In South African culture, the term “gwababa” is a deep-rooted fear that prevents individuals (mostly men) from approaching their crush, this paralyzing anxiety often stands in the way of forming meaningful relationships, leaving many people single despite their desires.

Most people feel some level of nervousness when approaching someone they find attractive however the fear of rejection, combined with the pressure to make a good impression, can make approaching a crush feel overwhelming. With Valentines a month away, will you allow this anxiety stop you from enjoying “lovers day” To further unpack we are joined on the line by Leeroy Tau, Relationship expert