Guess what decision We're about to make. Horrible decision.

Guess what decision We're about to make. Horrible decision.

Hey guys, Before we start this week's episode, we want to let you know that we have a live show Tuesday, December third, at Sony Hall.

Hey guys, Before we start this week's episode, we want to let you know that we have a live show Tuesday, December third, at Sony Hall.

As you can see Missy Elliott here, we'll be doing a dance.

As you can see Missy Elliott here, we'll be doing a dance.

Wow, bro, don't do that.

Wow, bro, don't do that.

You such a motherfucker. Hate the whole do the ad tell them one night only?

You such a motherfucker. Hate the whole do the ad tell them one night only?

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Sorry? What? No? We even that? No, God damn it. We can't do shit around here, Sony. Come see us December third. George will open at six, show starts at eight, and it is unlike any show you've ever seen. So come spend one night with Mandy and Weezy. I don't like this, you said it like that. Y'all don't really get to spend a night with us. But between APM and about ten pm you gott us. Make sure you click the link in our bio on our Instagram and get your tickets. Now.

We're looking forward to seeing you, guys, and y'all welcome. Welcome, Bibby. No, I couldn't do the little I can't do the accent. It's not okay, okay, y'all. We welcome to the Horrible decision.

We're looking forward to seeing you, guys, and y'all welcome. Welcome, Bibby. No, I couldn't do the little I can't do the accent. It's not okay, okay, y'all. We welcome to the Horrible decision.

That was how you sounded when we recorded it. Don't do that, bitch.

That was how you sounded when we recorded it. Don't do that, bitch.

I am your girl, Mandy b aka method Man, d aka that Peach.

I am your girl, Mandy b aka method Man, d aka that Peach.

I'm weasy, y'all, and I'm also ashamed. On the episode of four, I want to just get it off at the top. Go ahead, so you don't drag me for it and bring it out. Fine, we have a guest. We normally bring people back. I feel like betweeny years or two, but it's been seven years seven years laterle well, no, we're eight. We are eight years in a difference of age. I was twenty five and we recorded that. Now I'm thirty three. Wow have we been around eight years? Were episode thirty? Y'all? We have wrote Timmy in the building for this episode scotch aka Big Daddy long deck. Okay, I've been.

I'm weasy, y'all, and I'm also ashamed. On the episode of four, I want to just get it off at the top. Go ahead, so you don't drag me for it and bring it out. Fine, we have a guest. We normally bring people back. I feel like betweeny years or two, but it's been seven years seven years laterle well, no, we're eight. We are eight years in a difference of age. I was twenty five and we recorded that. Now I'm thirty three. Wow have we been around eight years? Were episode thirty? Y'all? We have wrote Timmy in the building for this episode scotch aka Big Daddy long deck. Okay, I've been.

To too many night dream ready now I know what to do.

To too many night dream ready now I know what to do.

Yeah. No, I'm ashamed because there's a few clips so we were we got video because we're like, oh my god, re Tammy's coming.

Yeah. No, I'm ashamed because there's a few clips so we were we got video because we're like, oh my god, re Tammy's coming.

You know, bitch just couldn't afford shit back then.

You know, bitch just couldn't afford shit back then.

I'm not gonna like you.

I'm not gonna like you.

I think we're one of our first guests where we even brought in a camera, and we didn't even post the whole episode.

I think we're one of our first guests where we even brought in a camera, and we didn't even post the whole episode.

We just probably didn't have enough footage on the.

We just probably didn't have enough footage on the.

Thing, like before the curve, like doing like video.

Thing, like before the curve, like doing like video.

We brought video on for like when we had guests, So I think you and King Nowir may have been the only people.

We brought video on for like when we had guests, So I think you and King Nowir may have been the only people.

He was like, we could pay the fifty dollars extra books and one of the videos, I make a comment about why I had to leave Florida, which wasn't true. Oh no, let's run that back. Ain't inswered that thing, right, yo, bitch, Yeah, that's why I had to move to New York. I fucked down the whole Florida. Like the whole Jamaican team just was like, it's time for you to go. Oh yeah, like once, see what happens is once you started fucking island niggascause you know they got baby mamas. One comes for you, then the second and third. And at one point I was scared to go to the mall and I was like, okay, you remember her saying it. She said she had because she fucked the whole state down, just busted open.

He was like, we could pay the fifty dollars extra books and one of the videos, I make a comment about why I had to leave Florida, which wasn't true. Oh no, let's run that back. Ain't inswered that thing, right, yo, bitch, Yeah, that's why I had to move to New York. I fucked down the whole Florida. Like the whole Jamaican team just was like, it's time for you to go. Oh yeah, like once, see what happens is once you started fucking island niggascause you know they got baby mamas. One comes for you, then the second and third. And at one point I was scared to go to the mall and I was like, okay, you remember her saying it. She said she had because she fucked the whole state down, just busted open.

Now I'm wearing a blouse and I am a new woman.

Now I'm wearing a blouse and I am a new woman.

And I don't remember.

And I don't remember.

What though, because When we first had you on here, you were you were Drey on power h you did?

What though, because When we first had you on here, you were you were Drey on power h you did?

You were uh single with no children? Yeah?

You were uh single with no children? Yeah?

Uh?

Uh?

And now you are a father and a hoosebun. So crazy. I'm really what are we just? Richard? That's about it? You know what's probably something just to like skinny bitch hold on now. We definitely got one really cute sweet thing between us.

And now you are a father and a hoosebun. So crazy. I'm really what are we just? Richard? That's about it? You know what's probably something just to like skinny bitch hold on now. We definitely got one really cute sweet thing between us.

That happened.

That happened.

You were talking about Rein recognized a lot, and you and I were joking like, oh my god, someone took a picture with us.

You were talking about Rein recognized a lot, and you and I were joking like, oh my god, someone took a picture with us.

Yesterday, and it's crazy, bro, Like, yeah, now.

Yesterday, and it's crazy, bro, Like, yeah, now.

You feel about fame now? Like, how are you guys dealing with fame?

You feel about fame now? Like, how are you guys dealing with fame?

Now?

Now?

It's two successful, beautiful women. What is it now that from the like what do you learn about yourself?

It's two successful, beautiful women. What is it now that from the like what do you learn about yourself?

Now? The way that we were asking you about groopies and I literally fun girls that listen to She like fans.

Now? The way that we were asking you about groopies and I literally fun girls that listen to She like fans.

She don't like that?

She don't like that?

Bro?

Bro?

You do like that? Like that? I like, I don't. I don't want to. I don't want to fan. Uh you know, have you come down? No? I didn't. I made out with Want of the sex club, but that's not you made out with that one girl after that DC show. I'm making out is not fucking bro and it be on accident. Okay, so you don't you did it by accident? Because question because when you at the club, the club and you got bottles and you lit in the bitches of turk and bending over, you just come out and it just happened. It just happened. You did that or she did that one of the other. I didn't know you, I know.

You do like that? Like that? I like, I don't. I don't want to. I don't want to fan. Uh you know, have you come down? No? I didn't. I made out with Want of the sex club, but that's not you made out with that one girl after that DC show. I'm making out is not fucking bro and it be on accident. Okay, so you don't you did it by accident? Because question because when you at the club, the club and you got bottles and you lit in the bitches of turk and bending over, you just come out and it just happened. It just happened. You did that or she did that one of the other. I didn't know you, I know.

Mandy regretted in her that no because she was cute.

Mandy regretted in her that no because she was cute.

No, no, no, don't make a sense. Can't listen to that. I regret. Literally right after it happened, Mandy leans over to Vinie and I who, oh my god, made out? God, So this is why I stopped drinking. Yeah, you see what I mean.

No, no, no, don't make a sense. Can't listen to that. I regret. Literally right after it happened, Mandy leans over to Vinie and I who, oh my god, made out? God, So this is why I stopped drinking. Yeah, you see what I mean.

It's the decision making that was happening under the influence.

It's the decision making that was happening under the influence.

Well what else has been different?

Well what else has been different?

Oh yeah? So she she she went and listened back to our episode.

Oh yeah? So she she she went and listened back to our episode.

If you guys have not checked it out, it's episode thirty and we are now on episode almost four hundred.

If you guys have not checked it out, it's episode thirty and we are now on episode almost four hundred.

Just so you can also think about that. Is that not crazy?

Just so you can also think about that. Is that not crazy?

So so she went back and listened because she wanted to see if we had changed any of our thoughts from eight years ago.

So so she went back and listened because she wanted to see if we had changed any of our thoughts from eight years ago.

So she did pull some of the shit you said.

So she did pull some of the shit you said.

Now, Rosini said he had never been to a sex party.

Now, Rosini said he had never been to a sex party.

Okay, and that's still true. No, you've been to a sex party since then? What you do? Because you were asking us, like, what do you I didn't know. I didn't. I didn't know that, that's what I was going to.

Okay, and that's still true. No, you've been to a sex party since then? What you do? Because you were asking us, like, what do you I didn't know. I didn't. I didn't know that, that's what I was going to.

Oh yea wait, wait, swet, No, I didn't know. Okay.

Oh yea wait, wait, swet, No, I didn't know. Okay.

It wasn't a ditty party.

It wasn't a ditty party.

I feel like how people were started in court. Oh no, we could bleep the name out.

I feel like how people were started in court. Oh no, we could bleep the name out.

I bet you was Jamie fox House.

I bet you was Jamie fox House.

But wait, was it just a party that turned into set?

But wait, was it just a party that turned into set?

It was a party that, like if you're downstairs chilling, everybody's kicking and kicking, and then when like when you change the music and like it gets quiet for a second, you can't hear what's going on upstairs.

It was a party that, like if you're downstairs chilling, everybody's kicking and kicking, and then when like when you change the music and like it gets quiet for a second, you can't hear what's going on upstairs.

Get the fuck out of here.

Get the fuck out of here.

Yes, and it's like mad situations happening. Somebody is this about forty five minutes, this whole thing gonna turn into that?

Yes, and it's like mad situations happening. Somebody is this about forty five minutes, this whole thing gonna turn into that?

Bro?

Bro?

I said, Oh Jesus Christ, Okay, but you say, didn't you say? I mean, look, you wanted to see it started at forty five. I left that in forty seven.

I said, Oh Jesus Christ, Okay, but you say, didn't you say? I mean, look, you wanted to see it started at forty five. I left that in forty seven.

What made you want to leave, Like what did you see? Was there anything that was like oh shit, this is wild?

What made you want to leave, Like what did you see? Was there anything that was like oh shit, this is wild?

Like what we were there?

Like what we were there?

Other famous people there?

Other famous people there?

Yeah, there was other things, and it was just one of those things where was like, oh, man, I don't know what's going on. I don't know what the vibe is. This is this what Hollywood is like?

Yeah, there was other things, and it was just one of those things where was like, oh, man, I don't know what's going on. I don't know what the vibe is. This is this what Hollywood is like?

You know.

You know.

This was like maybe a year after I had that interview, so I was still kind of just like young. Yeah, it was like yo, what's going on? So I just didn't feel comfortable.

This was like maybe a year after I had that interview, so I was still kind of just like young. Yeah, it was like yo, what's going on? So I just didn't feel comfortable.

Glad you didn't didn't go. I think since I've been working in Hollywood at a different capacity, I see how much they take advantage of young men almost just as much as women, like in a very like sneaky we're gonna put you in this, we're gonna do this, or just come here, or like you realize you gotta be cool with this director to get like very weird.

Glad you didn't didn't go. I think since I've been working in Hollywood at a different capacity, I see how much they take advantage of young men almost just as much as women, like in a very like sneaky we're gonna put you in this, we're gonna do this, or just come here, or like you realize you gotta be cool with this director to get like very weird.

I mean, especially like you know, for young actors, young artists. Man, if you don't make certain decisions, you don't go fast. I've been offered so much that I just stood on my morals and I was like, now I'm a grind and trust god, I love that. So It's just it's a crazy world, man. So like being a part of that and seeing so much of how the industry works, It's like it made me just say, no, let me start my own ship, you know, let me just let.

I mean, especially like you know, for young actors, young artists. Man, if you don't make certain decisions, you don't go fast. I've been offered so much that I just stood on my morals and I was like, now I'm a grind and trust god, I love that. So It's just it's a crazy world, man. So like being a part of that and seeing so much of how the industry works, It's like it made me just say, no, let me start my own ship, you know, let me just let.

You throw your own sex. Is that like movement direct yourt I've done that. I'm talk.

You throw your own sex. Is that like movement direct yourt I've done that. I'm talk.

What else did we pull anything else he said from that episode? Or was that the only thing?

What else did we pull anything else he said from that episode? Or was that the only thing?

Okay? So I said I wouldn't mind having a sister wife if we needed more income for the children. I changed my mind. I started giving money. Mandy said she didn't know how to put a condom on a dick. I feel what everything is wrong? No? Fuck no, I'd be like, here you go and mind you. I have different ones.

Okay? So I said I wouldn't mind having a sister wife if we needed more income for the children. I changed my mind. I started giving money. Mandy said she didn't know how to put a condom on a dick. I feel what everything is wrong? No? Fuck no, I'd be like, here you go and mind you. I have different ones.

I say this all the time, and I'm sure certain of my partners when I was having sex probably judge me a little bit. Why I'm a month into my cell of this, but no, like I have tucked between my books in my living room, so the books, because I don't want just condoms out, so I took them so then I could just lean off the couch and grab a condom.

I say this all the time, and I'm sure certain of my partners when I was having sex probably judge me a little bit. Why I'm a month into my cell of this, but no, like I have tucked between my books in my living room, so the books, because I don't want just condoms out, so I took them so then I could just lean off the couch and grab a condom.

If we start on the couch, then I.

If we start on the couch, then I.

Have them also in the drawer, and oh, I have them stashed around my house. So then I also have some in my kitchen, so they're in my They're in my middle drawer in my kitchen, right by my stove. And that's a case he come up behind me and might want to slide it in. I could just open the door. He could put it on there.

Have them also in the drawer, and oh, I have them stashed around my house. So then I also have some in my kitchen, so they're in my They're in my middle drawer in my kitchen, right by my stove. And that's a case he come up behind me and might want to slide it in. I could just open the door. He could put it on there.

You use a kitchen condom, Well, so what happens.

You use a kitchen condom, Well, so what happens.

I normally grab those if I'm making our drinks to then just bring them so I don't have to lean over on the couch. Oh, they're everywhere calculated, it's calculated. And then and then it's really bad because now I got this little light. I bought this little light. They said it helped you go to sleep easier. But it's red.

I normally grab those if I'm making our drinks to then just bring them so I don't have to lean over on the couch. Oh, they're everywhere calculated, it's calculated. And then and then it's really bad because now I got this little light. I bought this little light. They said it helped you go to sleep easier. But it's red.

So now I realize when I put it on, it's like I'm giving a red light special a whore, but it's really a sleep light.

So now I realize when I put it on, it's like I'm giving a red light special a whore, but it's really a sleep light.

And then I have condoms in my lowest drawer in my bedroom. That's where also the lubin toys are. And then I have them under this cushion right by my bed as well. So there's four spots in my house with conda.

And then I have condoms in my lowest drawer in my bedroom. That's where also the lubin toys are. And then I have them under this cushion right by my bed as well. So there's four spots in my house with conda.

So what do you do if it happens in the car.

So what do you do if it happens in the car.

Luckily because we're well, honestly, we're in New York. They don't really be in their car Ubers.

Luckily because we're well, honestly, we're in New York. They don't really be in their car Ubers.

So did you just say butter Scott? But yeah no.

So did you just say butter Scott? But yeah no.

So I still do not know how to put a kind of on a dick, but I do just be like, here you go.

So I still do not know how to put a kind of on a dick, but I do just be like, here you go.

That was so crazy when I heard. I was like, in the still damn in seven years? One thing you said? You said, I stay away from industry girls. It's not my thing. Wow, and you married one. Well yes, okay, so what what? What? Well? To me, industry is like okay, okay, I realize when we say industry, you're like, oh, somebody be in the street. It's always out.

That was so crazy when I heard. I was like, in the still damn in seven years? One thing you said? You said, I stay away from industry girls. It's not my thing. Wow, and you married one. Well yes, okay, so what what? What? Well? To me, industry is like okay, okay, I realize when we say industry, you're like, oh, somebody be in the street. It's always out.

The industry to me is someone famous.

The industry to me is someone famous.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yes, I stayed away as long as I possibly could. But I met her when she was in a space where she was like, yo, I'm done with the industry.

Yes, I stayed away as long as I possibly could. But I met her when she was in a space where she was like, yo, I'm done with the industry.

I just want to just retire. I want to do something different. So I'm trying to get that.

I just want to just retire. I want to do something different. So I'm trying to get that.

Do you think that that that helps?

Do you think that that that helps?

I don't. I mean, knowing you from your friendship, I don't take you as a guy who's insecure.

I don't. I mean, knowing you from your friendship, I don't take you as a guy who's insecure.

Wouldn't like celebrate a woman, you know, doing her thing.

Wouldn't like celebrate a woman, you know, doing her thing.

But do you think it helped you being that you both weren't busy and on the go or.

But do you think it helped you being that you both weren't busy and on the go or.

Well, yeah, not because of like not trusting her, but more so just like just scheduling. That's a monster for me to be shooting the movie work and her doing this. It's hard because schedules.

Well, yeah, not because of like not trusting her, but more so just like just scheduling. That's a monster for me to be shooting the movie work and her doing this. It's hard because schedules.

Don't Yeah, yeah, something like that. So you know what it's like.

Don't Yeah, yeah, something like that. So you know what it's like.

It's one of those things where it's like we now knowing that she just wants to be an entrepreneur once she loves her favorite thing is being a mom, so like that is where she's at. So it's like it works out perfectly, you know, for what it is. But I don't know if I would have been feeling the same initially if she was like, I'm trying to do all of this, all this artist I want to because it's just scheduling, and she was living in Tanzania, so it was already long distance at the time, that.

It's one of those things where it's like we now knowing that she just wants to be an entrepreneur once she loves her favorite thing is being a mom, so like that is where she's at. So it's like it works out perfectly, you know, for what it is. But I don't know if I would have been feeling the same initially if she was like, I'm trying to do all of this, all this artist I want to because it's just scheduling, and she was living in Tanzania, so it was already long distance at the time, that.

Really really long distance. No way.

Really really long distance. No way.

How old were you when you both met, so twenty nine?

How old were you when you both met, so twenty nine?

Okay? See that Also, I wonder if that has to do with it being at the age where you're like, I'm ready for family, I'm ready to be a dad, I'm ready to be your husband. Like, do you think if you met her the day you did that Horrible Decisions interview? You might have sucked it up? Absolutely? I was. I was in the streets. Yeah, sorry, my man. Eight years ago. You took the glasses off. My man. You know you were red carpet party. You was gonna be there. Man, you was at church. That's what I meant when I said that you was outside the pew. I was praying. No, it was on the knees praying. It was on their knees, on their knees, praying for me. They sure was was today. They wash.

Okay? See that Also, I wonder if that has to do with it being at the age where you're like, I'm ready for family, I'm ready to be a dad, I'm ready to be your husband. Like, do you think if you met her the day you did that Horrible Decisions interview? You might have sucked it up? Absolutely? I was. I was in the streets. Yeah, sorry, my man. Eight years ago. You took the glasses off. My man. You know you were red carpet party. You was gonna be there. Man, you was at church. That's what I meant when I said that you was outside the pew. I was praying. No, it was on the knees praying. It was on their knees, on their knees, praying for me. They sure was was today. They wash.

Every time about That is crazy.

Every time about That is crazy.

That is awful. You gotta stop doing that because I don't know what about the religious people? What do we interview that said? That was it? Mister Marcus. He was like, why are these girls? And we started yeah. Got was like, hey, bro, don't bring him in say the same ship. No, I don't you know. I'll be saying their names even you even't messed up the name like el I.

That is awful. You gotta stop doing that because I don't know what about the religious people? What do we interview that said? That was it? Mister Marcus. He was like, why are these girls? And we started yeah. Got was like, hey, bro, don't bring him in say the same ship. No, I don't you know. I'll be saying their names even you even't messed up the name like el I.

Ain't ever mess up the name. I gotta look at them. I'll be happy to think about it real quick.

Ain't ever mess up the name. I gotta look at them. I'll be happy to think about it real quick.

Registers, Sean got it, that's crazy.

Registers, Sean got it, that's crazy.

No, I like. I like. I like saying the name okay, saying the name is hot also saying making them say your name is hotter, tell you like it. I like that. I like that. I like, yeah you Bett start talking, that's fine. All that deep breath. Another thing I was going to ask you. So, like when we interviewed you, we were talking about Greenby Tales. We were super excited about that, but mainly because like two people, it's funny Drey and dro We interviewed friends that had just had big parts on shows. Ye did it get worse when you started singing? Because I remember the first time I was singing one of your songs, what was the song not bed? And I was like, in my bed didn't come out? Then? No, No, we were talking about songs we like from but when I typed it in my phone and I saw your name, I was like, there's no way or maybe I shamed it, and I got really excited and like whoa you know, because because.

No, I like. I like. I like saying the name okay, saying the name is hot also saying making them say your name is hotter, tell you like it. I like that. I like that. I like, yeah you Bett start talking, that's fine. All that deep breath. Another thing I was going to ask you. So, like when we interviewed you, we were talking about Greenby Tales. We were super excited about that, but mainly because like two people, it's funny Drey and dro We interviewed friends that had just had big parts on shows. Ye did it get worse when you started singing? Because I remember the first time I was singing one of your songs, what was the song not bed? And I was like, in my bed didn't come out? Then? No, No, we were talking about songs we like from but when I typed it in my phone and I saw your name, I was like, there's no way or maybe I shamed it, and I got really excited and like whoa you know, because because.

You did start singing while you were still actively portraying Drake, so it was both, but you didn't get the same girls or attention from acting as you did music.

You did start singing while you were still actively portraying Drake, so it was both, but you didn't get the same girls or attention from acting as you did music.

Now, it is something about music that moved people.

Now, it is something about music that moved people.

We've seen you with your shirt off online.

We've seen you with your shirt off online.

That's what it is. Every time I start the shaving room, I'm like, wow, wow, I literally lost your new music video for the new song I Love You some of you, And I'm like, what is this? You were in the opposite of those INMPIC that I was like, whoa you changed? And like, yeah, I want to know how difficult was it, because I've heard from friends that recently got engaged or married girls beyond them more. Absolutely, really disrespectful because you you know, because you're talking about the man.

That's what it is. Every time I start the shaving room, I'm like, wow, wow, I literally lost your new music video for the new song I Love You some of you, And I'm like, what is this? You were in the opposite of those INMPIC that I was like, whoa you changed? And like, yeah, I want to know how difficult was it, because I've heard from friends that recently got engaged or married girls beyond them more. Absolutely, really disrespectful because you you know, because you're talking about the man.

No, I don't know what you're saying about that, about that crazy?

No, I don't know what you're saying about that, about that crazy?

What are you saying about mething man? Nothing, We're not going to do that. You're respecting that man's marriage.

What are you saying about mething man? Nothing, We're not going to do that. You're respecting that man's marriage.

I am not I thought, I am celibate, I don't drink and I don't marry man.

I am not I thought, I am celibate, I don't drink and I don't marry man.

How anything's changed from episode that isy? That is crazy? Okay, sorry, go ahead, Okay, So yeah, what did it get sneakier or do you feel like people were just attracted to the fact that you were unavailable?

How anything's changed from episode that isy? That is crazy? Okay, sorry, go ahead, Okay, So yeah, what did it get sneakier or do you feel like people were just attracted to the fact that you were unavailable?

Yeah, it's a mix, a mixture of everything, right, So like the fact that it's like I'm actually asked when I'm like, Yo, you wasn't checking, so now you're checking.

Yeah, it's a mix, a mixture of everything, right, So like the fact that it's like I'm actually asked when I'm like, Yo, you wasn't checking, so now you're checking.

What's changed.

What's changed.

She's like not the fact that you kept a woman happy for so long, Like, you must got something.

She's like not the fact that you kept a woman happy for so long, Like, you must got something.

What is it?

What is it?

I'm trying to find out. And so when I heard that, I'm like, oh, it's really a thing. So like I think this because your wife looked good?

I'm trying to find out. And so when I heard that, I'm like, oh, it's really a thing. So like I think this because your wife looked good?

Well, No, I think also I think women get very women want people that I think people do, though you think people do. Yeah, men look at women and be like damn, like I want that. What is it? You know?

Well, No, I think also I think women get very women want people that I think people do, though you think people do. Yeah, men look at women and be like damn, like I want that. What is it? You know?

I've been dry And the second I had I'm like.

I've been dry And the second I had I'm like.

That's why old boy got in Cardiot eight months. I'm telling you, he was like, damn, I'm goinna, go ahead and get in.

That's why old boy got in Cardiot eight months. I'm telling you, he was like, damn, I'm goinna, go ahead and get in.

That's what I'm just allegedly that's what happened. That's why he got in Cardia eight months. Oh my god, what is the problem or something? Why is that crazy?

That's what I'm just allegedly that's what happened. That's why he got in Cardia eight months. Oh my god, what is the problem or something? Why is that crazy?

No?

No?

I do think that that women, and oftentimes, even if we bring this to social media, right when you do post how happy you are in a relationship. When you're constantly posting your girlfriend or your wife or your partner, a lot of women who may not be getting that treatment. I want to want DIBs or you appear more like a really dope guy and now you become more trial.

I do think that that women, and oftentimes, even if we bring this to social media, right when you do post how happy you are in a relationship. When you're constantly posting your girlfriend or your wife or your partner, a lot of women who may not be getting that treatment. I want to want DIBs or you appear more like a really dope guy and now you become more trial.

He's a family man.

He's a family man.

Yeah, I think it's a fantasy, you know what I mean?

Yeah, I think it's a fantasy, you know what I mean?

Like, I think for me, it's like, damn, he's able to balance this, this, this, this and have that.

Like, I think for me, it's like, damn, he's able to balance this, this, this, this and have that.

And I also think it's misery loves company, because I do think women will look at that and be like, I bet you cheating ass nigga still And I'm gonna sit here and prude.

And I also think it's misery loves company, because I do think women will look at that and be like, I bet you cheating ass nigga still And I'm gonna sit here and prude.

Yeah, I'm not gonna lie.

Yeah, I'm not gonna lie.

That's my great scare. I hope a bit's never come. Don't come.

That's my great scare. I hope a bit's never come. Don't come.

That's why don't don't. Don't post your niggad. That's it crazy.

That's why don't don't. Don't post your niggad. That's it crazy.

You know, I get the feet. I'll let him get the feet, and that get that little Africa tattoo on the hand. That's it. Nobody what you looked like? No, oh, you'll keep it that way. They swipe on dating apps, they do. We're all on the sex one. They know which one that is.

You know, I get the feet. I'll let him get the feet, and that get that little Africa tattoo on the hand. That's it. Nobody what you looked like? No, oh, you'll keep it that way. They swipe on dating apps, they do. We're all on the sex one. They know which one that is.

I will say this.

I will say this.

I realized that sometimes gloating about happiness, which you you know, when you're really excited about something you want to share, whether it be a new project, whatever, it's like, oh, they want to like fucking take you down and prove to you that it's not gonna happen like that. For me, more so, the posting is because like I have a lot of follow and wanted someone to say I just don't want to hear anything or even if someone comes out the woodworks, like I don't give a fuck what.

I realized that sometimes gloating about happiness, which you you know, when you're really excited about something you want to share, whether it be a new project, whatever, it's like, oh, they want to like fucking take you down and prove to you that it's not gonna happen like that. For me, more so, the posting is because like I have a lot of follow and wanted someone to say I just don't want to hear anything or even if someone comes out the woodworks, like I don't give a fuck what.

There're a conversation with you and your wife about becoming open.

There're a conversation with you and your wife about becoming open.

On social media. Yeah, when did you have there been also any issues that social media has brought to the relationship.

On social media. Yeah, when did you have there been also any issues that social media has brought to the relationship.

So we were our initial plan was to keep everything low, but then Shae Room was the first one that put everything together. They put like my hand in her leg and then we was in the same background, so they're like, oh, Timmy's dating superstar and that's so it was like dang, it's like it's already out and we're both super spiritual.

So we were our initial plan was to keep everything low, but then Shae Room was the first one that put everything together. They put like my hand in her leg and then we was in the same background, so they're like, oh, Timmy's dating superstar and that's so it was like dang, it's like it's already out and we're both super spiritual.

So it was like, maybe our calling.

So it was like, maybe our calling.

Is just to show that good marriage is and good relationships and be an example you know what I mean, Like you can be lit, you can still be a fly nigga. You could be a beautiful woman and still be doing what you need to do and be an example of what black love looked like.

Is just to show that good marriage is and good relationships and be an example you know what I mean, Like you can be lit, you can still be a fly nigga. You could be a beautiful woman and still be doing what you need to do and be an example of what black love looked like.

I was something a little bit contrary to say, as a light skinned girl. I really when I saw your wife, I was like, wow, he's an African girl. When you see dudes get famous, they just state the same yeah, Barbie Kardashian girl, I was like, WHOA. And I just don't see that really often, where like somebody famous, not only are the dating to someone who's darkening them, but somebody that's like just not the carbon copy. Yeah, she's obviously gorgeous, but people have such an idea of what you're supposed to look like when you start popping off. Yeah, and I think that was the first thing that came to my head, was like wow. And I think it also feels really good for women to see. Just think about how dudes be talking about how we angry, Like the Kevin Samuels Eskue stuff about women being angry about seeing other women with men. I don't think it's that. I think it's just them constantly seeing black men shoes women that aren't black, that are Latina, or that date the same girl. So I do think it's really powerful for you to be Nigerian dating it. I don't know if tons it is howhould.

I was something a little bit contrary to say, as a light skinned girl. I really when I saw your wife, I was like, wow, he's an African girl. When you see dudes get famous, they just state the same yeah, Barbie Kardashian girl, I was like, WHOA. And I just don't see that really often, where like somebody famous, not only are the dating to someone who's darkening them, but somebody that's like just not the carbon copy. Yeah, she's obviously gorgeous, but people have such an idea of what you're supposed to look like when you start popping off. Yeah, and I think that was the first thing that came to my head, was like wow. And I think it also feels really good for women to see. Just think about how dudes be talking about how we angry, Like the Kevin Samuels Eskue stuff about women being angry about seeing other women with men. I don't think it's that. I think it's just them constantly seeing black men shoes women that aren't black, that are Latina, or that date the same girl. So I do think it's really powerful for you to be Nigerian dating it. I don't know if tons it is howhould.

Say, but also the cool thing too, like the way I think from what you're saying as well, I agree with you. The way I think is what I applied my music to be too this go around. You know, I wanted it to be like there's no form of beauty, like there's no looking like this, sounding like this, moving like this. No, it's more so about this all type of color sizes, even the videos I choose. I have big girls, girls with videlaigo, all that all different normal, there's no every because we so basically we shot a music video for every one of my mind. We'll talk about it l but every.

Say, but also the cool thing too, like the way I think from what you're saying as well, I agree with you. The way I think is what I applied my music to be too this go around. You know, I wanted it to be like there's no form of beauty, like there's no looking like this, sounding like this, moving like this. No, it's more so about this all type of color sizes, even the videos I choose. I have big girls, girls with videlaigo, all that all different normal, there's no every because we so basically we shot a music video for every one of my mind. We'll talk about it l but every.

One of my We shot it for every every every video, every video, every song, no, every song.

One of my We shot it for every every every video, every video, every song, no, every song.

And I was like, yo, I don't want the carbon copy. I don't want the typical looking girl like I want video girl. I want different forms of beauty like that, you know what I mean. And so it'll be just like a chocolate girl, this and this, this big girl. So everything was just organically what it is. So I'm making music for those type of things.

And I was like, yo, I don't want the carbon copy. I don't want the typical looking girl like I want video girl. I want different forms of beauty like that, you know what I mean. And so it'll be just like a chocolate girl, this and this, this big girl. So everything was just organically what it is. So I'm making music for those type of things.

You're real easy to say when your wife looked like that beauty okay, everybody, Okay, So I actually picked this specifically for you. There is a girl I want to name her. We were going to have her on in London. But this is a clip from emails Sunflower. Yeah yeah, yeah Flower. So this is specifically about marriage and sex work. And I felt like, oh god, yes, this would be perfect for you to answer, because maybe and I could debate this, but you know, it'd be perfect for you to hear.

You're real easy to say when your wife looked like that beauty okay, everybody, Okay, So I actually picked this specifically for you. There is a girl I want to name her. We were going to have her on in London. But this is a clip from emails Sunflower. Yeah yeah, yeah Flower. So this is specifically about marriage and sex work. And I felt like, oh god, yes, this would be perfect for you to answer, because maybe and I could debate this, but you know, it'd be perfect for you to hear.

Okay, And this is going to be very controversial to say marriage also is sex work because a lot of women, what they're doing is women engage in marriage from a place where Okay, he's gonna ideally, he's going to take care of you financially, and there's a hope for people to live in. What you are doing is you're fulfilling a role. So you're going to either be some sort of like homemaker, homekeeper, you're raising and rearing the kids. You are partnering with him and sleeping with him in the hopes that the trade off will be that you'll get validation, love and upkeep, and the man understands and believes that if he continues to fill that role for you.

Okay, And this is going to be very controversial to say marriage also is sex work because a lot of women, what they're doing is women engage in marriage from a place where Okay, he's gonna ideally, he's going to take care of you financially, and there's a hope for people to live in. What you are doing is you're fulfilling a role. So you're going to either be some sort of like homemaker, homekeeper, you're raising and rearing the kids. You are partnering with him and sleeping with him in the hopes that the trade off will be that you'll get validation, love and upkeep, and the man understands and believes that if he continues to fill that role for you.

Then the arrangement works. Because marriage is an arrangement.

Then the arrangement works. Because marriage is an arrangement.

Now, why I say this prostitution is because whilst it's not necessarily on the surface you're fucking for a transaction or exchange, there's something that you're fucking.

Now, why I say this prostitution is because whilst it's not necessarily on the surface you're fucking for a transaction or exchange, there's something that you're fucking.

For, something that you're fucking for. That was from the slum Flower crowd on ig she's at a dope podcast to the slum Flower Hour, but yeah, she's also an author. But she said that, and I was like, and the Internet went a blaze. Now is there anything you heard in there that you thought I can see why she said that.

For, something that you're fucking for. That was from the slum Flower crowd on ig she's at a dope podcast to the slum Flower Hour, but yeah, she's also an author. But she said that, and I was like, and the Internet went a blaze. Now is there anything you heard in there that you thought I can see why she said that.

Like the last part. No, The first part of what she was saying was the no, no, no prostitutions. She started by saying sex worker.

Like the last part. No, The first part of what she was saying was the no, no, no prostitutions. She started by saying sex worker.

It's crazy because your intenna I saw went up when she used the word prostitute, which they're the same thing, like sex worker prostitution A good point.

It's crazy because your intenna I saw went up when she used the word prostitute, which they're the same thing, like sex worker prostitution A good point.

We don't you know what I mean.

We don't you know what I mean.

I don't think you like the word. But when she started by saying, you know, it's a sex like you're a sex.

I don't think you like the word. But when she started by saying, you know, it's a sex like you're a sex.

Easier on the ears, it's easier on the it's easy on the ears. And you're willing to listen to why she's saying that.

Easier on the ears, it's easier on the it's easy on the ears. And you're willing to listen to why she's saying that.

Because as soon as she said prostitutions, right, there are certain words you know, why because sex worker can be anything. Sometimes it's stripper. People say we do sex work by talking about sex ed prostitution. I think about literally streetwalk dollar, I'm pulling the car. Car.

Because as soon as she said prostitutions, right, there are certain words you know, why because sex worker can be anything. Sometimes it's stripper. People say we do sex work by talking about sex ed prostitution. I think about literally streetwalk dollar, I'm pulling the car. Car.

But now she did say that though, she said there is a financial exchange in marriage, especially when a woman is expected to be a specific role person in the house, a homemaker, a mother, take care of the house in exchange for you, the husband.

But now she did say that though, she said there is a financial exchange in marriage, especially when a woman is expected to be a specific role person in the house, a homemaker, a mother, take care of the house in exchange for you, the husband.

And she used the keyword I always say that sex work is transactional. She called a marriage transactional. Do you believe that marriage is transactional.

And she used the keyword I always say that sex work is transactional. She called a marriage transactional. Do you believe that marriage is transactional.

No, I think it's a it's a compromise. It's not transactional.

No, I think it's a it's a compromise. It's not transactional.

And we talked about the movie said marriage is a compromise this week.

And we talked about the movie said marriage is a compromise this week.

But I mean, I think everything is transactional. Everything, even everything is transaction. So I don't think we highlight transaction. You can't just leave it to one thing like you being me being here, you guys being here. It's a transactional thing, right, not a bad thing. It wins works for everyone. So everything is transaction. But in terms of a marriage, when youocus it on yo, if you do this, I do this, it's not like that. It's more of I do this because I love you.

But I mean, I think everything is transactional. Everything, even everything is transaction. So I don't think we highlight transaction. You can't just leave it to one thing like you being me being here, you guys being here. It's a transactional thing, right, not a bad thing. It wins works for everyone. So everything is transaction. But in terms of a marriage, when youocus it on yo, if you do this, I do this, it's not like that. It's more of I do this because I love you.

Yeah, people in the comments that she wanted to do this or say this because this is what single women.

Yeah, people in the comments that she wanted to do this or say this because this is what single women.

They try to drag down marriage things like that.

They try to drag down marriage things like that.

I agree, you do. I agree.

I agree, you do. I agree.

I think it's a perspective to just kind of like taint the idea in marriage, you know.

I think it's a perspective to just kind of like taint the idea in marriage, you know.

But like I mean, I have other ways and reasons why I taint marriage and why I don't believe in it. But I think it's just because the construct of marriage actually was not based on love at all. It was based on a financial gain or a partnership created in order for a woman to have a roof over her head, or be able to open a bank account, or to be able to kind of exist in a society that didn't allow women really to live a life of independence. And I mean, even if we look at other traditions and places in the world, a lot of it was set up by your family, and that was for means of wealth or to stay with a certain social class. For people choose each other today, I think, I mean, yeah, they do.

But like I mean, I have other ways and reasons why I taint marriage and why I don't believe in it. But I think it's just because the construct of marriage actually was not based on love at all. It was based on a financial gain or a partnership created in order for a woman to have a roof over her head, or be able to open a bank account, or to be able to kind of exist in a society that didn't allow women really to live a life of independence. And I mean, even if we look at other traditions and places in the world, a lot of it was set up by your family, and that was for means of wealth or to stay with a certain social class. For people choose each other today, I think, I mean, yeah, they do.

But I think that that's the interesting part about this though, is if we bring in the concept of sex being in exchange for something, which I think is why prostitution got out came about because she even said, your wife has sex with you because now she has to do that in exchange for.

But I think that that's the interesting part about this though, is if we bring in the concept of sex being in exchange for something, which I think is why prostitution got out came about because she even said, your wife has sex with you because now she has to do that in exchange for.

It's not a good relationship. You know what I'm saying.

It's not a good relationship. You know what I'm saying.

A happy relationship is somebody that wants to do that.

A happy relationship is somebody that wants to do that.

I agree. That means I'm a prostitute. Then in the relationships we see your listen, you know why this really struck home for me so over the years on Horrible, I always talk about my parents being a great example of a happy marriage. This to me, when knowing that, like the sex becomes a transactional thing I recently saw when my dad's health took a term.

I agree. That means I'm a prostitute. Then in the relationships we see your listen, you know why this really struck home for me so over the years on Horrible, I always talk about my parents being a great example of a happy marriage. This to me, when knowing that, like the sex becomes a transactional thing I recently saw when my dad's health took a term.

My dad's in a whelchair now when.

My dad's in a whelchair now when.

I'm sure they haven't sucked in a few years.

I'm sure they haven't sucked in a few years.

But I mean, I ain't asking, and I know, and I see.

But I mean, I ain't asking, and I know, and I see.

The dynamics change, the love change, and I think, when you have that much love and adoration for somebody, you stick it out till the end. Absolutely so. Now he's in his eighties, my mom's in his seventies, and I'm watching it in real time. To me, that's the largest different with difference with marriages, the commitment to do it through whatever exactly you know when your body changes, when you're old whatever. And like with sex in particular, there's so many to people we've had on this podcast, even talking about things like five words and shit like that, if you can't fuck for a few months, you know what I mean? Black women forty just thinking that sex is all marriage is or the exchange that they need is sometimes pretty sad because I agree. I think that the housewife ideation of it. Sometimes women have acted like maybe they're better than anyone else. I think that is where comments like this can derive from. Married women tend to act better than women that are single, and a lot of times those married women are.

The dynamics change, the love change, and I think, when you have that much love and adoration for somebody, you stick it out till the end. Absolutely so. Now he's in his eighties, my mom's in his seventies, and I'm watching it in real time. To me, that's the largest different with difference with marriages, the commitment to do it through whatever exactly you know when your body changes, when you're old whatever. And like with sex in particular, there's so many to people we've had on this podcast, even talking about things like five words and shit like that, if you can't fuck for a few months, you know what I mean? Black women forty just thinking that sex is all marriage is or the exchange that they need is sometimes pretty sad because I agree. I think that the housewife ideation of it. Sometimes women have acted like maybe they're better than anyone else. I think that is where comments like this can derive from. Married women tend to act better than women that are single, and a lot of times those married women are.

Happy when these single girls chose to leave somebody.

Happy when these single girls chose to leave somebody.

But I still firmly believe marriage can be filled with happiness and honesty and trust. It is.

But I still firmly believe marriage can be filled with happiness and honesty and trust. It is.

I'm living it, though, but I'm living it. So the thing about it too is right, Like the way you describe marriage is the law, what they made that law. There's a difference between that and a kingdom marriage, which is biblical, and a biblical marriage is basically even Adam and Eve where she came from his rib that was his wife, you know what I'm saying, And that's that's.

I'm living it, though, but I'm living it. So the thing about it too is right, Like the way you describe marriage is the law, what they made that law. There's a difference between that and a kingdom marriage, which is biblical, and a biblical marriage is basically even Adam and Eve where she came from his rib that was his wife, you know what I'm saying, And that's that's.

What I'm saying. So you know what I'm saying. Listen ahead. So when you have what.

What I'm saying. So you know what I'm saying. Listen ahead. So when you have what.

It is from the Bible standpoint, a woman is support the man is. It's basically the exchange. The transactional exchange is husbands love your wives, your wives respect your husband. That's the transaction. That's the only transaction. So when we do all these other things is the law, Yes, you're right, you're not wrong, because the law is let's make some money off people. That's what the law is. But when you get married under God and the spiritual way, there is no You become selfless. Everything you do to have a successful relationship, everything you do is for that other person. So you're not even thinking for a transaction. I think you're thinking of, oh what can I do. When I'm speaking to ogs, they're like, yo, bro, be as selfless as possible, because if she's that way and you're that way, you're always going to be good.

It is from the Bible standpoint, a woman is support the man is. It's basically the exchange. The transactional exchange is husbands love your wives, your wives respect your husband. That's the transaction. That's the only transaction. So when we do all these other things is the law, Yes, you're right, you're not wrong, because the law is let's make some money off people. That's what the law is. But when you get married under God and the spiritual way, there is no You become selfless. Everything you do to have a successful relationship, everything you do is for that other person. So you're not even thinking for a transaction. I think you're thinking of, oh what can I do. When I'm speaking to ogs, they're like, yo, bro, be as selfless as possible, because if she's that way and you're that way, you're always going to be good.

Besides, God, tell me why you wanted to get married. Because I had a conversation with my partner about this. You know, not opposed to marriage at all. We talk about you know, children, family dynamics. But he's like, why do you want it. None of this this has nothing to do with other people. You don't feel pressured, what makes you want it? I just want to know your answer because as a man, I feel like men are always pushed my ring. Yeah, you know.

Besides, God, tell me why you wanted to get married. Because I had a conversation with my partner about this. You know, not opposed to marriage at all. We talk about you know, children, family dynamics. But he's like, why do you want it. None of this this has nothing to do with other people. You don't feel pressured, what makes you want it? I just want to know your answer because as a man, I feel like men are always pushed my ring. Yeah, you know.

I think because she didn't push me. I think it was just like, oh, this is right. If she would have pushed me, then it probably would have been a different outcome. It would have been like, what's this, why you're doing why you're forcing this? It's just everything in our relationship was a natural transition.

I think because she didn't push me. I think it was just like, oh, this is right. If she would have pushed me, then it probably would have been a different outcome. It would have been like, what's this, why you're doing why you're forcing this? It's just everything in our relationship was a natural transition.

Why marriage over long term commitment?

Why marriage over long term commitment?

Though again it's it was just led by the spirit. Honestly, I can't I can't tell you like, oh the right thing is?

Though again it's it was just led by the spirit. Honestly, I can't I can't tell you like, oh the right thing is?

Were you in this choice? Yes?

Were you in this choice? Yes?

Completely, we had we we recently had a dating coach on and so I would just like to know the timeline that this took place in terms of your relationship.

Completely, we had we we recently had a dating coach on and so I would just like to know the timeline that this took place in terms of your relationship.

So can you let us know about put that's fine?

So can you let us know about put that's fine?

Can can you let us know how long it took you to propose? How long were y'll dating before you popped?

Can can you let us know how long it took you to propose? How long were y'll dating before you popped?

About a year and a half? Two years? And was wrong? Was he said six months? Committed relationship? How long How long were y'all dating? Before getting into your relationship, before you said you be my girlfriend. That's is different because she was all the way in another country. Yeah, it's kind of hard to girl. That means it is a real good time.

About a year and a half? Two years? And was wrong? Was he said six months? Committed relationship? How long How long were y'all dating? Before getting into your relationship, before you said you be my girlfriend. That's is different because she was all the way in another country. Yeah, it's kind of hard to girl. That means it is a real good time.

But okay, so we started. Okay, I'll give you the breakdown. So we met in July of twenty and nineteen. Okay, and so it was essence, fast, kicked it, talked, and then she went back to Tanzania and then she came and visited me in August.

But okay, so we started. Okay, I'll give you the breakdown. So we met in July of twenty and nineteen. Okay, and so it was essence, fast, kicked it, talked, and then she went back to Tanzania and then she came and visited me in August.

Oh, also six months in between no no, no July and July and August. August.

Oh, also six months in between no no, no July and July and August. August.

Yeah, she came back. She was like, look, I'm I want to see you.

Yeah, she came back. She was like, look, I'm I want to see you.

Yes. Oh, she was like let's go. Let's go. Ask me why I'm trying to get you. See that she got that money. Let me tell you how she got that.

Yes. Oh, she was like let's go. Let's go. Ask me why I'm trying to get you. See that she got that money. Let me tell you how she got that.

That was the best investment she ever did. Come on, he said, I got that two thousand plus. She was like, look I got it, I got it. And she was like she came. She had like three four shows set up and she was like, I don't feel like leaving no, no, no, no elsewhere elsewhere She lost money to come see me.

That was the best investment she ever did. Come on, he said, I got that two thousand plus. She was like, look I got it, I got it. And she was like she came. She had like three four shows set up and she was like, I don't feel like leaving no, no, no, no elsewhere elsewhere She lost money to come see me.

Okay, girl, now now you do it. On she married. You're right, yeah, she must have seen it. Was it in a picture? And she said, oh yeah, so that's why she got on a plane. Yeah, okay, it had to be something. It couldn't have been no offense person not alone. How long did how long did she stay with you?

Okay, girl, now now you do it. On she married. You're right, yeah, she must have seen it. Was it in a picture? And she said, oh yeah, so that's why she got on a plane. Yeah, okay, it had to be something. It couldn't have been no offense person not alone. How long did how long did she stay with you?

So she was supposed to come by for like five days, okay, but then it started she was like, no, I don't want to leave. So she was like, let me call my manager. She canceled that show another two days, canceled that one.

So she was supposed to come by for like five days, okay, but then it started she was like, no, I don't want to leave. So she was like, let me call my manager. She canceled that show another two days, canceled that one.

A prison man, that's crazy.

A prison man, that's crazy.

She canceled three four shows that stayed about two and two and a half weeks, three weeks.

She canceled three four shows that stayed about two and two and a half weeks, three weeks.

Now, I want to ask you something one of my friends said to me years ago. A guy like dropped off something at my house and was doing something. I was like, I'm just not into this. He goes, you're not into him because if anybody else did that, you wouldn't say it was clean.

Now, I want to ask you something one of my friends said to me years ago. A guy like dropped off something at my house and was doing something. I was like, I'm just not into this. He goes, you're not into him because if anybody else did that, you wouldn't say it was clean.

A girl canceling shows, Yeah, wouldn't you be like?

A girl canceling shows, Yeah, wouldn't you be like?

Let's what you know? What I mean? Think about it. I don't want no nigga calling off of work to fuck with me.

Let's what you know? What I mean? Think about it. I don't want no nigga calling off of work to fuck with me.

I need right, so that would turn me off.

I need right, so that would turn me off.

You deserve it.

You deserve it.

No, no, no, you don't make your money. I would not me personally, I would no, maybe.

No, no, no, you don't make your money. I would not me personally, I would no, maybe.

Not you not when it's there, you wouldn't think that's fly.

Not you not when it's there, you wouldn't think that's fly.

He's like, look, I don't need that. I want to kick it with. Yeah, I was gonna say what about it?

He's like, look, I don't need that. I want to kick it with. Yeah, I was gonna say what about it?

Not that I ain't.

Not that I ain't.

I ain't. I ain't calling off work like money for you.

I ain't. I ain't calling off work like money for you.

See, you see we gotta go to essence. You will when you find out what I say. A lot of women say these things until they find that guy.

See, you see we gotta go to essence. You will when you find out what I say. A lot of women say these things until they find that guy.

That changed your perspective. I promise you. I was what. I was what and he was like, I ain't gonna do this this that when we had waiting. I'm waiting when when I said I wasn't gonna make money for a nigga, No no, I'm not talking about money. You was talking about. These girls be doing this. I'm not gonna be acting like this. These girls be sticking up from the man girl nobody on the clip.

That changed your perspective. I promise you. I was what. I was what and he was like, I ain't gonna do this this that when we had waiting. I'm waiting when when I said I wasn't gonna make money for a nigga, No no, I'm not talking about money. You was talking about. These girls be doing this. I'm not gonna be acting like this. These girls be sticking up from the man girl nobody on the clip.

I still say, I don't think you should do girlfriendship before you the girlfriend.

I still say, I don't think you should do girlfriendship before you the girlfriend.

When I was the girlfriend. Yeah, I was doing all that ship you mean okay girl? Any who get yeah? Yeah? What were there certain things that maybe so I'm asking this because I want people to differentiate when a connection is becoming real. Were you doing anything or giving any vibe that she should stay? How do women know when they should go to extra mile? Everything you're telling me right now her effort right not saying that you were giving that ve for women in person because women be acting delusional. Clearly she wasn't because you ended up marrying. But what was going on and what vibes were you giving or things were you saying? Were you doing something different that led her to know this is it?

When I was the girlfriend. Yeah, I was doing all that ship you mean okay girl? Any who get yeah? Yeah? What were there certain things that maybe so I'm asking this because I want people to differentiate when a connection is becoming real. Were you doing anything or giving any vibe that she should stay? How do women know when they should go to extra mile? Everything you're telling me right now her effort right not saying that you were giving that ve for women in person because women be acting delusional. Clearly she wasn't because you ended up marrying. But what was going on and what vibes were you giving or things were you saying? Were you doing something different that led her to know this is it?

Well, it was pretty obvious during that time that, like I was ready to kind of just stop playing around, you know what I mean, like stop playing around?

Well, it was pretty obvious during that time that, like I was ready to kind of just stop playing around, you know what I mean, like stop playing around?

Okay, you know what I'm saying the right time? Right before she made it easy to do that.

Okay, you know what I'm saying the right time? Right before she made it easy to do that.

It was like, oh, like you don't want anything from me, You're spiritual, you're dope, you fly as hell, everything is lit. And it just again when you know, you know, when it just feels like everything is effortless, Like it felt like speaking my opinion and my feelings was like breathing. Everything was just effortless. Wow, there was nothing that was like every thought was like yo, I feel like I feel I feel insecure right now. Anything I wanted to say about anything. It was open and honest and I never did that. I never had anything like like that before. And she was giving out and she felt the same way. So when the communications at a level where along with all the fly things about that person, nothing they do is too much, it's like you take like I want it. This person is too much, It's like, no, it changes to so much because you like it, you appreciate it.