What does it mean to be Black, gay, and free — all over the world?
This week, Jon and Joho sit down with Nick, creator of Black, Gay, and Abroad, to talk Black gay travel, safety, and storytelling. From MTV and BuzzFeed to building his own agency and passport-stamping his way across Spain, France, Mexico, Costa Rica, and beyond — Nick is redefining what it looks like to move through the world as a Black gay man.
We get into his iconic Yasss to Naur solo travel safety list, the art of long-form travel blogging in a short-form world, and why he went live from Puerto Vallarta during the El Mencho operation to counter the media narrative with truth on the ground.
Travel tips, queer joy, and citizen journalism — this episode has all of it.
We want to hear from you! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com.
Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube!
Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here!
Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Threads | Tik-Tok | Facebook
Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok
Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok
Follow Nick: Threads | Instagram | TikTok

It's Giving Black Cinema (Featuring Tre'vell Anderson & Ray Love Jr.)
1:16:00

Unearthing Our Mothers
1:12:53

I Am Not an AMPM Cup (Featuring Nicole Daniels)
1:16:09