Anonymous has been with her partner for over a year now.

They both had jobs when they met but she got a different job in another region and had to move. He quit from his job about since months after she moved and this didn’t really affect their relationship.

However, she’s now back in the same area as him and it’s really highlighting the financial gap between them.

A part of her blames him for not having a plan before leaving his other job and she now feels like he’s not thing hard enough. The financial strain has really impacted her but she doesn’t know how to deal with this without pressuring him.

Anonymous has been with her partner for over a year now.
They both had jobs when they met but she got a different job in another region and had to move. He quit from his job about since months after she moved and this didn&rsquo;t really affect their relationship.
However, she&rsquo;s now back in the same area as him and it&rsquo;s really highlighting the financial gap between them.
A part of her blames him for not having a plan before leaving his other job and she now feels like he&rsquo;s not thing hard enough. The financial strain has really impacted her but she doesn&rsquo;t know how to deal with this without pressuring him.

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Ask A Man 16 Sep '26: 'Am I putting too much financial pressure on him?'

This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual.

We call on you the Ask a Man community, we want to have a necessary and uncomfortable conversation; not to speak on behalf of women, or alienate men, but to examine what we can all do to bring an end to gender-based violence. What attitudes and behaviours are we allowing to continue in our homes, friendships and communities? How do men hold one another accountable before harmful behaviour escalates into violence? And how do we raise boys who understand consent, respect and equality?

Today, the men of Ask a Man move from giving relationship advice to confronting a national crisis that demands honesty, accountability and action from all of us.

This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual.
We call on you the Ask a Man community, we want to have a necessary and uncomfortable conversation; not to speak on behalf of women, or alienate men, but to examine what we can all do to bring an end to gender-based violence. What attitudes and behaviours are we allowing to continue in our homes, friendships and communities? How do men hold one another accountable before harmful behaviour escalates into violence? And how do we raise boys who understand consent, respect and equality?
Today, the men of Ask a Man move from giving relationship advice to confronting a national crisis that demands honesty, accountability and action from all of us.

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Ask A Man 17 Sep '26: 'I Love her but she's busy with other people'

Anonymous has been in a relationship with his partner for about two years now. They had a child a few months into their relationship, however, he lost his job at around the same time and had to move to another province for a new job. 

He says things soured in their relationship after he moved and she hasn’t been the same since. He feels like he’s forcing things, and he’s the only one making an effort.

When he brings up how he feels to her, she tends to blame him for moving to another region. He also says they don’t get intimate anymore in their relationship, and that’s also affecting him.

Anonymous has been in a relationship with his partner for about two years now. They had a child a few months into their relationship, however, he lost his job at around the same time and had to move to another province for a new job.&nbsp;
He says things soured in their relationship after he moved and she hasn&rsquo;t been the same since. He feels like he&rsquo;s forcing things, and he&rsquo;s the only one making an effort.
When he brings up how he feels to her, she tends to blame him for moving to another region. He also says they don&rsquo;t get intimate anymore in their relationship, and that&rsquo;s also affecting him.

Ask A Man 16 Sep '26: 'Am I putting too much financial pressure on him?'

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