This week, Carolina and Devin are joined by comedian/writer/icon Janelle James (Black Monday, Central Park) to discuss red flags - the ones we ignore and the ones we present to others. We cover men scamming us with therapy terms, the dreaded notes app, old school flirting, introducing significant others to friends and more. Janelle gives such amazing red flag advice to the listeners of her podcast "You in Danger Gurl," that we made her answer one of our listeners’ questions about how to move out of the thirst trap friend zone. Plus, Carolina and Devin discuss re-entering the dating pool and men telling them they look tired.