Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady last year and things were going until she confessed that she was actually in a relationship with an older man that she had previously claimed was her father. 

She told anonymous that she was going to break things off with the guy but he’s not sure whether she ever really tried to break up with him. 

Fast forward to this year, he found out that she is actually getting married to this other man, however, they hooked up the night before her lobola…

Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady last year and things were going until she confessed that she was actually in a relationship with an older man that she had previously claimed was her father.&nbsp;
She told anonymous that she was going to break things off with the guy but he&rsquo;s not sure whether she ever really tried to break up with him.&nbsp;
Fast forward to this year, he found out that she is actually getting married to this other man, however, they hooked up the night before her lobola&hellip;

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

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Ask A Man 15 May '26: 'She married the man she claimed was her father.'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 months now, they are both in their 30s, they have one child each, she lives with her child and he lives at his family home with his parents. 

He often visits her place on weekends when they are both free and while this arrangement initially worked she feels like he’s become a major cost to her pocket. She brought this up and ask him to contribute a little more to her household but he didn’t like her request and it has resulted in him breaking up with her. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 months now, they are both in their 30s, they have one child each, she lives with her child and he lives at his family home with his parents.&nbsp;
He often visits her place on weekends when they are both free and while this arrangement initially worked she feels like he&rsquo;s become a major cost to her pocket. She brought this up and ask him to contribute a little more to her household but he didn&rsquo;t like her request and it has resulted in him breaking up with her.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 18 May '26: 'He doesn't want to contribute to my household.'

Anonymous has been in an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart for about 7 years now and they are currently separated.

They’ve broken up for various reasons over the years, mostly because he keeps cheating on her with the same woman. 

Anonymous and this guy live quite far from each other now, and every time she’s away from their home town (for school) he seems to be with this other woman. 

She just wants to know if he really loves her or just likes having her around. 

Anonymous has been in an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart for about 7 years now and they are currently separated.
They&rsquo;ve broken up for various reasons over the years, mostly because he keeps cheating on her with the same woman.&nbsp;
Anonymous and this guy live quite far from each other now, and every time she&rsquo;s away from their home town (for school) he seems to be with this other woman.&nbsp;
She just wants to know if he really loves her or just likes having her around.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 14 May '26: 'Does he really love me or just likes having her around.'

Anonymous met her current partner while she was in varsity, while he was already working and had an established career. 

When she was younger she was more interested in building her career in her twenties and then maybe building a family in her early thirties.

However, her partner was really keen to get married and have children, something she wasn’t really keen for this early in her life but he was taking care of her and was really serious about her which she feels made her more open to the idea of settling down and building a family. 

They now have an 8 month-old baby but he’s changed his tune and is no longer supporting her and their baby in the way he used to. 

Anonymous met her current partner while she was in varsity, while he was already working and had an established career.&nbsp;
When she was younger she was more interested in building her career in her twenties and then maybe building a family in her early thirties.
However, her partner was really keen to get married and have children, something she wasn&rsquo;t really keen for this early in her life but he was taking care of her and was really serious about her which she feels made her more open to the idea of settling down and building a family.&nbsp;
They now have an 8 month-old baby but he&rsquo;s changed his tune and is no longer supporting her and their baby in the way he used to.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 15 May '26: 'She married the man she claimed was her father.'

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