/why-im-nonbinary-and-you-can-too

And while you're there, subscribe to my Substack! Get in now while it's still 100% free!

Happy unspecified winter holiday to all of you saucy little pinecones!
xoxo,Samia

Because&nbsp;I'm a curmudgeon who hates Christmas, here is something to tickle your earholes that has nothing to do with any of the winter holidays! An audio essay about why I identify as nonbinary, for your listening pleasure.
If you'd like to see the written version, check it out on my Substack: <a href="https://samiamounts.substack.com/p/why-im-nonbinary-and-you-can-too" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="1">https://samiamounts.substack.com/p/why-im-nonbinary-and-you-can-too</a>
And while you're there, subscribe to my Substack! Get in now while it's still 100% free!
Happy unspecified winter holiday to all of you saucy little pinecones! xoxo,Samia

Why I'm Nonbinary and You Can, Too

Amanda Dames is a certified sex and relationship coach who specializes in helping couples navigate kink dynamics within their relationships. She's also a prolific content creator, with a Substack, popular accounts on Instagram and TikTok, and a podcast of her own, The Kink Consultant, available wherever you get your podcasts. In this bonus episode, we discuss Amanda's origin story, from her days working on Wall Street while moonlighting as a professional dominatrix, to her decision to leave corporate America to pursue sex and relationship coaching full time. We talk about how big the umbrella of kink really is, and how many common sexual practices and desires fall within it. She gives us a primer on different styles of kink, and finally, we discuss how aftercare can be a healing way to come out of any sexual encounter, not just kinky ones. Amanda is a DELIGHT! I hope you enjoy listening to this conversation as much as I enjoyed having it.

Here are links to find all things Amanda Dames:
Book a session with Amanda: www.amandadames.com
The Kink Consultant Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3psOpSZMQQYm2cN69bIKwc
The Kink Consultant Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-kink-consultant/id1766435920
Listen to Episode 15 featuring Amanda's mom: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6OLd924TDNXOlmvg7o68N1?si=qgoJ2UH8SB20yqwwP6GcZA

Subscribe to Amanda's Substack: https://thekinkconsultant.substack.com/

Follow Amanda on Instagram and TikTok: @the_kinkconsultant

I'll be back next Wednesday with another saucy drop! Follow me on IG and TikTok @samia.mounts and the show on IG @closetedwithsamia, and please oh please let me know your thoughts and wishes and dreams in comments and DMs, or email me at closetedpodcast@gmail.com. I read and respond to every comment and email myself and I love hearing from you!
xoxo,Samia

Amanda Dames is a certified&nbsp;sex and relationship coach who specializes in helping couples navigate kink dynamics within their relationships. She's also a prolific content creator, with a Substack, popular accounts on Instagram and TikTok, and a podcast of her own, The Kink Consultant, available wherever you get your podcasts. In this bonus episode, we discuss Amanda's origin story, from her days working on Wall Street while moonlighting as a professional dominatrix, to her decision to leave corporate America to pursue sex and relationship coaching&nbsp;full time. We talk about how big the umbrella of kink really is, and how many common sexual practices and desires fall within it. She gives us a primer on different styles of kink, and finally, we discuss how aftercare can be a healing way to come out of any sexual encounter, not just kinky ones. Amanda is a DELIGHT! I hope you enjoy listening to this conversation as much as I enjoyed having it.
Here are links to find all things Amanda Dames: Book a session with Amanda:&nbsp;<a href="http://www.amandadames.com/" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="1">www.amandadames.com</a> The Kink Consultant Podcast on Spotify:&nbsp;<a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3psOpSZMQQYm2cN69bIKwc" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="2">https://open.spotify.com/show/3psOpSZMQQYm2cN69bIKwc</a> The Kink Consultant Podcast on Apple Podcasts:&nbsp;<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-kink-consultant/id1766435920" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="3">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-kink-consultant/id1766435920</a> Listen to Episode 15 featuring Amanda's mom:&nbsp;<a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6OLd924TDNXOlmvg7o68N1?si=qgoJ2UH8SB20yqwwP6GcZA" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="4">https://open.spotify.com/episode/6OLd924TDNXOlmvg7o68N1?si=qgoJ2UH8SB20yqwwP6GcZA</a>
Subscribe to Amanda's Substack: <a href="https://thekinkconsultant.substack.com/" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="5">https://thekinkconsultant.substack.com/</a>
Follow Amanda on Instagram and TikTok: <a>@the_kinkconsultant</a>
I'll be back next Wednesday with another saucy drop! Follow me on IG and TikTok @samia.mounts and the show on IG @closetedwithsamia, and please oh please let me know your thoughts and wishes and dreams in comments and DMs, or email me at&nbsp;<a href="mailto:closetedpodcast@gmail.com" data-linkindex="6">closetedpodcast@gmail.com</a>. I read and respond to every comment and email myself and I love hearing from you! xoxo,Samia

ClosetEd Interview Series: Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant

Hey hey, pinecones, Samia here. I've brought you so many stories from other people's lives, but haven't shared that much with you about my own life. This cannot stand! Nay! In order to correct this tragic imbalance, here is the first in a mini-series in which I'll be sharing with you bits and pieces of my own personal origin story. Enjoy, and let me know if you have thoughts or questions by emailing me at closetedpodcast@gmail.com.

Hey hey, pinecones, Samia here. I've brought you so many stories from other people's lives, but haven't shared that much with you about my&nbsp;own life. This cannot stand! Nay! In order to correct this tragic imbalance, here is the first in a mini-series in which I'll be sharing with you bits and pieces of my own personal origin story. Enjoy, and let me know if you have thoughts or questions by emailing me at&nbsp;<a href="mailto:closetedpodcast@gmail.com" data-linkindex="1">closetedpodcast@gmail.com</a>.

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