Have you ever considered why we tell our kids to 'be themselves' when sticking out from the crowd can make you the subject of bullying?

Umbrella Wellbeing CEO and psychologist Dr Dougal Sutherland joined Tim Beveridge to chat about the balances of supporting our children and allowing them to stand on their own. 

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Have you ever considered why we tell our kids to 'be themselves' when sticking out from the crowd can make you the subject of bullying?
Umbrella Wellbeing CEO and psychologist Dr Dougal Sutherland joined Tim Beveridge to chat about the balances of supporting our children and allowing them to stand on their own.&nbsp;
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If it takes a village to raise a child, it must take a whole country to raise a family! Newstalk ZB’s Parent Squad helps to do just that. Joined by expert guests The Weekend Collective team delves into the complexities of Kiwi family life.

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Dougal Sutherland: Does telling your kids to 'be yourself' just lead to bullying?

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/7784f840-c291-422a-924b-ad9000bbad71/clips/11b257dc-36a7-4d64-a960-b461006764f3/transcript

ACT's David Seymour has floated the idea of a smartphone ban for under-16s to replace a social media ban, allowing teenagers to only use good old brick phones.

Could this be a good alternative to the social media ban, or should this not be government decision?

John Cowan joins Tim Beveridge for The Parenting Squad to discuss. 

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ACT's David Seymour has floated the idea of a smartphone ban for under-16s to replace a social media ban, allowing teenagers to only use good old brick phones.
Could this be a good alternative to the social media ban, or should this not be government decision?
John Cowan joins Tim Beveridge for The Parenting Squad to discuss.&nbsp;
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John Cowan: Should kids under-16 have smartphones?

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What happens if my child starts befriending or dating someone I'm really not a fan of. How do I protect them from getting played or getting into a toxic relationship?

When should we interfere with our children's personal lives? When and how do we put our foot-down and say "no, you can't hang out with this person"

How do we do that with respectful authority, that strikes a balance between making sure you're not ruling with an iron fist, and that our kids understand where we're coming from?

Mindworks' Registered Psychologist Sara Chatwin joins Tim Beveridge to unpack what can be done.

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What happens if my child starts befriending or dating someone I'm really not a fan of. How do I protect them from getting played or getting into a toxic relationship?
When should we interfere with our children's personal lives? When and how do we put our foot-down and say "no, you can't hang out with this person"
How do we do that with respectful authority, that strikes a balance between making sure you're not ruling with an iron fist, and that our kids understand where we're coming from?
Mindworks' Registered Psychologist Sara Chatwin joins Tim Beveridge to unpack what can be done.
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Sara Chatwin: It's okay to interfere with your child's friendships

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/7784f840-c291-422a-924b-ad9000bbad71/clips/60cc6ea1-6a6f-4cd2-b3a0-b47d006175a0/transcript

Founder of Crayon Stephanie Pow joins Tim Beviredge on Parent Squad to discuss how you should monitor your kids' pocket money. When's the right time to get them started? And how much control should parents have to veto kids' purchases?

But is it all up to parents to teach kids about cash? Or do schools have a responsibility to help out. 

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Founder of Crayon Stephanie Pow joins Tim Beviredge on Parent Squad to discuss how you should monitor your kids' pocket money. When's the right time to get them started? And how much control should parents have to veto kids' purchases?
But is it all up to parents to teach kids about cash? Or do schools have a responsibility to help out.&nbsp;
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Stephanie Pow: Kids, pocket money and parental control - where do we start?

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/7784f840-c291-422a-924b-ad9000bbad71/clips/c20abfea-77a4-4e67-8a9c-b4760061da02/transcript

Dougal Sutherland: Does telling your kids to 'be yourself' just lead to bullying?

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