Paul is joined by Bob Conlin for the start of a regular set of podcasts focused on relationships. This first episode with Bob is an introduction to the man himself as he begins to explore the fascinating topic of relationships.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• When you think of the most impactful and engaging moment in your lives, often the genesis of those will be on the cusp of the creation of some type of new relationship, either with a loved one, with yourself and your self-development, or in your career.
• As we relate to the world around us, it’s all impacted with how we relate to ourselves within. How you perceive the world, others, what’s possible, the impact you can make starts with your mindset , what you think and what you believe you’re capable of. It starts with you, but you also need to surround yourself with opportunities, people and circumstances that are going to lift you up as far as you can to your ability.
• I was probably going to die from the physical things that were happening in my life, I had to think and act a different way. So, I get it, I understand. Are you willing to crack the door slightly open to just be in a different conversation? Can you dare to dream, even for a moment, that it can go differently for you? What are your options? It’s going to be hard and challenging and rough staying the same, but it’s going to be hard and challenging and rough trying something new that might actually get you what you want. Which game do you want to play?
• One of the biggest breakthroughs I had in my own relationship journeys was this notion of responsibility. I started to look around and I noticed that there was a commonality in all my relationships. The common thread/complaint was “not enough”, frustration or resentment and the common input to all of those relationships was me. It was a huge “A-ha” moment of me realising I was the common denominator here and I have to do something about that. When I did, my romantic relationships got better, I started taking better care of my body, mind and soul, I became a better leader in my corporate position and real results started to come after that.

BEST MOMENTS

‘What do you truly want and believe that you can have in the realm of relationships and our impact on the world?’

‘You’re the average of the five people you hang out with the most and the five thoughts you think the most – if you’re in a negative dis-empowered mindset most of the time, that’s an opportunity right there to work on.’

‘Once you try to understand someone you can start to make a difference. Once someone knows you understand them they’ll start to open up a little more.’ 

‘I’ve been through a lot of life and relationship experience. I’ve been through the ringer in many aspects so I’m able to empathise and connect with a lot of people that have gone through a lot of hard life situations.’

VALUABLE RESOURCES

• Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272

• Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272

• Mastering The Game Of Life Book (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679

• Mastering The Game Of Life Book (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679

• Speaking From Our Hearts Books: Volumes 1-3 (Available on Amazon)
• World Game-Changers Group

ABOUT THE GUEST

Bob is a Life, Love and Leadership champion, author, coach, trainer, husband, father, and a professional certified coach with the International Coach Federation.

His philosophy is that we are in relationship to everything and the top three opportunities for growth exist in self, loving others, and career. As a relationship coach, he’s doing the work that he was meant to do, in order to fulfil his life purpose.

As the author of the forthcoming book ‘Why Your Relationships Suck: How to Create Strong Relationships with Courage and Heart’ – and as a devoted student of the relationship development he preaches – Bob enjoys a rewarding and fuller life being a husband, coach, leader, musician, and traveller. He and his family were featured in Episode 3 of CBS’s “The Greatest #AtHome Videos” in August 2020.

Website: www.conlincoaching.com

ABOUT THE HOST

Paul has made a remarkable transformation from existing for many years in dark, desperate despair; to now living a really healthy, happy and fulfilling life.

From an early age, he was in the vice-like clutches of the demon drink and constantly embroiled within a dark cocktail of toxic beliefs, self-hate and destructive violence.

Along with his empathetic and dedicated team of world-class coaches and mentors, Paul’s purpose is deeply transformational:

Creating New Life Stories…

He is extremely passionate about helping others to find their purpose, have a voice and ultimately, make a real difference.  

This has been built on a long and distinguished history of heart-centred coaching and mentoring.  He has also been responsible for raising significant amounts of funds for many charities and good causes around the world; positively impacting and inspiring thousands of children – mainly from challenging backgrounds – within the UK & worldwide.

Through this World Game-Changers podcast and books, he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.

CONTACT METHODS

Tel: +44 (0) 7958 042 155

E-mail: Paul@Paul-Lowe.com

Web: https://www.Paul-Lowe.com

Web: https://www.worldgamechangers.org/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-d-lowe-7a78332a/