In this powerful episode, host Monica and Kenza Haddock take an honest and compassionate look at narcissism—the kind that often hides beneath charm, compliments, and early connection. Together, we unpack what narcissistic behavior really is, why it can be so harmful, and how it impacts women who are seeking healing and wholeness in the second half of life.

They begin by breaking down the clinical definition of narcissistic personality disorder, helping you understand what’s happening beneath the surface and how these patterns develop. We also explore the emotional and chemical bonds that can form—such as the role dopamine plays when attention and affirmation feel intoxicating, especially if you’re not used to being treated well.

Most importantly, this episode offers practical, hope-filled steps you can start taking today. From setting healthy, appropriate boundaries to cultivating a supportive community, you’ll walk away with tools to protect your heart, strengthen your identity, and move forward with clarity.

If you’ve ever felt confused, diminished, or mislabeled by someone else’s behavior, this conversation is for you. Remember: no name spoken over you can override who God says you are.

Key Takeaways

• What narcissism really is—and why it’s often hard to recognize at first

• How narcissistic behavior can harm emotional and spiritual well-being

• The role of dopamine and why early praise can feel so powerful

• Simple, practical steps to begin setting healthy boundaries

• Why community is essential for healing and rebuilding

• Reclaiming your identity beyond harmful labels and words spoken over you