In this episode of Untidy, Matty and Hannah go off-script and ditch the plan for the episode to talk about what’s really on their minds — the beautiful chaos of life served with a side of emotional vulnerability and an unavoidable sprinkle of self-care.

Hannah shares she’s losing her battle with COVID, operating with mashed potato for a brain and finding no choice but to surrender to the slow lane. Matty opens up about a parenting fail that morning that left her feeling particularly low.

They talk about the art of repair after rupture and why it’s not always on your time schedule. There’s chat about the pressures of productivity, how to give yourself grace, and how to give yourself permission to lie in the sun with a good book (even if your bathroom remains borderline condemned while you do it).

Untidy is celebrating some big wins: a Gold for Best Family Podcast and Silver for Best Branded Podcast at the NZ Podcast Awards! A massive thank you to all of you for your love and support—it means the world to us.

Grab your ice cream (you’ll understand why!) and listen in for a good, slightly unhinged kōrero about life’s less-than-perfect moments.

Links we mention in the show:
Connected parenting with Genevieve Muir — Episode
Connected parenting Q&A with Genevieve Muir — Episode
Ready for School book by My Big Moments online
Ready for School book by My Big Moments in stores
Untidy podcast is on YouTube!

If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. You can also find us and subscribe on YouTube! That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening, contributing and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!

Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

In this episode of Untidy, Matty and Hannah go off-script and ditch the plan for the episode to talk about what&rsquo;s really on their minds &mdash; the beautiful chaos of life served with a side of emotional vulnerability and an unavoidable sprinkle of self-care.
Hannah shares she&rsquo;s losing her battle with COVID, operating with mashed potato for a brain and finding no choice but to surrender to the slow lane. Matty opens up about a parenting fail that morning that left her feeling particularly low.
They talk about the art of repair after rupture and why it&rsquo;s not always on your time schedule. There&rsquo;s chat about the pressures of productivity, how to give yourself grace, and how to give yourself permission to lie in the sun with a good book (even if your bathroom remains borderline condemned while you do it).
Untidy is celebrating some big wins: a Gold for Best Family Podcast and Silver for Best Branded Podcast at the NZ Podcast Awards! A massive thank you to all of you for your love and support&mdash;it means the world to us.
Grab your ice cream (you&rsquo;ll understand why!) and listen in for a good, slightly unhinged kōrero about life&rsquo;s less-than-perfect moments.
Links we mention in the show: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/5dTBd16yXCFg2bX7aSvhZa?si=2ad5e19a70bd4a8a">Connected parenting with Genevieve Muir &mdash; Episode </a><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/5SFYBl3ENcdEPqkTnnoAwG?si=94a7489cc88b4123">Connected parenting Q&amp;A with Genevieve Muir &mdash; Episode </a><a href="https://mybigmoments.com/starting-school">Ready for School book by My Big Moments online </a><a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=ready+for+school+my+big+moments+hannah+davison&amp;oq=ready+for+school+my+big+moments+hannah+davison&amp;gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOTIICAEQABgWGB4yCggCEAAYgAQYogQyCggDEAAYgAQYogQyBwgEEAAY7wUyCggFEAAYogQYiQUyBwgGEAAY7wXSAQg1NjQ5ajBqN6gCALACAA&amp;sourceid=chrome&amp;ie=UTF-8">Ready for School book by My Big Moments in stores </a><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@Untidypodcast">Untidy podcast is on YouTube!</a>
If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the &lsquo;+ follow&rsquo; button. You can also find us and subscribe on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@Untidypodcast">YouTube</a>! That way, you&rsquo;ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community &ndash; subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening, contributing and supporting our independent production! You&rsquo;re the best!
Untidy is made for you &ndash; the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/untidypodcast/">@untidypodcast</a> or email <a href="mailto:hello@untidypodcast.com">hello@untidypodcast.com</a>. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at<a href="https://www.untidypodcast.com/"> Untidy podcast</a>. Find Matilda at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/matootles/">@matootles</a> and get your copy of <a href="https://www.whitcoulls.co.nz/the-feel-good-guide-6481627">The Feel Good Guide</a>. Find Hannah at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hannahedavison/">@hannahedavison</a> and her <a href="https://mybigmoments.com/">My Big Moments</a> children&rsquo;s books at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mybigmoments/">@mybigmoments</a>. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

Surrendering to imperfection

In this episode of Untidy, Hannah and Matty chat with two legends of New Zealand broadcasting, Jay-Jay Feeney and Dom Harvey. Well-known for their work together on The Edge Breakfast Show, Jay-Jay and Dom have shared an extraordinary journey that has seen them transition from romantic partners to business partners, redefining what it means to evolve a partnership.

From their new podcast studio, PodLab, Matty and Hannah turn the questions on these two seasoned interviewers to talk about how they managed mixing their personal and professional lives, deal with public scrutiny and entitlement, the evolution of their relationship through separation, navigating friendship dynamics with new partners, and embarking on a new business venture together. 

Jay-Jay and Dom share openly and candidly about their relationship over the years and how it has transformed to support their personal and mutual evolution, calling into question what a successful relationship really looks like. 

Check out their joint venture, @podlabnz and follow @jjfeeneynz and @domharveynz. Listen to the multi-award-winning @domharveypodcast on your favourite podcast listening app. 

If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!

Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

In this episode of Untidy, Hannah and Matty chat with two legends of New Zealand broadcasting, Jay-Jay Feeney and Dom Harvey. Well-known for their work together on The Edge Breakfast Show, Jay-Jay and Dom have shared an extraordinary journey that has seen them transition from romantic partners to business partners, redefining what it means to evolve a partnership.
From their new podcast studio, <a href="https://www.podlab.co.nz/">PodLab</a>, Matty and Hannah turn the questions on these two seasoned interviewers to talk about how they managed mixing their personal and professional lives, deal with public scrutiny and entitlement, the evolution of their relationship through separation, navigating friendship dynamics with new partners, and embarking on a new business venture together. 
Jay-Jay and Dom share openly and candidly about their relationship over the years and how it has transformed to support their personal and mutual evolution, calling into question what a successful relationship really looks like. 
Check out their joint venture, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/podlabnz/">@podlabnz</a> and follow <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jjfeeneynz/#">@jjfeeneynz</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/domharveynz/">@domharveynz</a>. Listen to the multi-award-winning <a href="https://www.instagram.com/domharveypodcast/">@domharveypodcast</a> on your favourite podcast listening app. 
If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!
Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/untidypodcast/">@untidypodcast</a> or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at<a href="https://www.untidypodcast.com/"> Untidy podcast</a>. Find Matilda at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/matootles/">@matootles</a> and get your copy of <a href="https://www.whitcoulls.co.nz/the-feel-good-guide-6481627">The Feel Good Guide</a>. Find Hannah at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hannahedavison/">@hannahedavison</a> and her <a href="https://mybigmoments.com/">My Big Moments</a> children’s books at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mybigmoments/">@mybigmoments</a>. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

The evolution of partnership with Jay-Jay & Dom

In this episode of Untidy, Matty and Hannah discuss Matilda’s chaotic trip to the public pool. As if swimming in the lukewarm piss of child minestrone soup wasn’t enough, Matty discovers she’s inadvertently decided to become bold and braless. 

Hannah’s absolutely not resisting her cravings to own a vintage caravan and grimly realises she’s been asking prospective dates for the bare minimum, which they’re still unable to deliver. 

The girls discuss toilet cubicle psychology, irrational fears, and why, under the right circumstances, you’re all for strangers’ hands tickling your ankles.

The mystery of The Bermuda Triangle is conclusively solved! (Sort of.) And, Matilda stays wild and free by preparing her body for the Coldplay concert six weeks advance. 

Episode we mention:
Perimenopause Handbook with Emily Rose Yates

If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!

Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

In this episode of Untidy, Matty and Hannah discuss Matilda’s chaotic trip to the public pool. As if swimming in the lukewarm piss of child minestrone soup wasn’t enough, Matty discovers she’s inadvertently decided to become bold and braless. 
Hannah’s absolutely not resisting her cravings to own a vintage caravan and grimly realises she’s been asking prospective dates for the bare minimum, which they’re still unable to deliver. 
The girls discuss toilet cubicle psychology, irrational fears, and why, under the right circumstances, you’re all for strangers’ hands tickling your ankles.
The mystery of The Bermuda Triangle is conclusively solved! (Sort of.) And, Matilda stays wild and free by preparing her body for the Coldplay concert six weeks advance. 
Episode we mention: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/3Nmolj9MSqpclJKLl5yUky?si=b2f78ba48dca4f8f">Perimenopause Handbook with Emily Rose Yates</a>
If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!
Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/untidypodcast/">@untidypodcast</a> or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at<a href="https://www.untidypodcast.com/"> Untidy podcast</a>. Find Matilda at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/matootles/">@matootles</a> and get your copy of <a href="https://www.whitcoulls.co.nz/the-feel-good-guide-6481627">The Feel Good Guide</a>. Find Hannah at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hannahedavison/">@hannahedavison</a> and her <a href="https://mybigmoments.com/">My Big Moments</a> children’s books at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mybigmoments/">@mybigmoments</a>. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

Bralessness, caravan cravings, and toilet cubicle psychology

In this episode of Untidy, Matty and Hannah are joined by Kate Whitaker, Senior Advisor at Te Mana Whakaatu Classification Office for New Zealand and an expert in education and outreach. She has over a decade of classroom teaching and facilitation experience under her belt and is driven to enhance the lives of New Zealanders through practical resources for whānau and teachers, helping them to have open kōrero about challenging topics like harmful media and pornography.

Kate’s work focuses on empowering youth, caregivers, and educators to build critical media literacy skills and break down the stigma surrounding these conversations. She shares actionable strategies to help parents feel equipped to guide their children through today’s media landscape, encouraging resilience and critical thinking rather than fear of what can feel like a daunting prospect in this modern era of parenting. 

This episode delves into the importance of moving away from ‘moral panic’ and toward proactive, meaningful discussions and teaching self-management skills to tamariki and rangatahi youth. Kate highlights the tools available to New Zealanders for addressing these issues with confidence, offering insights into the role we all play in creating a safer, more understanding environment for young people.

Find the resources mentioned in this episode:


Te Mana Whakaatu Classification Office website


Classification Office resources for parents and educators


Find a viewing rating


NZ Classification Office on Instagram
Find a Rating

We need you!

The Untidy podcast team would dearly love to take out The Listeners’ Choice Award at the NZ Podcast Awards for 2024. Please vote here and get behind your favourite show in a groundswell of this Untidy community! 

Simply enter here:
PODCAST NAME: Untidy
YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS: (You’ve got this one.)
LINK TO PODCAST: https://open.spotify.com/show/6FKRdV8xqVU3vP5jfJ3TKi?si=d2dfade6daf64f8f
COMMENT: (Not essential, but, if you want to show your love for the show, it might make all the difference!)

Thank you!

If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!

Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

In this episode of Untidy, Matty and Hannah are joined by Kate Whitaker, Senior Advisor at Te Mana Whakaatu Classification Office for New Zealand and an expert in education and outreach. She has over a decade of classroom teaching and facilitation experience under her belt and is driven to enhance the lives of New Zealanders through practical resources for whānau and teachers, helping them to have open kōrero about challenging topics like harmful media and pornography.
Kate’s work focuses on empowering youth, caregivers, and educators to build critical media literacy skills and break down the stigma surrounding these conversations. She shares actionable strategies to help parents feel equipped to guide their children through today’s media landscape, encouraging resilience and critical thinking rather than fear of what can feel like a daunting prospect in this modern era of parenting. 
This episode delves into the importance of moving away from ‘moral panic’ and toward proactive, meaningful discussions and teaching self-management skills to tamariki and rangatahi youth. Kate highlights the tools available to New Zealanders for addressing these issues with confidence, offering insights into the role we all play in creating a safer, more understanding environment for young people.
Find the resources mentioned in this episode:
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<a href="https://www.classificationoffice.govt.nz/">Te Mana Whakaatu Classification Office website</a>
</li>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1">
<a href="https://www.classificationoffice.govt.nz/resources/items/downloadable-resources-for-parents-and-caregivers/">Classification Office resources for parents and educators</a>
</li>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1">
<a href="https://www.classificationoffice.govt.nz/find-a-rating/">Find a viewing rating</a>
</li>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1">
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/nzoflc">NZ Classification Office on Instagram</a>
</li>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.classificationoffice.govt.nz/find-a-rating/quick-takes/the-lion-king/" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.classificationoffice.govt.nz/find-a-rating/quick-takes/the-lion-king/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1732834463294000&amp;usg=AOvVaw3zpTqeL57ucIDrR7AOeR6B">Find a Rating</a></li>
</ul>
We need you!
The Untidy podcast team would dearly love to take out The Listeners’ Choice Award at the NZ Podcast Awards for 2024. Please vote <a href="https://www.nzpodcastawards.com/nominate">here</a> and get behind your favourite show in a groundswell of this Untidy community! Simply enter <a href="https://www.nzpodcastawards.com/nominate">here</a>: PODCAST NAME: Untidy YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS: (You’ve got this one.) LINK TO PODCAST: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6FKRdV8xqVU3vP5jfJ3TKi?si=d2dfade6daf64f8f">https://open.spotify.com/show/6FKRdV8xqVU3vP5jfJ3TKi?si=d2dfade6daf64f8f</a> COMMENT: (Not essential, but, if you want to show your love for the show, it might make all the difference!)
Thank you!
If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!
Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/untidypodcast/">@untidypodcast</a> or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at<a href="https://www.untidypodcast.com/"> Untidy podcast</a>. Find Matilda at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/matootles/">@matootles</a> and get your copy of <a href="https://www.whitcoulls.co.nz/the-feel-good-guide-6481627">The Feel Good Guide</a>. Find Hannah at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hannahedavison/">@hannahedavison</a> and her <a href="https://mybigmoments.com/">My Big Moments</a> children’s books at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mybigmoments/">@mybigmoments</a>. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

Creating critical thinkers with Kate Whitaker

In this episode of Untidy, Matty, Hannah and Producer Flick catch up for a chaotic chat that journeys from the poetry corner to bake sale avoidance, school notice overwhelm, grapefruit utilisation, the weirdest gifts, office party fails, and elaborate plans for their own novelty deaths. 

As the vortex towards the end of the year intensifies, the girls consider the topical issues ... like why no one talks about The Bermuda Triangle anymore ... Will their sanity extend into 2025? No one is sure, but, stick around and see what unravels next. 

Links to the poems read in this episode:


‘Phenomenal Woman’ by Maya Angelou


‘The Orange’ by Wendy Cope

We need you!

The Untidy podcast team would dearly love to take out The Listeners’ Choice Award at the NZ Podcast Awards for 2024. Please vote here and get behind your favourite show in a groundswell of this Untidy community! 

Enter here with the following details:
PODCAST NAME: Untidy
YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS: (You’ve got this one.)
LINK TO PODCAST: https://open.spotify.com/show/6FKRdV8xqVU3vP5jfJ3TKi?si=d2dfade6daf64f8f
COMMENT: (Not essential, but, if you want to show your love for the show, it might make all the difference!)

Thank you!

If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!

Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

In this episode of Untidy, Matty, Hannah and Producer Flick catch up for a chaotic chat that journeys from the poetry corner to bake sale avoidance, school notice overwhelm, grapefruit utilisation, the weirdest gifts, office party fails, and elaborate plans for their own novelty deaths. 
As the vortex towards the end of the year intensifies, the girls consider the topical issues ... like why no one talks about The Bermuda Triangle anymore ... Will their sanity extend into 2025? No one is sure, but, stick around and see what unravels next. 
Links to the poems read in this episode:
<ul>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1">
<a href="https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/48985/phenomenal-woman">‘Phenomenal Woman’ by Maya Angelou</a>
</li>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1">
<a href="https://gladdestthing.com/poems/the-orange">‘The Orange’ by Wendy Cope</a>
</li>
</ul>
We need you!
The Untidy podcast team would dearly love to take out The Listeners’ Choice Award at the NZ Podcast Awards for 2024. Please vote <a href="https://www.nzpodcastawards.com/nominate">here</a> and get behind your favourite show in a groundswell of this Untidy community! Enter <a href="https://www.nzpodcastawards.com/nominate">here</a> with the following details: PODCAST NAME: Untidy YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS: (You’ve got this one.) LINK TO PODCAST: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6FKRdV8xqVU3vP5jfJ3TKi?si=d2dfade6daf64f8f">https://open.spotify.com/show/6FKRdV8xqVU3vP5jfJ3TKi?si=d2dfade6daf64f8f</a> COMMENT: (Not essential, but, if you want to show your love for the show, it might make all the difference!)
Thank you!
If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!
Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/untidypodcast/">@untidypodcast</a> or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at<a href="https://www.untidypodcast.com/"> Untidy podcast</a>. Find Matilda at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/matootles/">@matootles</a> and get your copy of <a href="https://www.whitcoulls.co.nz/the-feel-good-guide-6481627">The Feel Good Guide</a>. Find Hannah at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hannahedavison/">@hannahedavison</a> and her <a href="https://mybigmoments.com/">My Big Moments</a> children’s books at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mybigmoments/">@mybigmoments</a>. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

The Bermuda Triangle used to be an issue

In this snippet from the episode of Untidy, 'The perimenopause handbook with Emily Rose Yates', Matty and Hannah talk to Emily about how they used to be able to have "8,000 drinks and be fine the next day." Now, half a sip leaves them hungover for six weeks. We find out what's really happening to our liver in perimenopause.

Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

In this snippet from the episode of Untidy, <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/7ajJ3b3BuDDQCDl7BGaWI9?si=1f145867cbf14ad0">'The perimenopause handbook with Emily Rose Yates'</a>, Matty and Hannah talk to Emily about how they used to be able to have "8,000 drinks and be fine the next day." Now, half a sip leaves them hungover for six weeks. We find out what's really happening to our liver in perimenopause. Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/untidypodcast/">@untidypodcast</a> or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at<a href="https://www.untidypodcast.com/"> Untidy podcast</a>. Find Matilda at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/matootles/">@matootles</a> and get your copy of <a href="https://www.whitcoulls.co.nz/the-feel-good-guide-6481627">The Feel Good Guide</a>. Find Hannah at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hannahedavison/">@hannahedavison</a> and her <a href="https://mybigmoments.com/">My Big Moments</a> children’s books at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mybigmoments/">@mybigmoments</a>. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

Why hangovers are harder in perimenopause 

In this episode of Untidy, hosts, Matilda Green and Hannah Davison respond to the call of swathes of hot, brain-fogged, enraged, peri-menopausal women who are feeling frustrated, ignored, dismissed and sometimes a bit depressed about the difficulty they’re having getting clear information and proper support with their symptoms of peri-menopause. They unpack the complexities of perimenopause and holistic health with naturopath Emily Rose Yates. 

Emily Rose Yates is a highly respected naturopath with a Bachelor of Health Sciences in Naturopathy, alongside advanced diplomas in herbal medicine, nutrition, and homeopathy. Practising since 2007, Emily has dedicated her career to women’s health, specialising in women’s hormones and perimenopause. She is passionate about empowering women with tools to navigate health challenges holistically and aims to bridge the gap between natural health practices and traditional medical care with her evidence-based approach. Emily is also a mother of three and an advocate for supporting mothers and families to thrive.

Emily shares her insights into how perimenopause affects both physical and mental well-being. She discusses the many symptoms and complaints women can experience, and explains how hormone fluctuations contribute to these challenges. Emphasising a holistic approach, Emily advises on the importance of balanced nutrition, specific supplements, and supportive lifestyle changes that can aid in navigating this life stage.

Follow Emily on Instagram @emilyroseyatesnaturopath and find her website here at https://www.emilyroseyates.com/. 

Resources mentioned in this episode:


https://www.menopause.org.nz/


Australian Menopause Centre


Hormone Tracker eBook by Emily


GP Letter


Wholefoods macronutrients wheel


A Queen’s Prayer


Hormone Repair Manual by Lara Briden

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Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

In this episode of Untidy, hosts, Matilda Green and Hannah Davison respond to the call of swathes of hot, brain-fogged, enraged, peri-menopausal women who are feeling frustrated, ignored, dismissed and sometimes a bit depressed about the difficulty they’re having getting clear information and proper support with their symptoms of peri-menopause. They unpack the complexities of perimenopause and holistic health with naturopath Emily Rose Yates. 
Emily Rose Yates is a highly respected naturopath with a Bachelor of Health Sciences in Naturopathy, alongside advanced diplomas in herbal medicine, nutrition, and homeopathy. Practising since 2007, Emily has dedicated her career to women’s health, specialising in women’s hormones and perimenopause. She is passionate about empowering women with tools to navigate health challenges holistically and aims to bridge the gap between natural health practices and traditional medical care with her evidence-based approach. Emily is also a mother of three and an advocate for supporting mothers and families to thrive.
Emily shares her insights into how perimenopause affects both physical and mental well-being. She discusses the many symptoms and complaints women can experience, and explains how hormone fluctuations contribute to these challenges. Emphasising a holistic approach, Emily advises on the importance of balanced nutrition, specific supplements, and supportive lifestyle changes that can aid in navigating this life stage.
Follow Emily on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/emilyroseyatesnaturopath/">@emilyroseyatesnaturopath</a> and find her website here at <a href="https://www.emilyroseyates.com/">https://www.emilyroseyates.com/</a><a href="https://emilyrosiates.com"></a>. 
Resources mentioned in this episode:
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<a href="https://www.menopause.org.nz/">https://www.menopause.org.nz/</a>
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<a href="https://www.australianmenopausecentre.com.au/">Australian Menopause Centre</a>
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<a href="https://ugc.production.linktr.ee/3d67097b-350c-4d8f-8117-3a134c0ac4b3_HORMONE-EBOOK-e.pdf">Hormone Tracker eBook by Emily</a>
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<a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1k4Lm6YmFhTnxAbRS1Sf35DLFQDkYmhUc/edit?usp=sharing&amp;ouid=104107671757849872697&amp;rtpof=true&amp;sd=true">GP Letter</a>
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<a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1TUNNIRAZ2xNCHADHlQpI7krLRhK_9cpF/view?usp=sharing">Wholefoods macronutrients wheel</a>
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<a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1nYaEiNmZXQgSGZ5Lg-FRK5nUbFZ6J4Vp/edit?usp=sharing&amp;ouid=104107671757849872697&amp;rtpof=true&amp;sd=true">A Queen’s Prayer</a>
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<a href="https://www.mightyape.co.nz/mn/buy/mighty-ape-hormone-repair-manual-34027057/?ref=googleadsnz_shopping&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiAxKy5BhBbEiwAYiW--wFcipsHubC4cv8qwqjcoWyxQtyPiiJMB2X3z9beaTH3zHbiJP-iERoC2xsQAvD_BwE">Hormone Repair Manual by Lara Briden</a>
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If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!
Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/untidypodcast/">@untidypodcast</a> or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at<a href="https://www.untidypodcast.com/"> Untidy podcast</a>. Find Matilda at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/matootles/">@matootles</a> and get your copy of <a href="https://www.whitcoulls.co.nz/the-feel-good-guide-6481627">The Feel Good Guide</a>. Find Hannah at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hannahedavison/">@hannahedavison</a> and her <a href="https://mybigmoments.com/">My Big Moments</a> children’s books at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mybigmoments/">@mybigmoments</a>. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

The perimenopause handbook with Emily Rose Yates

In this episode of Untidy, Matty and Hannah share a little Halloween nostalgia, or rather, a history of underwhelm and awkwardness as they wonder how to bypass the event they’re underprepared for. A listener delights them with a video message as she teaches her daughter quick comebacks after the recent episode with Kasey Edwards on ‘Raising kids who like themselves’. 

Hannah’s offered a statement dog from a listener as she sets another honeytrap for eligible animal lovers, and, they discuss the merits of dogs with small surface area. She opens up about re-entering the dating world and the complexities of setting boundaries and managing expectations. They reflect on societal pressure to “catch up” to others' expectations. 

Finally, the roleplay mishap story that leaves both girls crying with laughter. (No spoilers here!)

If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us build this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!

Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

In this episode of Untidy, Matty and Hannah share a little Halloween nostalgia, or rather, a history of underwhelm and awkwardness as they wonder how to bypass the event they’re underprepared for. A listener delights them with a video message as she teaches her daughter quick comebacks after the recent episode with Kasey Edwards on ‘<a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/3WdkPpXZ1uwbaLJ5Clh4CL?si=e7bbec26d9644e59">Raising kids who like themselves</a>’. 
Hannah’s offered a statement dog from a listener as she sets another honeytrap for eligible animal lovers, and, they discuss the merits of dogs with small surface area. She opens up about re-entering the dating world and the complexities of setting boundaries and managing expectations. They reflect on societal pressure to “catch up” to others' expectations. 
Finally, the roleplay mishap story that leaves both girls crying with laughter. (No spoilers here!)
If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us build this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!
Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/untidypodcast/">@untidypodcast</a> or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at<a href="https://www.untidypodcast.com/"> Untidy podcast</a>. Find Matilda at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/matootles/">@matootles</a> and get your copy of <a href="https://www.whitcoulls.co.nz/the-feel-good-guide-6481627">The Feel Good Guide</a>. Find Hannah at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hannahedavison/">@hannahedavison</a> and her <a href="https://mybigmoments.com/">My Big Moments</a> children’s books at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mybigmoments/">@mybigmoments</a>. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

You can ring my bell!

In this episode of Untidy, Hannah and Matilda speak to Kasey Edwards, author of Raising Girls Who Like Themselves and Bringing up Boys who Like Themselves. Alongside fellow researcher, co-author and husband, Christopher Scanlon, Kasey has researched and written about how to raise children who can grow up to feel confident and secure in who they are. She shares her personal journey and offers practical advice on parenting through small, intentional “tweaks” that can foster resilience and self-acceptance in children.

They discuss key differences between raising girls and boys and how society treats them, beauty standards, body image, and societal pressures facing girls, the role of praise, empowering kids through everyday challenges, shaping boys’ views on masculinity and relationships, diffusing conflict without violence, encouraging healthy emotional expression, and, Kasey shares advice on simple, actionable parenting tweaks that can make a big impact on children's confidence.

This conversation is essential listening for bringing up confident, secure, resilient kids in this modern world. 

Follow Kasey Edwards on Instagram @kaseyedwardswriter or find her books, Raising Girls Who Like Themselves and Bringing up Boys who Like Themselves, online here. Find free downloadable resources, online classes, the audiobooks, and more information here.

STOP! WE NEED YOUR HELP! IF YOU ENJOY UNTIDY PLEASE VOTE FOR THE SHOW IN THE NZ PODCAST AWARDS TO WIN THE LISTENERS' CHOICE AWARD. NOMINATE 'UNTIDY' HERE.

If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!

Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

In this episode of Untidy, Hannah and Matilda speak to Kasey Edwards, author of Raising Girls Who Like Themselves and Bringing up Boys who Like Themselves. Alongside fellow researcher, co-author and husband, Christopher Scanlon, Kasey has researched and written about how to raise children who can grow up to feel confident and secure in who they are. She shares her personal journey and offers practical advice on parenting through small, intentional “tweaks” that can foster resilience and self-acceptance in children.
They discuss key differences between raising girls and boys and how society treats them, beauty standards, body image, and societal pressures facing girls, the role of praise, empowering kids through everyday challenges, shaping boys’ views on masculinity and relationships, diffusing conflict without violence, encouraging healthy emotional expression, and, Kasey shares advice on simple, actionable parenting tweaks that can make a big impact on children's confidence.
This conversation is essential listening for bringing up confident, secure, resilient kids in this modern world. 
Follow Kasey Edwards on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/kaseyedwardswriter/">@kaseyedwardswriter</a> or find her books, Raising Girls Who Like Themselves and Bringing up Boys who Like Themselves, online <a href="https://www.whitcoulls.co.nz/author/kasey-edwards">here</a>. Find free downloadable resources, online classes, the audiobooks, and more information <a href="https://linkpop.com/kaseyedwards?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabB5m4CoIWUue-jvBBDOpY3zAyxQK5uNyoaDBLcnYEr7MbdCgAlckJ4hdE_aem_9NYP7FZfXL4wTGd5rexQzg">here</a>. STOP! WE NEED YOUR HELP! IF YOU ENJOY UNTIDY PLEASE VOTE FOR THE SHOW IN THE NZ PODCAST AWARDS TO WIN THE LISTENERS' CHOICE AWARD. NOMINATE 'UNTIDY' <a href="https://www.nzpodcastawards.com/nominate">HERE</a>.
If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!
Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/untidypodcast/">@untidypodcast</a> or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at<a href="https://www.untidypodcast.com/"> Untidy podcast</a>. Find Matilda at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/matootles/">@matootles</a> and get your copy of <a href="https://www.whitcoulls.co.nz/the-feel-good-guide-6481627">The Feel Good Guide</a>. Find Hannah at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hannahedavison/">@hannahedavison</a> and her <a href="https://mybigmoments.com/">My Big Moments</a> children’s books at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mybigmoments/">@mybigmoments</a>. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

Raising kids who like themselves with Kasey Edwards

In this episode of Untidy, Matty and Hannah are feeling a spring in their steps ... but, since when did pollen get hallucinogenic ...? Strap in dear listeners, this episode is a ride!

Hannah’s decided to date again and is stepping out with her statement dog Honey Traps. She reviews the Standard Poodle for efficacy. Matty’s victimised in a retail store for concealer in her crow’s feet and takes us to school on how to rescue a sister during a wardrobe malfunction. 

From a style crisis in public to a style crisis at home, Motto Fashions@mottofashions challenges the girls to clamber out of their dressed-down, working-from-home style ruts and solve their outfit dilemmas with staple items from their ‘F*** It Era’. The challenge has been set—Matty is excited, and Hannah is nervous. Stand by for the results on Instagram!

In a critical multi-chat, multitasking fail, Hannah confesses she’s sent something incriminating into the wrong chat ... She’s never blushed so hard on the pod. Thanks to the solidarity of the listeners, she’s not alone ... #doinitforthepod

If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!

Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

In this episode of Untidy, Matty and Hannah are feeling a spring in their steps ... but, since when did pollen get hallucinogenic ...? Strap in dear listeners, this episode is a ride! Hannah’s decided to date again and is stepping out with her statement dog Honey Traps. She reviews the Standard Poodle for efficacy. Matty’s victimised in a retail store for concealer in her crow’s feet and takes us to school on how to rescue a sister during a wardrobe malfunction. 
From a style crisis in public to a style crisis at home, <a href="https://www.motto.com.au/">Motto Fashions</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mottofashions/">@mottofashions challenges the girls</a> to clamber out of their dressed-down, working-from-home style ruts and solve their outfit dilemmas with staple items from their ‘F*** It Era’. The challenge has been set—Matty is excited, and Hannah is nervous. Stand by for the results on Instagram!
In a critical multi-chat, multitasking fail, Hannah confesses she’s sent something incriminating into the wrong chat ... She’s never blushed so hard on the pod. Thanks to the solidarity of the listeners, she’s not alone ... #doinitforthepod
If you enjoy this episode of Untidy, please support the show by subscribing in your podcast app and tapping the ‘+ follow’ button. That way, you’ll never miss an episode. Help us to keep building this supportive community – subscribe, share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review. Thank you for listening and supporting our independent production! You’re the best!
Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/untidypodcast/">@untidypodcast</a> or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help us shape the show! Find us online at<a href="https://www.untidypodcast.com/"> Untidy podcast</a>. Find Matilda at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/matootles/">@matootles</a> and get your copy of <a href="https://www.whitcoulls.co.nz/the-feel-good-guide-6481627">The Feel Good Guide</a>. Find Hannah at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hannahedavison/">@hannahedavison</a> and her <a href="https://mybigmoments.com/">My Big Moments</a> children’s books at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mybigmoments/">@mybigmoments</a>. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

Statement dogs, stray melons, and a style crisis

Untidy podcast honours the person within the parent. Hosts, Matilda Green and Hannah Davison dive into the undergrowth of sex and relationships, mental health, healing, body issues, identity questions, and more with a range of guests. Connect, laugh, learn, and keep moving forward. 

Follow the show and get in touch on Instagram @untidypodcast. Follow Matilda at @matootles and Hannah’s work at My Big Moments and @mybigmoments.

Untidy podcast honours the person within the parent. Hosts, Matilda Green and Hannah Davison dive into the undergrowth of sex and relationships, mental health, healing, body issues, identity questions, and more with a range of guests. Connect, laugh, learn, and keep moving forward. Follow the show and get in touch on Instagram @untidypodcast. Follow Matilda at @matootles and Hannah’s work at My Big Moments and @mybigmoments.

Untidy

Made for you, the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parentood. Untidy podcast honours the person within the parent. Hosts, Matilda Green and Hannah Davison dive into the undergrowth of sex and relationships, mental health, healing, body issues, identity questions, and much more with a range of incredible guests. Connect, laugh, learn, and keep moving forward. 

Follow the show and get in touch on Instagram @untidypodcast. Follow Matilda at @matootles, Hannah at @hannahedavison, and My Big Moments kids' books at @mybigmoments.

Made for you, the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parentood. Untidy podcast honours the person within the parent. Hosts, Matilda Green and Hannah Davison dive into the undergrowth of sex and relationships, mental health, healing, body issues, identity questions, and much more with a range of incredible guests. Connect, laugh, learn, and keep moving forward. Follow the show and get in touch on Instagram @untidypodcast. Follow Matilda at @matootles, Hannah at @hannahedavison, and My Big Moments kids' books at @mybigmoments.

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