Anonymous has been with her partner for 5 years now, they have a 15 year age gap, he’s in his mid-forties and she’s in her early thirties. 

She says communication and conflict resolution is the biggest problem they have in their relationship as they struggle to agree on fighting styles and she feels like he doesn’t give her space to voice her concerns. 

She’s worried that they’ll never be able to find a middle ground when it comes to communication. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for 5 years now, they have a 15 year age gap, he&rsquo;s in his mid-forties and she&rsquo;s in her early thirties.&nbsp;
She says communication and conflict resolution is the biggest problem they have in their relationship as they struggle to agree on fighting styles and she feels like he doesn&rsquo;t give her space to voice her concerns.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s worried that they&rsquo;ll never be able to find a middle ground when it comes to communication.&nbsp;

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

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Ask A Man 30 Oct '26: 'We have different fighting styles'

Anonymous has been with a married man for about three years now and said to anonymous that he’s interested in being in a polygamous relationship. 

She says his family knew about their relationship but his wife didn’t know they were together. She fell pregnant with his child and while him and his family were happy about this initially, there are now questions being raised about the paternity of the child and his family is harassing her and they’ve turned their back on her. 

He hasn’t been defending her in this situation and as she calls us today, he hasn’t reached out to her in about two weeks. 

Anonymous has been with a married man for about three years now and said to anonymous that he&rsquo;s interested in being in a polygamous relationship.&nbsp;
She says his family knew about their relationship but his wife didn&rsquo;t know they were together. She fell pregnant with his child and while him and his family were happy about this initially, there are now questions being raised about the paternity of the child and his family is harassing her and they&rsquo;ve turned their back on her.&nbsp;
He hasn&rsquo;t been defending her in this situation and as she calls us today, he hasn&rsquo;t reached out to her in about two weeks.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 10 Nov '26: 'My married boyfriend is denying our child'

Anonymous dated a lady for many years and says he took her from someone else. 

The paternity of their first child is still in question as she was having an affair when she was pregnant, they managed to work through this situation and continued with their relationship. They also had a second child. 

However, things never really got back to normal between them and he ended up breaking up with the mother of his, apparent, children. 

Anonymous dated a lady for many years and says he took her from someone else.&nbsp;
The paternity of their first child is still in question as she was having an affair when she was pregnant, they managed to work through this situation and continued with their relationship. They also had a second child.&nbsp;
However, things never really got back to normal between them and he ended up breaking up with the mother of his, apparent, children.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 09 Nov '26: 'I love our children despite questions about their paternity.'

Anonymous is a recently divorced man and says he had a very good woman who he treated badly and his behaviour eventually led to their breakup.

Three years after breaking up with his wife, he feels like he’s now a changed man is ready to find someone to be his life partner…

Anonymous is a recently divorced man and says he had a very good woman who he treated badly and his behaviour eventually led to their breakup.
Three years after breaking up with his wife, he feels like he&rsquo;s now a changed man is ready to find someone to be his life partner&hellip;

Ask A Man 30 Oct '26: 'We have different fighting styles'

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