The Body is a Sacred Text (Featuring Rev Don Abram)

This week your BFF's are joined by Rev. Don Abram to reflect on navigating both the beauty (and the harm) of the Black Church. We dive into what it means to reconstruct faith beyond toxic theology and how (and why) being in community with other Black queer people should be viewed as a sacred space.…

Someone Close The Pearly Gates!

This week, your BFF’s process out loud what it’s been like to lose so many greats all at one time. We also talk about the ways they encouraged us and what type of legacy we want to leave behind when it’s our time to go to glory. 🙏🏾  We want to hear from you! Send us an email with your thoughts/c…

Rewind: Millennial Meltdown (Featuring Chris Rodgers)

This week your besties look back to when we were joined by the Kang of digital content - the one who keeps the content live, loud and in color, Chris Rodgers. On the show this week: a discussion about why we are sick and tired of being sick and tired as millennials. Chris also gives PayPal the ster…

Jingle All the Way (Featuring Romeo Bingham)

This week, the BFF's welcome viral creator Romeo Bingham to talk about the joy, labor, and pressure behind being an “overnight” moment. From the Dr Pepper jingle going national to the conditional care and scrutiny Black trans femmes face online, this we get into visibility, viral fame, pop culture,…

I Am the Owner of This House!

This week the BFF's are doing a full episode of Yes Ma'am & No Ma'am Pam. We talk about the things we love, the things people do that bring us joy, the things we can't STAND and the things we hope to never see or experience again. It's our house and we live here!  We want to hear from you! Send us…

The Re-Introduction of Me (Featuring Emma “Dilemma” Belizario)

This week we are joined by our favorite Goddess on the court, Emma "Dilemma" Belizario as we unpack the myths and misinformation shaping the conversation around trans athletes in sports. In our convo we move beyond headlines to explore what’s truly at stake for trans girls and women, why these narr…

It's MY Meat! (Featuring Dominique Morgan)

This week on the show, we welcome back to the show our good Judy Dominque Morgan to talk hyper visibility and the ways it impacts Black trans people. We also discuss the ways we get used by our peers for clicks and how (and why) we are lost without a coin, NIECE! We want to hear from you! Send us …

It’s Giving Black Camp (Featuring Marc Sully Saint-Fleur)

This week the BFF’s explore how camp in film and television can unlock Black queer joy beyond stories of pain. Actor Marc Sully Saint-Fleur (Jury Duty, The Good Place) joins us to share how camp shapes his performances, fuels whimsy, and creates space for bold, authentic expression while balancing …

A New Scenario (Featuring Dr. Terrell J.A. Winder)

In this week's episode we are joined by researcher and author Dr. Terrell J.A. Winder for a powerful conversation on the intersections of identity, stigma, and self-worth among Black queer men in Los Angeles. Grounded in Terrell’s work, we explore the earliest moments many Black queer folks come to…

The Nuance Episode (Featuring Kalen Allen)

On this week’s episode of the Black Fat Femme Podcast, the BFF's sit down with multihyphenate creator Kalen Allen for a deep, tender, and hilarious conversation about life after the show. Kalen reflects on his rise, the industry’s response once the cameras stopped rolling, and what it’s taken to re…