Do you spiral over one short reply?
Does one comment stay with you for days?
What if none of it was ever about you?

 

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi breaks down why we take things personally, what’s actually happening in the body and mind when we do, and how to stop letting other people’s behavior define how we feel about ourselves.

 

From the nervous system’s need to fill in uncertainty to the unhealed past pain that gets triggered by a single comment, this episode gets to the root of why we react the way we do. And more importantly, it gives you real tools to pause, ground yourself, and stop outsourcing your worth to other people’s moods.

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why your brain fills silence and short replies with the most painful explanation.
How projection works and why other people’s behavior is rarely about you.
Why a small comment can trigger a massive reaction and what that’s really pointing to.
How to use grounding and the pause to stop reacting from old wounds.
Why emotional regulation means letting others inform you, never define you.


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https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ
https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/
https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia

Do you spiral over one short reply? Does one comment stay with you for days? What if none of it was ever about you?
&nbsp;
In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi breaks down why we take things personally, what&rsquo;s actually happening in the body and mind when we do, and how to stop letting other people&rsquo;s behavior define how we feel about ourselves.
&nbsp;
From the nervous system&rsquo;s need to fill in uncertainty to the unhealed past pain that gets triggered by a single comment, this episode gets to the root of why we react the way we do. And more importantly, it gives you real tools to pause, ground yourself, and stop outsourcing your worth to other people&rsquo;s moods.
&nbsp;
In this episode, you&rsquo;ll learn:
<ul>
<li>Why your brain fills silence and short replies with the most painful explanation.</li>
<li>How projection works and why other people&rsquo;s behavior is rarely about you.</li>
<li>Why a small comment can trigger a massive reaction and what that&rsquo;s really pointing to.</li>
<li>How to use grounding and the pause to stop reacting from old wounds.</li>
<li>Why emotional regulation means letting others inform you, never define you.</li>
</ul>
 Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.instagram.com/areallygoodcry/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia

This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!

There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 

Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more. 

This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!
There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 
Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more.

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How to Stop Taking Everything Personally

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Are your biggest dreams buried so deep you’ve forgotten they’re there?
Do you keep waiting for the right time, the right mood, the right version of yourself?
What if the life you actually want is already on a list somewhere, just waiting for you to begin?

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Ben Nemtin, co-founder of The Buried Life, to talk about what it took to crawl out of a debilitating depression and build one of the most inspiring movements in a generation. Ben went from being unable to leave his bedroom to playing basketball with President Obama, all by chasing a handwritten bucket list and helping strangers do the same.

This conversation covers fear, regret, mortality, and what it actually takes to stop postponing your life. Ben is honest, funny, and deeply human, and this episode will make you want to write your list the moment it’s over.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why fear is actually a signal that something matters, not a reason to stop.
The three barriers keeping most people from their dreams.
What 76% of people regret most on their deathbeds and how to avoid it.
How to create urgency without waiting for a crisis to force your hand.
Why play and friendship are essential, not optional, parts of a full life.


Follow Ben:
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https://www.facebook.com/share/19YAho3pT1/?mibextid=wwXIfr
https://www.linkedin.com/in/bennemtin


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https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/
https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia

Are your biggest dreams buried so deep you&rsquo;ve forgotten they&rsquo;re there? Do you keep waiting for the right time, the right mood, the right version of yourself? What if the life you actually want is already on a list somewhere, just waiting for you to begin?
In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with Ben Nemtin, co-founder of The Buried Life, to talk about what it took to crawl out of a debilitating depression and build one of the most inspiring movements in a generation. Ben went from being unable to leave his bedroom to playing basketball with President Obama, all by chasing a handwritten bucket list and helping strangers do the same.
This conversation covers fear, regret, mortality, and what it actually takes to stop postponing your life. Ben is honest, funny, and deeply human, and this episode will make you want to write your list the moment it&rsquo;s over.
In this episode, you&rsquo;ll learn:
<ul>
<li>Why fear is actually a signal that something matters, not a reason to stop.</li>
<li>The three barriers keeping most people from their dreams.</li>
<li>What 76% of people regret most on their deathbeds and how to avoid it.</li>
<li>How to create urgency without waiting for a crisis to force your hand.</li>
<li>Why play and friendship are essential, not optional, parts of a full life.</li>
</ul>
 Follow Ben: https://www.instagram.com/bennemtin https://www.bennemtin.com/ https://www.facebook.com/share/19YAho3pT1/?mibextid=wwXIfr https://www.linkedin.com/in/bennemtin
 Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.instagram.com/areallygoodcry/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia

How to Live a Life You Won’t Regret with Ben Nemtin

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Do you wake up already overwhelmed before the day has even started?

Is there a low hum of dread that hits the moment you open your eyes?

What if you could change the first fifteen minutes and change everything?

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi gets honest about morning anxiety, what it actually is, why it happens, and what she does every single morning to move through it. 

She walks you through her exact 15-minute morning ritual, the reminders she keeps pinned in her Notes app, and the daytime habits that keep the anxiety from creeping back. Because you don’t have to solve your whole life before 8am. You just have to get through the next few minutes.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why morning anxiety happens and what keeps the anxious loop running.

How to use breathwork to anchor yourself before you even get out of bed.

The thought reframing technique that stops catastrophizing in its tracks.

The exact reminders Radhi returns to every morning when anxiety takes over.

Why movement is one of the most powerful tools for breaking the anxiety cycle.

Follow Radhi:

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https://www.instagram.com/areallygoodcry/

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ

https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/

https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia

&nbsp;
Do you wake up already overwhelmed before the day has even started?
Is there a low hum of dread that hits the moment you open your eyes?
What if you could change the first fifteen minutes and change everything?
In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi gets honest about morning anxiety, what it actually is, why it happens, and what she does every single morning to move through it.&nbsp;
She walks you through her exact 15-minute morning ritual, the reminders she keeps pinned in her Notes app, and the daytime habits that keep the anxiety from creeping back. Because you don&rsquo;t have to solve your whole life before 8am. You just have to get through the next few minutes.
In this episode, you&rsquo;ll learn:
Why morning anxiety happens and what keeps the anxious loop running.
How to use breathwork to anchor yourself before you even get out of bed.
The thought reframing technique that stops catastrophizing in its tracks.
The exact reminders Radhi returns to every morning when anxiety takes over.
Why movement is one of the most powerful tools for breaking the anxiety cycle.
Follow Radhi:
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/">https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/areallygoodcry/">https://www.instagram.com/areallygoodcry/</a>
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ</a>
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For When You Have Morning Anxiety

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Are you waiting for rock bottom to finally change?
Do you keep slipping back into the same old patterns?
What if transformation is about who you become, not what you do? 

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with mindset coach and former Harlem Globetrotter Derick Grant to explore what it actually takes to transform your life from the inside out. From the athlete’s mindset to healing your inner child, this conversation goes deep on why most people stay stuck and what it really takes to break free.

Derick brings his RAC framework, his take on ego, nervous system awareness, and a seven-step inner child healing process to help you stop performing change and start embodying it. Because the version of you that has everything you want already exists. You just have to become them first.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why true transformation only happens when staying the same hurts more than changing.
How the RAC pillars (Resilience, Accountability, Consistency) create lasting change.
What your nervous system has to do with scarcity, trauma, and abundance.
Why ego isn’t the enemy and how to use it as a tool instead.
How to stop seeking validation externally and generate it from within.
The seven laws of healing your inner child, from awareness to full integration.
You don’t find the life you want. You become the person who already has it.

 

Follow Derick: 
https://www.linkedin.com/in/dgmindset
https://www.instagram.com/dgmindset
https://www.facebook.com/share/1Gnxkngnoz/?mibextid=wwXIfr

 

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https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/

https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia

&nbsp;
Are you waiting for rock bottom to finally change? Do you keep slipping back into the same old patterns? What if transformation is about who you become, not what you do?&nbsp;
In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi sits down with mindset coach and former Harlem Globetrotter Derick Grant to explore what it actually takes to transform your life from the inside out. From the athlete&rsquo;s mindset to healing your inner child, this conversation goes deep on why most people stay stuck and what it really takes to break free.
Derick brings his RAC framework, his take on ego, nervous system awareness, and a seven-step inner child healing process to help you stop performing change and start embodying it. Because the version of you that has everything you want already exists. You just have to become them first.
In this episode, you&rsquo;ll learn:
Why true transformation only happens when staying the same hurts more than changing. How the RAC pillars (Resilience, Accountability, Consistency) create lasting change. What your nervous system has to do with scarcity, trauma, and abundance. Why ego isn&rsquo;t the enemy and how to use it as a tool instead. How to stop seeking validation externally and generate it from within. The seven laws of healing your inner child, from awareness to full integration. You don&rsquo;t find the life you want. You become the person who already has it.
&nbsp;
Follow Derick: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/dgmindset">https://www.linkedin.com/in/dgmindset </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/dgmindset">https://www.instagram.com/dgmindset </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/1Gnxkngnoz/?mibextid=wwXIfr">https://www.facebook.com/share/1Gnxkngnoz/?mibextid=wwXIfr</a>
&nbsp;
Follow Radhi:
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How to Become the Person You Want to Be with Derick Grant

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