BFF: Black, Fat, Femme
BFF: Black, Fat, Femme
"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.Social links:
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New Year, Hold the Resolutions
This week (before they take a two week holiday break), your BFF's go a little deeper into a discussion of why the "New Year, New Me" mentality is a scheme the Todd set up and why we want our good sis to get off them damn NYE 2026 steps. We also rate what we believe are the best moments of 2025 and …
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To What End?
This week on the show, your BFF's talk Cash Money taking over for the 99 & the 2000's, the Netflix/Warner Brother merger (big yikes) and why we love Jasmine Crockett - and why some of you need to be more like her. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail…
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You Need a BOQBONE! (Featuring Krystina Arielle)
This week the BFF's are joined by Krystina Arielle to talk storytelling, the power of Black imagination and why we all cheered when that house fell on Nessarose. We also ask the important question - why do I have to pay for parking if I already paid for my hotel stay? Send us an email with your th…
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Loretta Devine was a Stud (Bad Queers Podcast Crossover)
This week is a the crossover episode you didn't know you needed. We are joined by Kris and Shana of the Bad Queer Podcast where we talk the origin story of our show, the love + lessons in their friendship, the success of their show, Jonathan’s book Black. Fat. Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly …
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You Can't Buy a Home with Hope
This week your BFF’s discuss the complicated dance of activism and capitalism, why we need to bring begging back to R&B, shout out the 95 Pinto and talk why companies need to pay contractors on time. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, d…
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36 Hours of Hotep (Featuring Jessica Rose AKA She Really Had a Baby)
This week, we are joined by the mommas of all mommas, Jessica Rose of She Really Had a Baby. We discuss reframing parenthood through an equitable lens, why celebrity won't save us and why the Louvre needs better security. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmeP…
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Blue Vest Activist
This week your BFF’s discuss the joy that is Zohran Mamdani, hope, give kudos to the state of Mississippi and talk about why we are both so tired of xenophobia. We also tell certain celebs why they need to close their racist a$$ traps! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: …
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Emphasis On the Nuts (with Tyreak Told You)
This week, we are joined by the hilarious Tyreak Told You live, loud and in color from NYC. The dolls talk about moments they want to relive, events from 2025 that need to stay in 2025 and why flying out of JFK is NUTS. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod…
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Protect the Dolls (and That Means Chucky)
This week your BFF’s dive into the obsession America has with dating shows, talk about who is the real underrated queer horror icon (just in time for Halloween) and discuss why our problematic fave might just be having the best year ever. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the sho…
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It’s Not Jesus - It’s the Fanbase (Featuring Kristian A. Smith)
This week, the BFF's welcome Kristian A. Smith to the third seat to talk about the difference between church hurt & religious trauma. We also pay our respects to legends (rest well D'Angelo) and talk about why we are sick of people heckling Kamala. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments abo…
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