In this episode of Ageless Radiance Club, I’m joined by Dr Kelly Casperson, double Board Certified Urologist and sexual health advocate, podcast host and author of You Are Not Broken. You will hear a totally unfiltered conversation on desire, sexual longevity, and what it really means to stay connected—to ourselves and to our partners, through midlife and beyond.

Dr Kelly breaks down the myths around female pleasure, tackles the hormonal shifts that reshape desire during menopause, and explores why expert support and education are key to lasting sexual well-being.

From the role of testosterone to the real anatomy of arousal, this episode is about rewriting the script for women’s sexual health, with honesty, humour, and zero shame. Whether you’re navigating dryness, rethinking libido, or simply wanting to feel more connected, this one’s for you.

Key Takeaways:

• Sexual health is a vital part of overall well-being and longevity
• Desire often shifts due to hormonal changes—especially during menopause
• Common issues like dryness are widespread, but not “normal”
• Urologists play a crucial role in supporting female sexual function
• Better sex education is needed—most women weren’t taught the basics
• Pornography often misrepresents the reality of sexual connection
• Vibrators and sexual aids can improve comfort, health, and pleasure
• The “orgasm gap” speaks to a broader issue in sexual equity
• Social media distorts views of anatomy and performance
• Women often internalise criticism about their bodies for decades
• Testosterone plays a key role in women’s mood and desire
• Many women experience a sexual renaissance in midlife
• Communication and connection are fundamental to fulfilment

Chapters:

00:00 – Challenging Sexual Longevity Narratives
03:13 – Empowering Women Through Sexual Education
06:12 – Understanding Hormonal Impact on Sexual Health
08:51 – The Role of Urologists in Female Sexual Health
11:47 – Navigating Menopause and Sexual Function
15:02 – The Importance of Lubrication and Sexual Aids
17:53 – The Impact of Pornography on Sexual Understanding
26:54 – Distorted Views of Anatomy and Sexual Performance
35:25 – The Psychological Aspects of Sexual Health
41:19 – Understanding Testosterone and Its Impact
48:41 – The Future of Sexual Health Education

Watch the whole episode here: https://youtu.be/XkMuptzJDlk