We are tackling a topic that many couples experience but often struggle to talk about: mismatched sexual drives and sexual incompatibility! Having a partner who understands you and ticks all your boxes except the in the bedroom can be quite disheartening, these challenges can affect even the most loving relationships.

 A mismatch in sexual drive happens when partners have differing levels of desire, leading one person to feel neglected or another to feel overwhelmed. On the other hand, sexual incompatibility involves differing preferences, comfort zones, or expectations, which can create misunderstandings or emotional distance.


Joining us is Nolethu Ndude Sexuality Educator and Co-Founder of We Mattah

We are tackling a topic that many couples experience but often struggle to talk about: mismatched sexual drives and sexual incompatibility! Having a partner who understands you and ticks all your boxes except the in the bedroom can be quite disheartening, these challenges can affect even the most loving relationships.
 A mismatch in sexual drive happens when partners have differing levels of desire, leading one person to feel neglected or another to feel overwhelmed. On the other hand, sexual incompatibility involves differing preferences, comfort zones, or expectations, which can create misunderstandings or emotional distance.
 Joining us is Nolethu Ndude Sexuality Educator and Co-Founder of We Mattah

Pillow Talk: Is having mismatched sexual drives a deal breaker?

South Africa's National Enterprise Bill, designed to overhaul the governance of state-owned enterprises (SOEs) has garnered public attention and sparked widespread debate.

The bill proposes the creation of a centralized holding company to oversee SOEs, with the aim of improving efficiency, accountability and alignment with national economic priorities.

Some argue that this approach will streamline operations, reduce corruption, and address the chronic mismanagement that has plagued institutions like Eskom, Transnet, and others. On the other hand concerns have been raised about the potential for increased political interference, particularly as the bill grants significant powers to the presidency in appointing board members for the new holding company. Critics also point to existing challenges such as funding shortfalls, skills shortages, and the risk of perpetuating systemic inefficiencies.

 To further unpack we are joined on the line by Dr. Nimrod Mbele, Managing Director of Knowledge Anchors Group (KAG)

South Africa's National Enterprise Bill, designed to overhaul the governance of state-owned enterprises (SOEs) has garnered public attention and sparked widespread debate.
The bill proposes the creation of a centralized holding company to oversee SOEs, with the aim of improving efficiency, accountability and alignment with national economic priorities.
Some argue that this approach will streamline operations, reduce corruption, and address the chronic mismanagement that has plagued institutions like Eskom, Transnet, and others. On the other hand concerns have been raised about the potential for increased political interference, particularly as the bill grants significant powers to the presidency in appointing board members for the new holding company. Critics also point to existing challenges such as funding shortfalls, skills shortages, and the risk of perpetuating systemic inefficiencies.
 To further unpack we are joined on the line by Dr. Nimrod Mbele, Managing Director of Knowledge Anchors Group (KAG)

Would consolidating SOE’s be the beginning of ending bail outs?

Today, we turn our attention to a groundbreaking demonstration in Botswana, where hundreds of citizens marched to the Ministry of Trade and Entrepreneurship, demanding accountability from the Citizen Entrepreneurial Development Agency (CEDA).

 The protest, fueled by allegations of corruption, financial mismanagement, and delayed support for small businesses, underscores growing public frustration with key institutions tasked with driving economic empowerment.

Chants of "No to Corruption!" echoed through the streets as business owners and activists alike united to call for transparency and justice led by Setlhomo Tshwanelang, Criminologist and Social Activist

Organizers have submitted a petition demanding an independent audit of CEDA’s operations, emphasizing the urgent need to restore trust and ensure equitable support for entrepreneurs.

We are joined on the line by Setlhomo and Mooketsi Dintwa, Sales and Marketing Manager for Nangombe Safaris.

Today, we turn our attention to a groundbreaking demonstration in Botswana, where hundreds of citizens marched to the Ministry of Trade and Entrepreneurship, demanding accountability from the Citizen Entrepreneurial Development Agency (CEDA).
 The protest, fueled by allegations of corruption, financial mismanagement, and delayed support for small businesses, underscores growing public frustration with key institutions tasked with driving economic empowerment.
Chants of "No to Corruption!" echoed through the streets as business owners and activists alike united to call for transparency and justice led by Setlhomo Tshwanelang, Criminologist and Social Activist
Organizers have submitted a petition demanding an independent audit of CEDA’s operations, emphasizing the urgent need to restore trust and ensure equitable support for entrepreneurs.
We are joined on the line by Setlhomo and Mooketsi Dintwa, Sales and Marketing Manager for Nangombe Safaris.

Batswana demand accountability from CEDA's alleged mismanagement

Today, we celebrate a remarkable woman who has broken barriers, inspired change and influence spans business, finance, and social impact.

 Faith Khanyile, a seasoned businesswoman and director of public and private companies, brings over 25 years of expertise in corporate and investment banking, structured finance and social impact investing. A founding member of WDB Investment Holdings, Faith has played a pivotal role in advancing women’s empowerment in South Africa’s economy. Under her leadership, WDB Investment Holdings became a beacon for promoting the participation of women, particularly black women, in the financial and corporate sectors.

Faith is also an active member of the International Women’s Forum South Africa, advocating for greater representation of women in leadership roles across business and government. The International Women’s Forum South Africa (IWFSA), recently hosted its third annual Hall of Femme Awards at the Marriot Hotel in Melrose Arch, the event shined the spotlight on three women who have led with courage, grace, and purpose; Monica Geingos, former First Lady of Namibia; Wendy Ackerman, co-founder of Pick n Pay Holdings; and Dr. Naledi Pandor, South Africa’s former Minister of International Relations and Cooperation.

Today, we celebrate a remarkable woman who has broken barriers, inspired change and influence spans business, finance, and social impact.
 Faith Khanyile, a seasoned businesswoman and director of public and private companies, brings over 25 years of expertise in corporate and investment banking, structured finance and social impact investing. A founding member of WDB Investment Holdings, Faith has played a pivotal role in advancing women’s empowerment in South Africa’s economy. Under her leadership, WDB Investment Holdings became a beacon for promoting the participation of women, particularly black women, in the financial and corporate sectors.
Faith is also an active member of the International Women’s Forum South Africa, advocating for greater representation of women in leadership roles across business and government. The International Women’s Forum South Africa (IWFSA), recently hosted its third annual Hall of Femme Awards at the Marriot Hotel in Melrose Arch, the event shined the spotlight on three women who have led with courage, grace, and purpose; Monica Geingos, former First Lady of Namibia; Wendy Ackerman, co-founder of Pick n Pay Holdings; and Dr. Naledi Pandor, South Africa’s former Minister of International Relations and Cooperation.

 Faith Kanyile on being beacon of hope and resilience for women across Africa

The National Energy Regulator of South Africa (NERSA) has had its public hearings in Cape Town today to consider Eskom’s proposed electricity tariff hike of 36% for the 2025 financial year.

 The hearings, which will travel through all nine provinces before concluding on December 4, 2024, aim to gather public input on this contentious proposal. Eskom’s application outlines further tariff increases of 12% for 2026/27 and 9% for 2027/28, projecting revenue collections of R446 billion, R495 billion, and R537 billion, respectively, over the next three years.

Residents and stakeholders have expressed frustration over the financial burden these hikes could impose, particularly on vulnerable households and small businesses already grappling with economic hardship.

This increase, part of Eskom’s Multi-Year Price Determination (MYPD6) submission to the National Energy Regulator of South Africa (NERSA), has sparked widespread concern amid the country’s ongoing economic challenges.

SAFCEI warns that such a steep rise in electricity costs will deepen the energy affordability crisis, disproportionately affecting low-income households, small businesses, and vulnerable communities. The multi-faith eco-justice organization argues that a systemic review of South Africa's electricity pricing model is critical to ensure affordability, sustainability, and equity in the country's energy supply.

 To further unpack we are joined on the line by To further unpack we talk Francesca de Gasparis, Executive Director at SAFCEI (South African Faith Communities' Environmental Institute)

The National Energy Regulator of South Africa (NERSA) has had its public hearings in Cape Town today to consider Eskom’s proposed electricity tariff hike of 36% for the 2025 financial year.
 The hearings, which will travel through all nine provinces before concluding on December 4, 2024, aim to gather public input on this contentious proposal. Eskom’s application outlines further tariff increases of 12% for 2026/27 and 9% for 2027/28, projecting revenue collections of R446 billion, R495 billion, and R537 billion, respectively, over the next three years.
Residents and stakeholders have expressed frustration over the financial burden these hikes could impose, particularly on vulnerable households and small businesses already grappling with economic hardship.
This increase, part of Eskom’s Multi-Year Price Determination (MYPD6) submission to the National Energy Regulator of South Africa (NERSA), has sparked widespread concern amid the country’s ongoing economic challenges.
SAFCEI warns that such a steep rise in electricity costs will deepen the energy affordability crisis, disproportionately affecting low-income households, small businesses, and vulnerable communities. The multi-faith eco-justice organization argues that a systemic review of South Africa's electricity pricing model is critical to ensure affordability, sustainability, and equity in the country's energy supply.
 To further unpack we are joined on the line by To further unpack we talk Francesca de Gasparis, Executive Director at SAFCEI (South African Faith Communities' Environmental Institute)

NERSA Public Hearings Begin: Eskom’s 36% tariff hike sparks national debate

For nearly a century and a half, mining has stood as the cornerstone of South Africa's economy, contributing significantly to GDP and serving as a primary driver of exports however, this sector now faces illegal mining. In 2024 alone, illegal mining is estimated to cost South Africa over R70 billion annually, exacerbating the strain on an already challenged industry.

Beyond economic repercussions, illegal mining casts a shadow over local communities, formal mining operations, and the environment. This growing crisis highlights the urgency for comprehensive solutions, including stronger enforcement, regulatory reform, and community engagement. To further unpack we are joined on the line by Mandy Hattingh, Legal Practitioner - energy law expert

For nearly a century and a half, mining has stood as the cornerstone of South Africa's economy, contributing significantly to GDP and serving as a primary driver of exports however, this sector now faces illegal mining. In 2024 alone, illegal mining is estimated to cost South Africa over R70 billion annually, exacerbating the strain on an already challenged industry.
Beyond economic repercussions, illegal mining casts a shadow over local communities, formal mining operations, and the environment. This growing crisis highlights the urgency for comprehensive solutions, including stronger enforcement, regulatory reform, and community engagement. To further unpack we are joined on the line by Mandy Hattingh, Legal Practitioner - energy law expert

A call for sustainable solutions to the Zama Zama crisis

Often we hear the phrase “the dating streets are cold” or “the best way to get over someone is to get under”, well today we are taking a different approach we are focusing on the power of embracing singlehood and focusing on self-growth. Rather than viewing singlehood as simply a waiting period, it’s an opportunity to build confidence, explore passions and clarify personal values; by working on yourself, you not only learn more about what truly fulfills you, but you also become more resilient, self-aware and open to creating a healthy, balanced partnership when the time is right.

Yesterday was singles day with people celebrating their journey of love while others felt that their singleness was emphasized on the day and some chose to reflect and see what they can improve on when deciding to go into a relationship. This period of personal investment isn’t about perfection, but about becoming the best version of yourself for both you and your future partner. To further unpack we are joined on the line by Love Coach

Often we hear the phrase “the dating streets are cold” or “the best way to get over someone is to get under”, well today we are taking a different approach we are focusing on the power of embracing singlehood and focusing on self-growth. Rather than viewing singlehood as simply a waiting period, it’s an opportunity to build confidence, explore passions and clarify personal values; by working on yourself, you not only learn more about what truly fulfills you, but you also become more resilient, self-aware and open to creating a healthy, balanced partnership when the time is right.
Yesterday was singles day with people celebrating their journey of love while others felt that their singleness was emphasized on the day and some chose to reflect and see what they can improve on when deciding to go into a relationship. This period of personal investment isn’t about perfection, but about becoming the best version of yourself for both you and your future partner. To further unpack we are joined on the line by Love Coach

PILLOW TALK: Building a better you during your single days

Fresh from her recent visit to New York City, where she dazzled at the IMTA (International Modeling and Talent Association) convention, 15-year-old South African actress Reneiloe Mathebula’s journey to stardom is in full swing. The aspiring star won a coveted Top 10 Best Actress award, impressing a panel of industry heavyweights and talent agents from around the globe.
Reneiloe’s international journey continues, as she’s set to become the first South African actress to attend the prestigious Universal Actors Sessions in Los Angeles, happening in February 2025, where she’ll get the opportunity to audition one-on-one with top Hollywood agents and casting directors. As she prepares for her Hollywood debut, Reneiloe is committed to honing her craft, planning to attend local courses to deepen her industry knowledge. She joins us in studio

Fresh from her recent visit to New York City, where she dazzled at the IMTA (International Modeling and Talent Association) convention, 15-year-old South African actress Reneiloe Mathebula’s journey to stardom is in full swing. The aspiring star won a coveted Top 10 Best Actress award, impressing a panel of industry heavyweights and talent agents from around the globe. Reneiloe’s international journey continues, as she’s set to become the first South African actress to attend the prestigious Universal Actors Sessions in Los Angeles, happening in February 2025, where she’ll get the opportunity to audition one-on-one with top Hollywood agents and casting directors. As she prepares for her Hollywood debut, Reneiloe is committed to honing her craft, planning to attend local courses to deepen her industry knowledge. She joins us in studio

South African star Reneiloe Mathebula shines on the international stage

Following Donald Trump’s USA’s presidential win, the cryptocurrency market has surged with Bitcoin breaking past its previous all-time high to trade above $75,000, this unexpected rally is largely attributed to Trump’s pro-crypto stance, which investors believe could lead to a more favourable regulatory environment in the U.S. for digital assets. With the total crypto market cap jumping 14% overnight and trading volumes doubling, global investors are capitalizing on this and opening doors for further growth in the sector.
On the one hand, Bitcoin’s rally highlights the potential for high returns in cryptocurrency investments, however on the other hand, the volatility associated with such market reactions emphasizes the importance of cautious investment. As African investors navigate these developments, many see this as an opportunity to increase participation in the crypto space, while also watching for possible regulatory shifts that may impact the global crypto landscape. To further unpack we talk Christo de Wit, Luno Country Manager

Following Donald Trump’s USA’s presidential win, the cryptocurrency market has surged with Bitcoin breaking past its previous all-time high to trade above $75,000, this unexpected rally is largely attributed to Trump’s pro-crypto stance, which investors believe could lead to a more favourable regulatory environment in the U.S. for digital assets. With the total crypto market cap jumping 14% overnight and trading volumes doubling, global investors are capitalizing on this and opening doors for further growth in the sector. On the one hand, Bitcoin’s rally highlights the potential for high returns in cryptocurrency investments, however on the other hand, the volatility associated with such market reactions emphasizes the importance of cautious investment. As African investors navigate these developments, many see this as an opportunity to increase participation in the crypto space, while also watching for possible regulatory shifts that may impact the global crypto landscape. To further unpack we talk Christo de Wit, Luno Country Manager

What does Donald Trump’s presidential win mean for your investments as an African? 

Recent incidents, including high-profile cases of smuggling, illegal crossings and delays in customs processing, have highlighted vulnerabilities that officials are keen to address; in response to escalating challenges at key border points, South Africa has announced plans to strengthen border control measures, aiming to better manage security, immigration and trade flows. As cross-border movement intensifies, especially along routes connecting South Africa to its neighbouring countries, government agencies are collaborating to enhance surveillance, deploy more personnel and introduce advanced technology to secure the nation’s borders more effectively.

Officials argue that stricter border management will not only curb illegal activities but also streamline legal trade and travel, ultimately strengthening national security. To further unpack we are joined on the line by Daniel du Plessis, Marketing and Communication Director at Milkor 

Recent incidents, including high-profile cases of smuggling, illegal crossings and delays in customs processing, have highlighted vulnerabilities that officials are keen to address; in response to escalating challenges at key border points, South Africa has announced plans to strengthen border control measures, aiming to better manage security, immigration and trade flows. As cross-border movement intensifies, especially along routes connecting South Africa to its neighbouring countries, government agencies are collaborating to enhance surveillance, deploy more personnel and introduce advanced technology to secure the nation’s borders more effectively.
Officials argue that stricter border management will not only curb illegal activities but also streamline legal trade and travel, ultimately strengthening national security. To further unpack we are joined on the line by Daniel du Plessis, Marketing and Communication Director at Milkor

A call for stricter measures along all South African borders

Serious and topical issues on continent, breaking stories.

Serious and topical issues on continent, breaking stories.

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