Anonymous got married in her late teens and has now been with her husband for 13 years. 

Her marriage has been generally fine during this time and they have children with her husband. 

She met a man from another country through work, who she was in charge of taking care off while he was in the country, and there’s a spark between them. 

She hasn’t done anything with this man despite his advances and gifts, however, she does find herself feeling stimulated by him and this situation. 

She’s wondering if this is infidelity and what she needs to do.