Are you ready to confess? 'Cause we have something we wanna talk about! Singapore's 1st clinical sexologist, Dr Martha Tara Lee, joins us for an honest discussion on love, lust and all things coitus. We ask Martha all the burning questions we have, including: Can pornography be educational or destructive? Is no sex in a relationship a red flag? Should d*ck cheese and unwashed genitals be the ultimate dealbreaker? Also, how is Martha's sex life as a sexologist? As with many of our episodes, we find ourselves in therapy mode, unpacking our most traumatic sexcapades! Like why Josh developed a fear of sex. And why Sam Jo doesn't always enjoy choking. 

Watch the full video version of this episode on Youtube at The SG Boys channel.

Are you ready to confess? 'Cause we have something we wanna talk about! Singapore's 1st clinical sexologist, Dr Martha Tara Lee, joins us for an honest discussion on love, lust and all things coitus. We ask Martha all the burning questions we have, including: Can pornography be educational or destructive? Is no sex in a relationship a red flag? Should d*ck cheese and unwashed genitals be the ultimate dealbreaker? Also, how is Martha's sex life as a sexologist? As with many of our episodes, we find ourselves in therapy mode, unpacking our most traumatic sexcapades! Like why Josh developed a fear of sex. And why Sam Jo doesn't always enjoy choking.&nbsp;
Watch the full video version of this episode on Youtube at The SG Boys channel.

LGBTQ+ Singaporeans gather around a microphone to share stories of love, loss, friendship and family.

Hosted by Joshua Simon, Sam Jo and Kennede Sng. Recorded in Singapore, a largely conservative country that criminalises sex between men and where there are no anti-discrimination laws for LGBTQ+ people, The SG Boys aims to be a safe space where all are welcome.

The beliefs, views and opinions expressed on the podcast are attributable to its hosts only, and are not intended to malign any religion, ethnic group, organisation, company or individual.

Subscribe and connect with us on Instagram: @TheSGBoys

For media requests or collaborations, contact our Communications Lead, Rachael De Foe comms@rachaeldefoe.com 

LGBTQ+ Singaporeans gather around a microphone to share stories of love, loss, friendship and family.
Hosted by Joshua Simon, Sam Jo and Kennede Sng. Recorded in Singapore, a largely conservative country that criminalises sex between men and where there are no anti-discrimination laws for LGBTQ+ people, The SG Boys aims to be a safe space where all are welcome.
The beliefs, views and opinions expressed on the podcast are attributable to its hosts only, and are not intended to malign any religion, ethnic group, organisation, company or individual.
Subscribe and connect with us on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thesgboys/">@TheSGBoys</a>
For media requests or collaborations, contact our Communications Lead, Rachael De Foe <a href="mailto:comms@rachaeldefoe.com">comms@rachaeldefoe.com </a>

The SG Boys

This is what happens when you put gay Singaporeans in a room together with a microphone. Colourful, earnest conversations on life lessons, pop culture and above all things, love.

Recorded in a largely conservative country where same-sex sexual activity is illegal, The SG Boys is a safe space where all are welcome.

This is what happens when you put gay Singaporeans in a room together with a microphone. Colourful, earnest conversations on life lessons, pop culture and above all things, love.
Recorded in a largely conservative country where same-sex sexual activity is illegal, The SG Boys is a safe space where all are welcome.

Confessions Of A Sexologist | with Dr Martha Lee

You wanted more in 2026 so here we go! Would we date each other? What's the worst gay dating app? Why does military wear turn us on so much?

The conversation turns tender as we wonder: Is being gay more a blessing or a curse? Surely queer pop culture and the unapologetic appreciation of penis are reasons enough to celebrate! Or is being loud and proud a privilege that not everyone can afford?

This episode was recorded before noon in broad daylight. Tune in as we veer off on various tangents and demonstrate why we are not morning people.

You wanted more in 2026 so here we go! Would we date each other? What's the worst gay dating app? Why does military wear turn us on so much?
The conversation turns tender as we wonder: Is being gay more a blessing or a curse? Surely queer pop culture and the unapologetic appreciation of penis are reasons enough to celebrate! Or is being loud and proud a privilege that not everyone can afford?
This episode was recorded before noon in broad daylight. Tune in as we veer off on various tangents and demonstrate why we are not morning people.

Hot Takes

It's been 5 years since our first episode together! The Power of 3 is back in the studio as we summon OG #SGBoy Kennede Sng to celebrate our journey thus far. Kennede is no longer a twink, Josh is now a bottom (?) and Sam Jo reveals a secret, vodka-laced episode that has not (yet) seen the light of day. Are we the drama? Yes! Do we still struggle with demons like alcohol and nicotine addiction? Very much so. But we also know that these imperfections have been, for better or for worse, so instrumental to our growth. Growth that you, our dear listeners, have witnessed and helped us with. Join us on this trip down memory lane as we also recount our favourite moments from the past 5 years.

P.S. All of our episodes past and present are now available on YouTube! Stay tuned for some bonus, video-exclusive snippets coming soon…

It's been 5 years since our first episode together! The Power of 3 is back in the studio as we summon OG #SGBoy Kennede Sng to celebrate our journey thus far. Kennede is no longer a twink, Josh is now a bottom (?) and Sam Jo reveals a secret, vodka-laced episode that has not (yet) seen the light of day. Are we the drama? Yes! Do we still struggle with demons like alcohol and nicotine addiction? Very much so. But we also know that these imperfections have been, for better or for worse, so instrumental to our growth. Growth that you, our dear listeners, have witnessed and helped us with. Join us on this trip down memory lane as we also recount our favourite moments from the past 5 years.
P.S. All of our episodes past and present are now available on YouTube! Stay tuned for some bonus, video-exclusive snippets coming soon&hellip;

Bottoms Up! 

Elphaba and Glinda have flown in early for a special Halloween episode with The SG Boys! Meet the House of Haute Mess, the dynamic duo who are Singapore's answer to Heidi Klum every All Hallows' Eve. Not only do they adore Halloween, Sissy and Sassy Sucktits are also a pair of lovebirds who do drag together and who are revered for their immaculate costumes and performances. Named Asia's Most Stylish by Tatler Singapore, the couple tell Josh and Sam Jo where they get their inspiration, how drag has tested - but ultimately strengthened - their relationship and why the spooky season means so much to them. Also in this episode: Josh has fractured his foot! We share our favourite scary movies, a gospel song that'll move you, never-before-seen footage of a pandemic lip-sync (special shoutout to Baby Boy)...and which basic Halloween costumes we do NOT want to see again.

This episode is dedicated to Sam Jo's Halloween partner in crime, Sue-Ann, as well as every other person - queer or not - who has felt less afraid to express themselves on October 31.

Elphaba and Glinda have flown in early for a special Halloween episode with The SG Boys! Meet the House of Haute Mess, the dynamic duo who are Singapore's answer to Heidi Klum every All Hallows' Eve. Not only do they adore Halloween, Sissy and Sassy Sucktits are also a pair of lovebirds who do drag together and who are revered for their immaculate costumes and performances. Named Asia's Most Stylish by Tatler Singapore, the couple tell Josh and Sam Jo where they get their inspiration, how drag has tested - but ultimately strengthened - their relationship and why the spooky season means so much to them. Also in this episode: Josh has fractured his foot! We share our favourite scary movies, a gospel song that'll move you, never-before-seen footage of a pandemic lip-sync (special shoutout to Baby Boy)...and which basic Halloween costumes we do NOT want to see again.
This episode is dedicated to Sam Jo's Halloween partner in crime, Sue-Ann, as well as every other person - queer or not - who has felt less afraid to express themselves on October 31.

Confessions Of A Sexologist | with Dr Martha Lee

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