This week we are talking about what it means to be seen, ideation & suicidality (yes that's a word!) and why we will NEVER rent from a certain rental car company again. 

Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. 

Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com

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This week we are talking about what it means to be seen, ideation &amp; suicidality (yes that's a word!) and why we will NEVER rent from a certain rental car company again. 
Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. 
Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: <a href="mailto:BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com">BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com</a>
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"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

Normalizing Conversations on Ideation (Featuring Dr. Van Bailey)

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Welcome to the Black Fat Femme Podcast

Heat Wave and Hurricane Anxiety

Celebrating Black Pride Success

Introducing Amber Cooper from Match Group

The Purpose of Past Relationships

Black Love and Dating Challenges

BLK App and In-Person Events

Lessons from Marriage and Dating

The Evolution of Listening in Marriage

Learning to Compromise and Hear Your Partner

The Challenges of Dating on Dating Apps

Navigating Black Love Without Stereotypes

The Importance of Communication in Dating

BLK App Promotion

Beyoncé's $1,000 Box Controversy

The Ethics of Celebrity Merchandise

NBR Break

Yes Ma'am and No Man Pam Segment

Closing Remarks and Sign-off

The 80s Nostalgia Debate

The AI Dilemma - Creativity vs. Convenience

AI's Role in Content Creation

The Value of Dupes and Smart Shopping

Wrapping Up and Call for Feedback

Spicy Hot Takes of the Week

BLK's Social Media and Content

Closing Remarks and Contact Information

This week your BFF's sit down with Amber Cooper from the Match Group to discuss the one thing that has everyone stressed more than gas prices: DATING + RELATIONSHIPS. We also ask a very important question that so many of us wonder in every relationship we have - is every connection meant for us to learn something? We also discuss why the BLK app is where it's at! 

We want to hear from you! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com.

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Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! 

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Join the BLK APP: Instagram | Website 

This week your BFF's sit down with Amber Cooper from the Match Group to discuss the one thing that has everyone stressed more than gas prices: DATING + RELATIONSHIPS. We also ask a very important question that so many of us wonder in every relationship we have - is every connection meant for us to learn something? We also discuss why the BLK app is where it's at!&nbsp;
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Thank You, Next! (Featuring Amber Cooper) 

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Welcome to the BFF Black Fat Femme Podcast

Smucker's Crustable Nostalgia

Catching Up with Joho

Upcoming Beyoncé Night Events

Introducing Reverend Don Abram

The Divine in Nature and Movement

Finding Spirituality in Unexpected Places

The Power of Human Connection

The Body as a Sacred Text

Ballroom as a Spiritual Home

Ballroom as Sanctuary: A Modern Black Church

The Power of Notes and Divine Timing

The Quest for Black Queer Sanctuary

Upcoming Event Promotion

The Black Church and Ballroom Intersections

Cultural Significance and Solidarity

Yes Ma'am, No Man Pam Segment

The Toll of Violence and Discrimination

Jameela Jamil's Inspiring Message

Yes Ma'am and No Ma'am of the Week

Gloria Steinem's Legacy and Intersectionality

Toward Pride and Dr. John Paul

Spicy Hot Takes and Final Thoughts

Social Media and Website Promotion

This week your BFF's are joined by Rev. Don Abram to reflect on navigating both the beauty (and the harm) of the Black Church. We dive into what it means to reconstruct faith beyond toxic theology and how (and why) being in community with other Black queer people should be viewed as a sacred space.

We want to hear from you! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com.

Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! 

Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! 

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Follow Rev. Don Abram: Instagram | Website 

This week your BFF's are joined by Rev. Don Abram to reflect on navigating both the beauty (and the harm) of the Black Church. We dive into what it means to reconstruct faith beyond toxic theology and how (and why) being in community with other Black queer people should be viewed as a sacred space.
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The Body is a Sacred Text (Featuring Rev Don Abram) 

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This week, your BFF’s process out loud what it’s been like to lose so many greats all at one time. We also talk about the ways they encouraged us and what type of legacy we want to leave behind when it’s our time to go to glory. 🙏🏾 

We want to hear from you! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com.

Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! 

Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! 

Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Threads | Tik-Tok | Facebook 

Follow Dr. Jon Paul: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok | Threads 

 Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok

This week, your BFF&rsquo;s process out loud what it&rsquo;s been like to lose so many greats all at one time. We also talk about the ways they encouraged us and what type of legacy we want to leave behind when it&rsquo;s our time to go to glory. 🙏🏾&nbsp;
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We want to hear from you! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: <a href="mailto:BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com">BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com</a>.
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Someone Close The Pearly Gates! 

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/e73c998e-6e60-432f-8610-ae210140c5b1/clips/f0270b2e-ca16-4d88-8109-b4b80059a32c/transcript

Normalizing Conversations on Ideation (Featuring Dr. Van Bailey)

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