How much of who you are is actually you—and how much is what you’ve been taught to be?

What if the reason you feel stuck isn’t because you’re lost, but because you’re out of alignment?

Who would you be if you stopped trying to do life the “right” way?

 

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Human Design expert Jenna Zoe for a deeply eye-opening conversation on authenticity, energy, and self-trust.

 

Jenna breaks down Human Design in the simplest terms—describing it as a “manual” for your energy—and explains how each of us is designed to move through the world differently. From understanding your aura and intuition to recognizing how conditioning pulls you away from your natural self, this conversation offers both clarity and permission.

 

They explore the five energy types, how relationships shift when you honor your design, and why so many of us feel disconnected—not because something is wrong with us, but because we’ve been living against our nature.

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:
What Human Design actually is and how it acts as a guide to your authentic self
The five energy types and how each one is meant to operate in the world
Why trusting your intuition (your “authority”) changes everything
How conditioning pulls you away from your natural energy
Why burnout, frustration, or bitterness may be signs you’re out of alignment
How relationships improve when you stop trying to change each other
Why being your authentic self makes you more magnetic—not less
Simple ways to start reconnecting with your true nature today

 

This episode is a powerful reminder that you’re not here to become someone else—you’re here to return to who you’ve always been.





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Human Design (Book): https://www.myhumandesign.com/book/

 

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How much of who you are is actually you&mdash;and how much is what you&rsquo;ve been taught to be?
What if the reason you feel stuck isn&rsquo;t because you&rsquo;re lost, but because you&rsquo;re out of alignment?
Who would you be if you stopped trying to do life the &ldquo;right&rdquo; way?
&nbsp;
In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Human Design expert Jenna Zoe for a deeply eye-opening conversation on authenticity, energy, and self-trust.
&nbsp;
Jenna breaks down Human Design in the simplest terms&mdash;describing it as a &ldquo;manual&rdquo; for your energy&mdash;and explains how each of us is designed to move through the world differently. From understanding your aura and intuition to recognizing how conditioning pulls you away from your natural self, this conversation offers both clarity and permission.
&nbsp;
They explore the five energy types, how relationships shift when you honor your design, and why so many of us feel disconnected&mdash;not because something is wrong with us, but because we&rsquo;ve been living against our nature.
&nbsp;
In this episode, you&rsquo;ll learn:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">What Human Design actually is and how it acts as a guide to your authentic self</li>
<li aria-level="1">The five energy types and how each one is meant to operate in the world</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why trusting your intuition (your &ldquo;authority&rdquo;) changes everything</li>
<li aria-level="1">How conditioning pulls you away from your natural energy</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why burnout, frustration, or bitterness may be signs you&rsquo;re out of alignment</li>
<li aria-level="1">How relationships improve when you stop trying to change each other</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why being your authentic self makes you more magnetic&mdash;not less</li>
<li aria-level="1">Simple ways to start reconnecting with your true nature today</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
This episode is a powerful reminder that you&rsquo;re not here to become someone else&mdash;you&rsquo;re here to return to who you&rsquo;ve always been.
 
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<a href="https://www.instagram.com/jennazoe/">https://www.instagram.com/jennazoe/</a>
Align with Jenna Zoe: The Human Design Podcast: <a href="https://tinyurl.com/mr39pncf">https://tinyurl.com/mr39pncf</a>
Human Design (Book): <a href="https://www.myhumandesign.com/book/">https://www.myhumandesign.com/book/</a>
&nbsp;
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This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!

There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 

Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more. 

This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!
There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 
Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more.

A Really Good Cry

This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!
There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 
Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more.

Human Design 101: A Practical Manual for Your Authentic Self | Jenna Zoe 

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Have you done all the work and still feel empty?

Are you stuck in endless self-improvement with nothing to show for it?

What if you’ve been asking the wrong question all along?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

 

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi breaks down the crucial difference between self-development and self-mastery, and why chasing growth without inner depth can leave you feeling perpetually broken. Drawing on ancient wisdom from the Bhagavad Gita, this episode shifts the conversation from “how do I improve myself?” to “who is the self I’m actually trying to improve?”

 

Rather than giving you another checklist, Radhi explores how true fulfillment comes from transforming your relationship with yourself, not just your behavior. From ego awareness to emotional regulation to desire management, this episode gives you the inner framework to stop being controlled by your reactions, impulses, and need for validation.

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why self-development alone can trap you in a cycle of feeling perpetually unfulfilled.
What self-mastery actually means and how it differs from discipline or willpower.
How to observe your emotions without being run by them.
Why detachment doesn’t mean not caring, and how to release outcomes without giving up.
Four daily practices to start moving from self-development into self-mastery.

Growth isn’t just about what you build. It’s about who’s doing the building.

 

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Have you done all the work and still feel empty?
Are you stuck in endless self-improvement with nothing to show for it?
What if you&rsquo;ve been asking the wrong question all along?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
&nbsp;
In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi breaks down the crucial difference between self-development and self-mastery, and why chasing growth without inner depth can leave you feeling perpetually broken. Drawing on ancient wisdom from the Bhagavad Gita, this episode shifts the conversation from &ldquo;how do I improve myself?&rdquo; to &ldquo;who is the self I&rsquo;m actually trying to improve?&rdquo;
&nbsp;
Rather than giving you another checklist, Radhi explores how true fulfillment comes from transforming your relationship with yourself, not just your behavior. From ego awareness to emotional regulation to desire management, this episode gives you the inner framework to stop being controlled by your reactions, impulses, and need for validation.
&nbsp;
In this episode, you&rsquo;ll learn:
<ul>
<li>Why self-development alone can trap you in a cycle of feeling perpetually unfulfilled.</li>
<li>What self-mastery actually means and how it differs from discipline or willpower.</li>
<li>How to observe your emotions without being run by them.</li>
<li>Why detachment doesn&rsquo;t mean not caring, and how to release outcomes without giving up.</li>
<li>Four daily practices to start moving from self-development into self-mastery.</li>
</ul>
Growth isn&rsquo;t just about what you build. It&rsquo;s about who&rsquo;s doing the building.
&nbsp;
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The Shift From Self Improvement to Self Mastery

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When the world tells you who you should be, how do you come home to your authentic self?

Can you be both stressed and blessed at the same time, or must you choose one?

How do we find room for joy and celebration while facing collective suffering and oppression?

 

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Dr. Thema Bryant, a trauma recovery expert and 2023 President of the American Psychological Association (APA), for a deeply reflective conversation on identity, faith, and the process of "Homecoming."

 

Dr. Bryant shares her personal journey growing up with ministers who practiced liberation theology, which is about the community and the collective, not just the individual and God. This led her to discover liberation psychology, focusing on context and systems to empower everyone. 

 

She also discusses how her childhood home was like her "first time working at like a crisis hotline" and how moving to Liberia, West Africa, gave her confidence from seeing people who looked like her in positions of authority. Together, they explore how stress, trauma, and oppression disconnect us from ourselves, the meaning of her podcast and book Homecoming, and how to cultivate joy while working for justice.

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

 
Why "Homecoming" is about liberation and coming back to yourself, even for the first time
How healthy relationships and spaces are required for you to be able to come back to yourself
The difference between coping with trauma and healing from it
Why avoidance in therapy prevents healing and the value of trauma-focused and somatic therapy.
How liberation psychology recognizes that systems (like media and educational systems) affect us, beyond just personal issues.
The connection between the desire for control (or "busy-ness") and past trauma or anxiety.
The importance of self-care practices like quiet time to stay grounded and not be easily moved by others' opinions.
That true worthiness and sacredness are not tied to performance.
The difference between "God-fearing" and believing in a loving God 

 

This episode is a powerful reminder that while stress and oppression may disconnect us, liberation is possible. Healing isn't about becoming someone new; it's about remembering, accepting, and appreciating who you were before the world told you who to be. You hold the special sauce within you.





Dr. Thema Bryant's Matters of the Heart is a guide to healing your relationship with yourself and the people you love. Grab a copy here - https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/760456/matters-of-the-heart-by-thema-bryant-phd/





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The Homecoming Podcast with Dr. Thema

Get Dr. Thema’s book here: Homecoming: Overcome Fear and Trauma to Reclaim Your Whole, Authentic Self

 

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https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/

https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia

When the world tells you who you should be, how do you come home to your authentic self?
Can you be both stressed and blessed at the same time, or must you choose one?
How do we find room for joy and celebration while facing collective suffering and oppression?
&nbsp;
In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Dr. Thema Bryant, a trauma recovery expert and 2023 President of the American Psychological Association (APA), for a deeply reflective conversation on identity, faith, and the process of "Homecoming."
&nbsp;
Dr. Bryant shares her personal journey growing up with ministers who practiced liberation theology, which is about the community and the collective, not just the individual and God. This led her to discover liberation psychology, focusing on context and systems to empower everyone.&nbsp;
&nbsp;
She also discusses how her childhood home was like her "first time working at like a crisis hotline" and how moving to Liberia, West Africa, gave her confidence from seeing people who looked like her in positions of authority. Together, they explore how stress, trauma, and oppression disconnect us from ourselves, the meaning of her podcast and book Homecoming, and how to cultivate joy while working for justice.
&nbsp;
In this episode, you&rsquo;ll learn:
&nbsp;
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Why "Homecoming" is about liberation and coming back to yourself, even for the first time</li>
<li aria-level="1">How healthy relationships and spaces are required for you to be able to come back to yourself</li>
<li aria-level="1">The difference between coping with trauma and healing from it</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why avoidance in therapy prevents healing and the value of trauma-focused and somatic therapy.</li>
<li aria-level="1">How liberation psychology recognizes that systems (like media and educational systems) affect us, beyond just personal issues.</li>
<li aria-level="1">The connection between the desire for control (or "busy-ness") and past trauma or anxiety.</li>
<li aria-level="1">The importance of self-care practices like quiet time to stay grounded and not be easily moved by others' opinions.</li>
<li aria-level="1">That true worthiness and sacredness are not tied to performance.</li>
<li aria-level="1">The difference between "God-fearing" and believing in a loving God&nbsp;</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
This episode is a powerful reminder that while stress and oppression may disconnect us, liberation is possible. Healing isn't about becoming someone new; it's about remembering, accepting, and appreciating who you were before the world told you who to be. You hold the special sauce within you.
 
Dr. Thema Bryant's Matters of the Heart is a guide to healing your relationship with yourself and the people you love. Grab a copy here - <a href="https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/760456/matters-of-the-heart-by-thema-bryant-phd/">https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/760456/matters-of-the-heart-by-thema-bryant-phd/</a>
 
Follow Dr. Thema:&nbsp;
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<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-homecoming-podcast-with-dr-thema/id1471604689">The Homecoming Podcast with Dr. Thema</a>
Get Dr. Thema&rsquo;s book here: <a href="https://drthema.com/product-category/books/">Homecoming: Overcome Fear and Trauma to Reclaim Your Whole, Authentic Self</a>
&nbsp;
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How to Heal, Let Go, and Find Faith | Dr. Thema Bryant

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Have you ever felt off—but couldn’t quite explain why?

Are you craving balance, clarity, or deeper connection with your body?

Or maybe… you're tired of chasing wellness fads and just want to feel at home in yourself again?

 

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi shares the gentle, powerful wisdom of Ayurveda—an ancient approach to healing that helps us reconnect to the natural rhythms of our body, mind, and spirit.

 

Rooted in presence and compassion, Ayurveda teaches us to slow down and truly listen. You’ll learn how the five elements and three doshas shape your physical and emotional patterns, and how everyday choices—from the meals you cook to the energy you carry—can guide you back to balance.

 

Radhi opens up about the rituals that ground her, the foods that nourish her, and how this practice has helped her understand herself more deeply—beyond just symptoms or routines.

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to reconnect with your body’s subtle signals
What the doshas are—and how they impact your mood, energy, and digestion
The Ayurvedic approach to food, cooking, and self-care
Why healing doesn’t mean perfection, but presence
Simple practices to help you feel more grounded, calm, and aligned
How honoring your unique constitution can support long-term health

 

Whether you're brand new to Ayurveda or looking to deepen your practice, this episode is an invitation to tune in, slow down, and return to what your body’s been trying to tell you all along.

Quiz and body guides: https://www.radhidevlukia.com/quiz

 

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Have you ever felt off&mdash;but couldn&rsquo;t quite explain why?
Are you craving balance, clarity, or deeper connection with your body?
Or maybe&hellip; you're tired of chasing wellness fads and just want to feel at home in yourself again?
&nbsp;
In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi shares the gentle, powerful wisdom of Ayurveda&mdash;an ancient approach to healing that helps us reconnect to the natural rhythms of our body, mind, and spirit.
&nbsp;
Rooted in presence and compassion, Ayurveda teaches us to slow down and truly listen. You&rsquo;ll learn how the five elements and three doshas shape your physical and emotional patterns, and how everyday choices&mdash;from the meals you cook to the energy you carry&mdash;can guide you back to balance.
&nbsp;
Radhi opens up about the rituals that ground her, the foods that nourish her, and how this practice has helped her understand herself more deeply&mdash;beyond just symptoms or routines.
&nbsp;
In this episode, you&rsquo;ll learn:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">How to reconnect with your body&rsquo;s subtle signals</li>
<li aria-level="1">What the doshas are&mdash;and how they impact your mood, energy, and digestion</li>
<li aria-level="1">The Ayurvedic approach to food, cooking, and self-care</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why healing doesn&rsquo;t mean perfection, but presence</li>
<li aria-level="1">Simple practices to help you feel more grounded, calm, and aligned</li>
<li aria-level="1">How honoring your unique constitution can support long-term health</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Whether you're brand new to Ayurveda or looking to deepen your practice, this episode is an invitation to tune in, slow down, and return to what your body&rsquo;s been trying to tell you all along. Quiz and body guides: <a href="https://www.radhidevlukia.com/quiz">https://www.radhidevlukia.com/quiz</a>
&nbsp;
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How to Eat, Move, and Live for YOUR Body Type - A Guide to Ayurveda

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