Anonymous says she started dating her partner in 2009 while she was in matric. She says the relationship went well and they eventually got married and now have 3 kids together. 

Anonymous says in 2022 while she was pregnant with their third child she found out that her husband had impregnated someone else. Anonymous says this caused a rift in their relationship and she ended up in a situation where she was fighting to get him back and he was refusing. 

Anonymous says her husband then lost his job and she took him back in her life an supported him, even when she lost her job, she used the little that she had to help him. 

Anonymous says he then found a job, but left her and moved back home to his family’s home, where the lady he impregnated lives. 

Anonymous says he’s supporting the children financially but their relationship is strained and she doesn’t know what to do.