What if the messiest, most imperfect parts of your life were the point? Sarah Shahi is sitting down with me for a real, raw conversation that will rearrange how you think about worthiness, perfectionism, and the love you are here for.
Today I am reading Sarah’s natal chart and diving into the new book that poured out of her, Life Is Lifey. Sarah has a T square in her three main placements (Aries rising, Capricorn Sun, Libra Moon), which means she came in this lifetime to work with tension, intensity, and a drive to figure out the truth of who she is. Add in Moon conjunct Pluto in the 7th house, and you have a woman who is wired for the deepest possible love, the kind that alchemizes you in every lifetime.
We get into the 7 year Uranus in Gemini transit that is about to flip her abundance story, the empty Cancer point in her chart that is the release valve for her whole life, why she is single for the first time in 23 years, and the conversation every perfectionist needs to hear about worthiness.
Press play and share this one with a friend who is in a season of rebuilding herself from the inside out.
Topics Covered:
- Reading Sarah’s natal chart live: Aries rising, Capricorn Sun, Libra Moon, and the T square that shapes her life
- How a T square actually works, why the tension is the gift, and how the empty leg shows you where to place your energy for relief
- Moon conjunct Pluto in the 7th house and why Sarah is wired for deep, alchemizing partnership
- Mars in Virgo in the 6th house as her chart ruler, and how daily devotion becomes her superpower
- Jupiter retrograde in Virgo in the 5th house: expansion that happens inward through creativity and self-healing
- North Node in Virgo, South Node in Pisces: the lifetime lesson around ending the escape and ending the hiding
- The Cancer release valve: building an inner sanctuary at home and regulating the nervous system as the foundation for everything you want to manifest
- The 7 year Uranus in Gemini transit hitting Sarah’s 2nd house and what it is about to rewrite around worth, abundance, and money
- Sarah’s new book Life Is Lifey, why she wrote it on the floor through tears, and the real meaning behind the title
- The worthiness trap: how perfectionism blocks manifestation more than effort ever could
- Being single after 23 years together and what this chapter is teaching her about receiving
- Manifesting partnership without desperation: write the vision, feel it fully, and let it go
- Scorpio men, loyalty that feels not of this earth, and what happens when a sensitive man is allowed to feel
- Rock bottom, getting back up, and the spiritual math of how the hardest seasons produce the biggest expansions
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Timestamps:
- [00:03] Welcome and introducing Sarah Shahi + her book "Life Is Lifey"
- [00:59] Sarah's big three: Aries rising, Capricorn Sun, Libra Moon
- [09:17] Moon conjunct Pluto in the 7th house: the craving for depth
- [15:30] Scorpio men and suppressed emotional depth
- [20:27] The T-square explained + Cancer as the release valve
- [22:27] Building a zen corner at home for nervous system regulation
- [29:11] Being single after 23 years, newly navigating love
- [34:00] Writing "Life Is Lifey" to heal herself + her North Node in Virgo
- [40:46] Self-worth, perfectionism, and the worthiness trap
- [45:25] Manifesting a partner: new moon ritual and surrender
- [55:31] Saying "Universe, I'm done" after the dry spell + finding happiness first
- [1:01:27] Jupiter entering Leo: expansion in the home