How do you stay true to your purpose, even as life takes unexpected turns?

In this heartfelt episode of A Really Good Cry, I sit down with my beloved husband, Jay Shetty, to explore the transformative impact of ancient wisdom on our hectic modern lives. Jay, a former monk who has touched the hearts of millions, shares his journey from the quiet of the ashram to the bustle of the global stage.

Together, we discuss how integrating mindfulness and purpose into our daily routines can offer sanctuary from the storm of daily life. We delve into the power of stillness, the beauty of purposeful living, and how old-world principles can provide fresh perspectives on our most pressing challenges.

Join us for a conversation that feels like a warm hug for your soul. You truly don’t want to miss it!

 

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:38 What is Jay’s deep intention and purpose in life?

05:05 Hard work is gratitude in action

11:49 How to know what you want to do in life

22:12 Setting boundaries while staying emotionally available

28:09 Creating a heart that feels like home

33:09 Finding the right mentors in your life

39:25 How to help without overstepping boundaries

43:23 Sacrifice vs. Support in Relationships

50:13 Learning to see pain as a path to your higher self

54:17 The link between fear and pain

58:03 The feeling of jealousy and envy

1:10:25 Relationship between spirituality and abundance

1:18:02 Dealing with criticism

1:25:42 Quick fire questions with Jay

 

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How do you stay true to your purpose, even as life takes unexpected turns?
In this heartfelt episode of A Really Good Cry, I sit down with my beloved husband, Jay Shetty, to explore the transformative impact of ancient wisdom on our hectic modern lives. Jay, a former monk who has touched the hearts of millions, shares his journey from the quiet of the ashram to the bustle of the global stage.
Together, we discuss how integrating mindfulness and purpose into our daily routines can offer sanctuary from the storm of daily life. We delve into the power of stillness, the beauty of purposeful living, and how old-world principles can provide fresh perspectives on our most pressing challenges.
Join us for a conversation that feels like a warm hug for your soul. You truly don&rsquo;t want to miss it!
&nbsp;
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:38 What is Jay&rsquo;s deep intention and purpose in life?
05:05 Hard work is gratitude in action
11:49 How to know what you want to do in life
22:12 Setting boundaries while staying emotionally available
28:09 Creating a heart that feels like home
33:09 Finding the right mentors in your life
39:25 How to help without overstepping boundaries
43:23 Sacrifice vs. Support in Relationships
50:13 Learning to see pain as a path to your higher self
54:17 The link between fear and pain
58:03 The feeling of jealousy and envy
1:10:25 Relationship between spirituality and abundance
1:18:02 Dealing with criticism
1:25:42 Quick fire questions with Jay
&nbsp;
Follow Jay:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.jayshetty.me/">https://www.jayshetty.me/</a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/">https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/</a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbV60AGIHKz2xIGvbk0LLvg">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbV60AGIHKz2xIGvbk0LLvg</a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@JayShettyPodcast">https://www.youtube.com/@JayShettyPodcast</a>.</li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jayshetty">https://www.tiktok.com/@jayshetty</a></li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
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</ul>

This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!

There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 

Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more. 

This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!
There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 
Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more.

A Really Good Cry

This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!
There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 
Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more.

Jay Shetty: His Past, Presence, and Purpose — An Honest Conversation With His Wife Radhi

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What actually changes when you understand the blueprint you were born with?

Why do certain patterns repeat? Why do some seasons feel heavy, and others open?

And can astrology really give clarity without taking away your free will?

 

In this episode, Radhi sits down with The AstroTwins, Ophira and Tali Edut, for a grounded, eye-opening conversation about astrology as a tool for self-understanding, timing, purpose, and relationships. They break down the basics in a way that finally makes sense — from the Sun, Moon, and Rising signs to the North and South Nodes, planetary cycles, and what a birth chart actually shows about your inner world.

 

The twins share how they discovered astrology in college, how being four minutes apart created subtle differences in their charts, and why no one has a “perfect” or “lucky” chart. They explain why astrology shouldn’t be treated as a rulebook, how to avoid becoming dependent on predictions, and why free will matters just as much as the stars.

 

They also explore love and compatibility, what Mercury retrograde is actually about, and why 2026 will bring a major collective reset as Saturn and Neptune meet at zero degrees Aries.

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:
What your birth chart reveals beyond your zodiac sign
The role of your Sun, Moon, and Rising — and which one people feel the most
How the North & South Nodes point to purpose, patterns, and growth
Why timing matters: Jupiter return, Saturn return, retrogrades, and yearly cycles
How to use astrology without letting it control your decisions
What really makes two people compatible (and why “hard” relationships can be meaningful)
The difference between Western and Vedic astrology
What the AstroTwins predict for 2026 — and why it’s a year of new beginnings

 

This episode is a clear, refreshing reminder that astrology isn’t about telling you who you are — it’s about helping you understand yourself better. When you know the patterns, the timing, and the possibilities, you can make choices with more confidence, clarity, and intention.

 

Follow The AstroTwins: 

https://astrostyle.com/

https://www.instagram.com/astrotwins/

https://www.youtube.com/@astrotwins-tv





Follow Radhi:

https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ

https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/

https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia

What actually changes when you understand the blueprint you were born with?
Why do certain patterns repeat? Why do some seasons feel heavy, and others open?
And can astrology really give clarity without taking away your free will?
&nbsp;
In this episode, Radhi sits down with The AstroTwins, Ophira and Tali Edut, for a grounded, eye-opening conversation about astrology as a tool for self-understanding, timing, purpose, and relationships. They break down the basics in a way that finally makes sense &mdash; from the Sun, Moon, and Rising signs to the North and South Nodes, planetary cycles, and what a birth chart actually shows about your inner world.
&nbsp;
The twins share how they discovered astrology in college, how being four minutes apart created subtle differences in their charts, and why no one has a &ldquo;perfect&rdquo; or &ldquo;lucky&rdquo; chart. They explain why astrology shouldn&rsquo;t be treated as a rulebook, how to avoid becoming dependent on predictions, and why free will matters just as much as the stars.
&nbsp;
They also explore love and compatibility, what Mercury retrograde is actually about, and why 2026 will bring a major collective reset as Saturn and Neptune meet at zero degrees Aries.
&nbsp;
In this episode, you&rsquo;ll learn:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">What your birth chart reveals beyond your zodiac sign</li>
<li aria-level="1">The role of your Sun, Moon, and Rising &mdash; and which one people feel the most</li>
<li aria-level="1">How the North &amp; South Nodes point to purpose, patterns, and growth</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why timing matters: Jupiter return, Saturn return, retrogrades, and yearly cycles</li>
<li aria-level="1">How to use astrology without letting it control your decisions</li>
<li aria-level="1">What really makes two people compatible (and why &ldquo;hard&rdquo; relationships can be meaningful)</li>
<li aria-level="1">The difference between Western and Vedic astrology</li>
<li aria-level="1">What the AstroTwins predict for 2026 &mdash; and why it&rsquo;s a year of new beginnings</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
This episode is a clear, refreshing reminder that astrology isn&rsquo;t about telling you who you are &mdash; it&rsquo;s about helping you understand yourself better. When you know the patterns, the timing, and the possibilities, you can make choices with more confidence, clarity, and intention.
&nbsp;
Follow The AstroTwins:&nbsp;
<a href="https://astrostyle.com/">https://astrostyle.com/</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/astrotwins/">https://www.instagram.com/astrotwins/</a>
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@astrotwins-tv">https://www.youtube.com/@astrotwins-tv</a>
 
Follow Radhi:
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/">https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/</a>
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ</a>
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/">https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/</a>
<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia">https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia</a>

Astrology Decoded: What Your Chart Reveals About Purpose, Destiny & Growth

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Could the pain you feel actually be wisdom waiting to unfold?

How often do your expectations write a story your reality can’t live up to?

Could disappointment be your teacher, not your enemy?

 

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi Devlukia dives deep into the emotion we all try to avoid—disappointment.

 

She explores why this feeling cuts so deep, describing it as the space between expectation and reality—a form of grief for what could have been. Drawing from her own reflections, Radhi reveals how disappointment often says more about our assumptions than the situation itself.

 

Instead, Radhi invites listeners to find peace in the middle ground: To feel the emotion fully, take ownership of their response, and reframe disappointment as tuition—the price we pay for wisdom.





In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why disappointment may be a form of grief, not failure
How perfectionism and shrinking dreams both come from fear
Why effort doesn’t always equal outcome—and that’s okay
How to reframe disappointment as tuition, not tragedy
Why feeling your emotions fully gives them less power
How to stop outsourcing your peace to other people or results

 

You’ll learn how to stop outsourcing your peace, communicate with compassion, and find meaning in moments that didn’t go as planned. This isn’t about pretending everything’s fine—it’s about trusting that you can handle what is.

 

Follow Radhi:

https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ

https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/

https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia

Could the pain you feel actually be wisdom waiting to unfold?
How often do your expectations write a story your reality can&rsquo;t live up to?
Could disappointment be your teacher, not your enemy?
&nbsp;
In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi Devlukia dives deep into the emotion we all try to avoid&mdash;disappointment.
&nbsp;
She explores why this feeling cuts so deep, describing it as the space between expectation and reality&mdash;a form of grief for what could have been. Drawing from her own reflections, Radhi reveals how disappointment often says more about our assumptions than the situation itself.
&nbsp;
Instead, Radhi invites listeners to find peace in the middle ground:&nbsp;To feel the emotion fully, take ownership of their response, and reframe disappointment as tuition&mdash;the price we pay for wisdom.
 
In this episode, you&rsquo;ll learn:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Why disappointment may be a form of grief, not failure</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">How perfectionism and shrinking dreams both come from fear</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Why effort doesn&rsquo;t always equal outcome&mdash;and that&rsquo;s okay</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">How to reframe disappointment as tuition, not tragedy</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Why feeling your emotions fully gives them less power</li>
<li aria-level="1">How to stop outsourcing your peace to other people or results</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
You&rsquo;ll learn how to stop outsourcing your peace, communicate with compassion, and find meaning in moments that didn&rsquo;t go as planned. This isn&rsquo;t about pretending everything&rsquo;s fine&mdash;it&rsquo;s about trusting that you can handle what is.
&nbsp;
Follow Radhi:
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/">https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/</a>
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ</a>
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/">https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/</a>
<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia">https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia</a>

Dealing with Disappointment (And When Things Don’t Go Your Way)

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What if the person you’ve become is still carrying the pain of who you once were?

Could the patterns you can’t seem to break—disconnection, fear, self-doubt—be echoes of an unsafe childhood?

And what if healing isn’t about fixing the past, but teaching your body that it’s safe now?

 

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Anna Runkle, the creator of Crappy Childhood Fairy, for a powerful and compassionate conversation on how early emotional wounds shape the way we connect, love, and live as adults.

 

Anna shares her journey of growing up in chaos, learning to recognize the lasting effects of trauma, and discovering the tools to calm her dysregulated nervous system. Together, Radhi and Anna explore the deep link between childhood pain and adult disconnection—and how learning to regulate your body can transform how you experience love, safety, and belonging.

 

They unpack why traditional talk therapy doesn’t always reach the root of trauma, how emotional neglect can manifest as anxiety and isolation, and the small daily practices that help rebuild connection from the inside out. This isn’t just a conversation about childhood—it’s about learning to feel safe in your own body again.

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

 
What emotional dysregulation really is—and how to recognize it in yourself
How early trauma impacts the nervous system and adult relationships
Why connection can feel uncomfortable after an unsafe childhood
Practical tools to regulate your emotions and calm your body
How writing and self-reflection can help rewire your brain for safety
Why healing starts with awareness, not blame

 

If you’ve ever felt stuck in old patterns, distant from yourself, or unsure how to feel safe with others, this episode is your reminder: your body remembers—but it can also relearn.

 

Follow Anna:
https://crappychildhoodfairy.com/
https://www.youtube.com/CrappyChildhoodFairy
https://www.instagram.com/crappychildhoodfairy/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/anna-runkle-baa9778

 

Follow Radhi:
https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ
https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/
https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia

What if the person you&rsquo;ve become is still carrying the pain of who you once were?
Could the patterns you can&rsquo;t seem to break&mdash;disconnection, fear, self-doubt&mdash;be echoes of an unsafe childhood?
And what if healing isn&rsquo;t about fixing the past, but teaching your body that it&rsquo;s safe now?
&nbsp;
In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Anna Runkle, the creator of Crappy Childhood Fairy, for a powerful and compassionate conversation on how early emotional wounds shape the way we connect, love, and live as adults.
&nbsp;
Anna shares her journey of growing up in chaos, learning to recognize the lasting effects of trauma, and discovering the tools to calm her dysregulated nervous system. Together, Radhi and Anna explore the deep link between childhood pain and adult disconnection&mdash;and how learning to regulate your body can transform how you experience love, safety, and belonging.
&nbsp;
They unpack why traditional talk therapy doesn&rsquo;t always reach the root of trauma, how emotional neglect can manifest as anxiety and isolation, and the small daily practices that help rebuild connection from the inside out. This isn&rsquo;t just a conversation about childhood&mdash;it&rsquo;s about learning to feel safe in your own body again.
&nbsp;
In this episode, you&rsquo;ll learn:
&nbsp;
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">What emotional dysregulation really is&mdash;and how to recognize it in yourself</li>
<li aria-level="1">How early trauma impacts the nervous system and adult relationships</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why connection can feel uncomfortable after an unsafe childhood</li>
<li aria-level="1">Practical tools to regulate your emotions and calm your body</li>
<li aria-level="1">How writing and self-reflection can help rewire your brain for safety</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why healing starts with awareness, not blame</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
If you&rsquo;ve ever felt stuck in old patterns, distant from yourself, or unsure how to feel safe with others, this episode is your reminder: your body remembers&mdash;but it can also relearn.
&nbsp;
Follow Anna:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://crappychildhoodfairy.com/">https://crappychildhoodfairy.com/</a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/CrappyChildhoodFairy">https://www.youtube.com/CrappyChildhoodFairy</a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/crappychildhoodfairy/">https://www.instagram.com/crappychildhoodfairy/</a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/anna-runkle-baa9778">https://www.linkedin.com/in/anna-runkle-baa9778</a></li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Follow Radhi:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/">https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/</a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ</a></li>
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</ul>

How to Rebuild Trust and Connection After Growing Up in Chaos with The Crappy Childhood Fairy Anna Runkle

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Jay Shetty: His Past, Presence, and Purpose — An Honest Conversation With His Wife Radhi

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