The holiday season often arrives wrapped in expectations—traditions to uphold, gatherings to organize, and memories we hope to recreate. But life is never static. Children grow. Circumstances shift. Loved ones move across states… or even across oceans. In this episode of Hope for the Journey, Monica Schmelter explores how embracing flexibility can transform our holiday experience and keep our hearts centered on Christ. 

As a self-described recovering “control freak,” Monica shares how letting go of rigid expectations opened her hands to receive the grace God is offering right now. Drawing from personal stories—including celebrating Christmas early with her adult son before he travels abroad—and insights from Hope for the Journey guests, she reminds us that the true heart of Christmas remains unchanged: Christ has come. When we release the pressure for perfection, we make space for peace, connection, and gratitude. Flexibility becomes a spiritual posture, a way of loving others well, and a reminder that God’s joy isn’t fragile. From store-bought dinners to unexpected schedule shifts, the imperfect moments often become the sacred ones.

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