When was the last time you planned something simply because it would make you smile?

So many women spend the summer making memories for everyone else while quietly putting their own joy on hold. But what if creating just one thing to look forward to could actually lower your stress and help you experience more peace?

In this first episode of the Summer Soul Glow Up series, Bonnie shares a personal story about discovering how making room for joy changed the emotional atmosphere she created for her family. As she prepares for ankle surgery this summer, Bonnie reflects on how choosing delight—even in a difficult season—has become a sacred act of soul care.

Through Scripture and the science of anticipatory joy, you'll discover why looking forward to something meaningful can renew hope, calm your nervous system, and remind you that your joy matters to God.

If you've been putting yourself last, feeling emotionally drained, or wondering how to find joy in the middle of a difficult season, this episode will encourage you to make room for delight again, one small moment at a time.

Key Takeaways

— Why planning something joyful can lower stress and increase hope

— The science of anticipatory joy and how dopamine supports emotional wellness

— Why your emotional presence becomes someone else's emotional memory

— How making room for your own joy blesses the people you love

— A simple soul care practice to help you create your own Summer Glow List

— Why God delights when you delight in the gifts He's given you

Breath Prayer

Inhale: Delight yourself in the Lord...

Exhale: And He will give you the desires of your heart.

Scripture

"Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart." — Psalm 37:4

Key Takeaways

— Why our minds naturally focus on worst-case scenarios
— The difference between fear's what-ifs and faith's perspective
— How Jesus comforts us in seasons of uncertainty
— What to notice to calm an anxious heart
— The science of negativity bias and emotional wellness
— A simple soul care practice to help you move from fear to faith

Breath Prayer

Inhale: This is the way
Exhale: Walk in it

Scripture

"Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, 'This is the way; walk in it.'" Isaiah 30:21

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