This week we are talking about what it means to be seen, ideation & suicidality (yes that's a word!) and why we will NEVER rent from a certain rental car company again. 

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This week we are talking about what it means to be seen, ideation &amp; suicidality (yes that's a word!) and why we will NEVER rent from a certain rental car company again. 
Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. 
Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: <a href="mailto:BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com">BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com</a>
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"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

Normalizing Conversations on Ideation (Featuring Dr. Van Bailey)

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This week (before they take a two week holiday break), your BFF's go a little deeper into a discussion of why the "New Year, New Me" mentality is a scheme the Todd set up and why we want our good sis to get off them damn NYE 2026 steps. We also rate what we believe are the best moments of 2025 and send a message to the HotGaysTM. 

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This week (before they take a two week holiday break), your BFF's go a little deeper into a discussion of why the "New Year, New Me" mentality is a scheme the Todd set up and why we want our good sis to get off them damn NYE 2026 steps. We also rate what we believe are the best moments of 2025 and send a message to the HotGaysTM.&nbsp;
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New Year, Hold the Resolutions 

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This week on the show, your BFF's talk Cash Money taking over for the 99 & the 2000's, the Netflix/Warner Brother merger (big yikes) and why we love Jasmine Crockett - and why some of you need to be more like her. 

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This week on the show, your BFF's talk Cash Money taking over for the 99 &amp; the 2000's, the Netflix/Warner Brother merger (big yikes) and why we love Jasmine Crockett - and why some of you need to be more like her.&nbsp;
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To What End?

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This week the BFF's are joined by Krystina Arielle to talk storytelling, the power of Black imagination and why we all cheered when that house fell on Nessarose. We also ask the important question - why do I have to pay for parking if I already paid for my hotel stay?

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This week the BFF's are joined by Krystina Arielle to talk storytelling, the power of Black imagination and why we all cheered when that house fell on Nessarose. We also ask the important question - why do I have to pay for parking if I already paid for my hotel stay?
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You Need a BOQBONE! (Featuring Krystina Arielle) 

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Normalizing Conversations on Ideation (Featuring Dr. Van Bailey)

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