What models did you experience for marriage

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Questions on family of origin wounds

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How to forgive

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What models did you experience for marriage and how did they affect you? Marriage and family therapist Joe Sikorra joins Trending with Timmerie (1:41) They discuss questions from family of origin wounds including: abandonment, anxiety, alcoholism, elderly parents, divorce, and more. Questions (27:56)

Resources mentioned : 

Joe Sikorra’s Website: 

https://joesikorra.com/



Book: Getting Past Your Past: Take Control of Your Life with Self-Help Techniques from EMDR Therapy - By  Francine Shapiro - https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Past-Your-Self-Help-Techniques/dp/1609619951/ref=sr_1_1?adgrpid=1331509150808673&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.9OmDJ7MXZ8QfbXa-d7LiUO4lvUEiG_eKEWDKD-ef3W9_3YOGcaGTRjjSAJt0W6zmGVKHq7Y1gvPZjqpSfe9LV66vWaOlObTTclxs-hZ5wTyStuFWYGZtcHdd6447AuYwsLbPUzOTcrrH-fg8xqHiiGajigwd_91NKCcTGYdU-bYD2w36WB3AZ1uc6mQNb0Z-.yZ7pXArSkCjnmv9QDU1lKy8onl9akdZsJKnet7eEB78&dib_tag=se&hvadid=83219393828846&hvbmt=be&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=102956&hvnetw=o&hvqmt=e&hvtargid=kwd-83219676824691%3Aloc-190&hydadcr=15583_10499576&keywords=francine+shapiro%E2%80%99s+getting+past+your+past&qid=1717112342&sr=8-1



Catholic Therapists

https://www.catholictherapists.com/



Bloom for Catholic Women – Healing from Betrayal Trauma 

https://www.bloomforcatholicwomen.com/

What models did you experience for marriage and how did they affect you? Marriage and family therapist Joe Sikorra joins Trending with Timmerie (1:41) They discuss questions from family of origin wounds including: abandonment, anxiety, alcoholism, elderly parents, divorce, and more. Questions (27:56)
Resources mentioned : 
Joe Sikorra’s Website: 
<a href="https://joesikorra.com/">https://joesikorra.com/</a> 
 
Book: Getting Past Your Past: Take Control of Your Life with Self-Help Techniques from EMDR Therapy - By  Francine Shapiro - <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Past-Your-Self-Help-Techniques/dp/1609619951/ref=sr_1_1?adgrpid=1331509150808673&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.9OmDJ7MXZ8QfbXa-d7LiUO4lvUEiG_eKEWDKD-ef3W9_3YOGcaGTRjjSAJt0W6zmGVKHq7Y1gvPZjqpSfe9LV66vWaOlObTTclxs-hZ5wTyStuFWYGZtcHdd6447AuYwsLbPUzOTcrrH-fg8xqHiiGajigwd_91NKCcTGYdU-bYD2w36WB3AZ1uc6mQNb0Z-.yZ7pXArSkCjnmv9QDU1lKy8onl9akdZsJKnet7eEB78&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;hvadid=83219393828846&amp;hvbmt=be&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvlocphy=102956&amp;hvnetw=o&amp;hvqmt=e&amp;hvtargid=kwd-83219676824691%3Aloc-190&amp;hydadcr=15583_10499576&amp;keywords=francine+shapiro%E2%80%99s+getting+past+your+past&amp;qid=1717112342&amp;sr=8-1">https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Past-Your-Self-Help-Techniques/dp/1609619951/ref=sr_1_1?adgrpid=1331509150808673&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.9OmDJ7MXZ8QfbXa-d7LiUO4lvUEiG_eKEWDKD-ef3W9_3YOGcaGTRjjSAJt0W6zmGVKHq7Y1gvPZjqpSfe9LV66vWaOlObTTclxs-hZ5wTyStuFWYGZtcHdd6447AuYwsLbPUzOTcrrH-fg8xqHiiGajigwd_91NKCcTGYdU-bYD2w36WB3AZ1uc6mQNb0Z-.yZ7pXArSkCjnmv9QDU1lKy8onl9akdZsJKnet7eEB78&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;hvadid=83219393828846&amp;hvbmt=be&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvlocphy=102956&amp;hvnetw=o&amp;hvqmt=e&amp;hvtargid=kwd-83219676824691%3Aloc-190&amp;hydadcr=15583_10499576&amp;keywords=francine+shapiro%E2%80%99s+getting+past+your+past&amp;qid=1717112342&amp;sr=8-1</a>
 
Catholic Therapists
<a href="https://www.catholictherapists.com/">https://www.catholictherapists.com/</a>
 
Bloom for Catholic Women – Healing from Betrayal Trauma 
<a href="https://www.bloomforcatholicwomen.com/">https://www.bloomforcatholicwomen.com/</a>

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Family History’s Impact on Marriage

St. Thomas the apostle

The Bible teaches we are all pilgrims

Support for “gay marriage” has dropped

Happy feast day of St. Thomas the apostle known as Doubting Thomas.  Have you struggled with skepticism or the true presence of Christ in the Eucharist?   (2:03) The Bible teaches we are all pilgrims.  What does this mean? (18:58) Support for “gay marriage” has dropped (39:23)


Resources mentioned : 

From a homily on the Gospels by Saint Gregory the Great, Pope on Thomas the Doubting Apostle 

https://olmercy.com/2018/04/06/doubting-thomas-the-faith-strengthener/



Fr. Tim Episodes 

https://relevantradio.com/?cat=23210&s=Grumbach



Support for “gay marriage” has dropped 

https://catholicvote.org/poll-republican-gay-marriage-support-down-dem-and-independent-support-also-falling/



More people are ex-gay than gay

https://relevantradio.com/2024/06/no-gay-gene-more-people-are-formerly-gay-than-gay/

Happy feast day of St. Thomas the apostle known as Doubting Thomas.  Have you struggled with skepticism or the true presence of Christ in the Eucharist?   (2:03) The Bible teaches we are all pilgrims.  What does this mean? (18:58) Support for “gay marriage” has dropped (39:23)
 Resources mentioned : 
From a homily on the Gospels by Saint Gregory the Great, Pope on Thomas the Doubting Apostle 
<a href="https://olmercy.com/2018/04/06/doubting-thomas-the-faith-strengthener/">https://olmercy.com/2018/04/06/doubting-thomas-the-faith-strengthener/</a>
 
Fr. Tim Episodes 
<a href="https://relevantradio.com/?cat=23210&amp;s=Grumbach">https://relevantradio.com/?cat=23210&amp;s=Grumbach</a>
 
Support for “gay marriage” has dropped 
<a href="https://catholicvote.org/poll-republican-gay-marriage-support-down-dem-and-independent-support-also-falling/">https://catholicvote.org/poll-republican-gay-marriage-support-down-dem-and-independent-support-also-falling/</a>
 
More people are ex-gay than gay
<a href="https://relevantradio.com/2024/06/no-gay-gene-more-people-are-formerly-gay-than-gay/">https://relevantradio.com/2024/06/no-gay-gene-more-people-are-formerly-gay-than-gay/</a>

St. Thomas – Skepticism and Doubt

Are you afraid of commitment?  It’s a common struggle, affecting both men and women today. Whether it’s a hesitant date or a marriage that feels stuck, commitment fears can sneak in and create roadblocks.



Meet Joe Sikorra



In this episode of "Trending with Timmerie," you'll hear from Joe Sikorra, a licensed marriage and family therapist and the author of "The Whole World Is Going Crazy But You Don't Have To."Joe’s wisdom is both profound and practical, blending faith and psychology to help navigate today’s chaotic world.



Here's a link to the whole episode!



Understanding Fear of Commitment



Joe kicked off by explaining why commitment is so vital. It’s the bedrock of our relationships, key to happiness, and crucial for finding meaning. Yet, so many of us are shackled by fear. Let’s dive into why this happens:



Childhood Trauma: Did you grow up in a turbulent home? Experiences of neglect, abuse, or witnessing divorce can plant deep fears of trust and stability.



Self-Sabotage: Do you find yourself making excuses to avoid deepening relationships? This might be a sign of underlying fears.



Cultural Pressures: Today’s social media culture can make us feel like we need to be perfect, further fueling our fears.



Recognizing the Signs



Red Flags to Watch For:



Anxiety: Do you feel a sense of dread about getting close to someone?



Avoidance: Do you often cancel plans or avoid making them in the first place?



Self-Sabotage: Do you engage in behaviors that push people away, even if you don’t mean to?



Take a moment to ask yourself:



Do I feel nervous about getting closer to my partner or friends?



Do I often avoid deep conversations or commitments?



Can I trace these feelings back to something in my past?



Healing and Moving Forward



Therapy and Faith:



Therapy: Talking to a professional can help you understand and heal from past traumas.



Prayer and Faith: Building a deeper relationship with God can provide a sense of safety and trust.



Steps You Can Take:



Reflect on Your Past: Consider how your childhood experiences might be affecting you now.



Seek Help: Therapy can offer tools and insights to overcome fears.



Nurture Your Faith: Engage in prayer and spiritual practices to build trust in God’s love.



There’s Always Hope



Joe’s message is clear: No matter your past, healing is possible. By understanding the roots of your commitment fears and actively working to overcome them, you can build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Remember, with faith and effort, you can break free from the chains of fear and embrace the joy of committed love.



Take a deep breath, and know that with understanding, therapy, and faith, you can overcome your fears and build the loving, committed relationships you deserve. 

Are you afraid of commitment?  It’s a common struggle, affecting both men and women today. Whether it’s a hesitant date or a marriage that feels stuck, commitment fears can sneak in and create roadblocks.
 
Meet <a href="http://joesikora.com">Joe Sikorra</a><a href="http://joesikora.com"> </a>
 
In this episode of "Trending with Timmerie," you'll hear from Joe Sikorra, a licensed marriage and family therapist and the author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Whole-World-Going-Crazy-But-Dont/dp/B0BXN9G4N7">"The Whole World Is Going Crazy But You Don't Have To." </a>Joe’s wisdom is both profound and practical, blending faith and psychology to help navigate today’s chaotic world.
 
<a href="https://relevantradio.com/2024/06/fear-of-commitment/">Here's a link to the whole episode!</a>
 
Understanding Fear of Commitment
 
Joe kicked off by explaining why commitment is so vital. It’s the bedrock of our relationships, key to happiness, and crucial for finding meaning. Yet, so many of us are shackled by fear. Let’s dive into why this happens:
 
Childhood Trauma: Did you grow up in a turbulent home? Experiences of neglect, abuse, or witnessing divorce can plant deep fears of trust and stability.
 
Self-Sabotage: Do you find yourself making excuses to avoid deepening relationships? This might be a sign of underlying fears.
 
Cultural Pressures: Today’s social media culture can make us feel like we need to be perfect, further fueling our fears.
 
Recognizing the Signs
 
Red Flags to Watch For:
 
Anxiety: Do you feel a sense of dread about getting close to someone?
 
Avoidance: Do you often cancel plans or avoid making them in the first place?
 
Self-Sabotage: Do you engage in behaviors that push people away, even if you don’t mean to?
 
Take a moment to ask yourself:
 
Do I feel nervous about getting closer to my partner or friends?
 
Do I often avoid deep conversations or commitments?
 
Can I trace these feelings back to something in my past?
 
Healing and Moving Forward
 
Therapy and Faith:
 
Therapy: Talking to a professional can help you understand and heal from past traumas.
 
Prayer and Faith: Building a deeper relationship with God can provide a sense of safety and trust.
 
Steps You Can Take:
 
Reflect on Your Past: Consider how your childhood experiences might be affecting you now.
 
Seek Help: Therapy can offer tools and insights to overcome fears.
 
Nurture Your Faith: Engage in prayer and spiritual practices to build trust in God’s love.
 
There’s Always Hope
 
Joe’s message is clear: No matter your past, healing is possible. By understanding the roots of your commitment fears and actively working to overcome them, you can build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Remember, with faith and effort, you can break free from the chains of fear and embrace the joy of committed love.
 
Take a deep breath, and know that with understanding, therapy, and faith, you can overcome your fears and build the loving, committed relationships you deserve.

"Fear of Commitment " with Joe Sikorra (Special Podcast Highlight)

Dr. Marguerite Duane - Facts About Fertility

Real reproductive healthcare for women

How to be a pro-life advocate fo women

Modesty at church

How to plan a staycation

Trending tomorrow

Should a woman take the pill for acne?  Dr. Marguerite Duane from Facts About Fertility joins Trending with Timmerie (2:12) How do we find access to real reproductive healthcare for women? (22:16) How to be a pro-life advocate for women. (37:12)  How do you encourage your daughter to be modest at Church? (43:08) Plan a getaway this summer – how to plan a staycation (46:13)


Resources mentioned : 

FACTS About Fertility

https://www.factsaboutfertility.org/



Find a cycle tracking coach 

https://www.factsaboutfertility.org/facts-physician-clinician-educator-directory/



Learn more about the pill and the impact of contraception 

https://relevantradio.com/2024/03/loud-budgeting-ditching-the-pill/



https://relevantradio.com/2024/05/medical-data-on-birth-control-chemical-abortion/



Period Repair Manual 

https://amzn.to/4eMi6jG

Should a woman take the pill for acne?  Dr. Marguerite Duane from Facts About Fertility joins Trending with Timmerie (2:12) How do we find access to real reproductive healthcare for women? (22:16) How to be a pro-life advocate for women. (37:12)  How do you encourage your daughter to be modest at Church? (43:08) Plan a getaway this summer – how to plan a staycation (46:13)
 Resources mentioned : 
FACTS About Fertility
<a href="https://www.factsaboutfertility.org/">https://www.factsaboutfertility.org/</a>
 
Find a cycle tracking coach 
<a href="https://www.factsaboutfertility.org/facts-physician-clinician-educator-directory/">https://www.factsaboutfertility.org/facts-physician-clinician-educator-directory/</a>
 
Learn more about the pill and the impact of contraception 
<a href="https://relevantradio.com/2024/03/loud-budgeting-ditching-the-pill/">https://relevantradio.com/2024/03/loud-budgeting-ditching-the-pill/</a>  
 
<a href="https://relevantradio.com/2024/05/medical-data-on-birth-control-chemical-abortion/">https://relevantradio.com/2024/05/medical-data-on-birth-control-chemical-abortion/</a>
 
Period Repair Manual 
<a href="https://amzn.to/4eMi6jG">https://amzn.to/4eMi6jG</a>

Family History’s Impact on Marriage

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